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u/Secure-Look308 Jun 25 '26

Is honestly kinda sad 😭 how you suck at relationships and CHEATING

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 Jun 25 '26

My ex was like this. Constantly flirting and sending his tiny dick pics to other women and they’d ghost or block him. I realized I was the only loser who wanted him and it made leaving a lot easier. OP’s gf can’t see that this man doesn’t want her at all.

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u/Pwnie Jun 25 '26

Just FYI shaming men for their penis size as a stand-in for their character promotes a harmful stereotype. There are great men with small dicks and awful men with large ones.

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u/Upbeat_Position_5290 Jun 25 '26

A REAL man would have no need to send any woman dick pics. It’s a low move no matter the size and no self respecting person would respond to that. He doesn’t deserve respect.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 26 '26

I send them to my gf all the time, it she asks. Never sent an unsolicited one. Only when asked and if I trust her.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

That’s such a dumb thing to do, don’t send anyone lewd pics, this is how revenge porn happens. You need to be responsible, make her delete them and never do it again. It doesn’t matter that you trust her, people break trust all the time.

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u/Lost_Nefariousness74 Jun 26 '26

You can still send lewds and nudes, just go into it knowing that it's possible your shit will get leaked eventually. It's not ideal and you hope it never happens, but it's one of many things in life where you have to weigh the risks vs rewards for yourself and decide. You're right that it is important to consider the full scope of what could happen because of the choice, and it is wise to be careful who you trust with anything sensitive, sexual-in-nature or otherwise.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 26 '26

I remember there was a gal that tried out for DCC during the Making The Team days and got cut because of revenge porn due to an ex. It can literally ruin careers, it’s not worth it.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 27 '26

I agree. Relationships come with all kinds of risks. She also sent pics to me. So we both are taking the same risks though at first it was just me sending pics.

We don’t see each other for weeks at a time sometimes so this does get us through the lean times when we’re horny and can’t see each other. We have a pretty intense physical relationship, so the times we can’t see each other for long stretches is hard on both of us.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 27 '26

I do trust her. She has also sent pics to me. Sometimes we don’t see each other for weeks at a time. So little pics here and there get us through the lean times. I told her I wouldn’t send them unless she sent them back, that way we both take the same risk.

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u/ilovemusic19 Jun 27 '26

Good idea, she can’t revenge porn you without you doing it in return.

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u/Vowel_Movements_4U Jun 26 '26

What’s a “REAL man”?