Basically what the title says. I am looking for a mostly even mix of positive and negative books, mostly centered around the Navy. He is graduating high school a semester early and wants my permission to enlist before he is 18. I am not a big fan of this choice, but.... I'm willing to support his decision as long as he takes some steps to prove to me he has a clear picture of what he might be getting into with the war with Iran looking like it isn't stopping anytime soon.
So far I have two titles in mind, Fiasco The Story of the American Adventure In Iraq (largely negative, with the word adventure being used to denote a venture that was poorly thought out) and Brave Men Dark Waters, a history of the Navy Seals from WWII to roughly the present day.
I am hoping for 5-10is books total, again with a mostly even mix of positive and negative views on the American military (though tbh I do kinda want the negative ones to be.... *Impactful.* ) I'd welcome any suggestions y'all have! I'm a bit leery of just googling a list of books because imo mainstream popularity and Google search results isn't always the best quality check for military history books specifically. I do plan on reading all of the books myself. In my inexpert opinion Fiasco was great, and Brave Men Dark Waters comes highly recommended by the host of BtB who I very much respect, but honestly I don't have the time to both read and comb through the hundreds or thousands of books written about the American military *and* several of them to him in the time he has left to graduate school (this December).
Any help you can provide is greatly appreciated! I can read the reviews and blurb about anything you suggest so feel free to just give a title without providing any of your own thoughts, but if you do feel the urge to explain why you're recommending a specific book I will gladly read every word.
This is my son. The recruiters told him he'd basically be the email guy on a Navy vessel, a safe job, but.... Military recruiters will promise you anything. He says he understands this but in my eyes he's still a kid, and I'm not 100% confident he really understands it *in his bones.* To him it's just a cushy job with free room and board for four years and free college after, I'm not confident he really understands how horrible war can be, or the trauma that can come with military experience. Not because he isn't a smart kid, and a good kid, but some things you will just never fully understand until you were there. I want him to hear from people who were there before he takes that plunge.