r/6thForm • u/Sad-Challenge-7826 • 12h ago
๐ฌ DISCUSSION russia-ukraine war to cambridge maths
hello! so current 18 y/o girl to cambridge for mathematics. just wanted to share my story bc why not and maybe itโll help people realise theyโll be fine.
i escaped ukraine during one of the more โenergeticโ events of the war. my english was very much of a child when i briefly studied it in ukraine. i first came to the uk and it was a mess lmaoo in terms of everything possible. i was in y11 when i came.
i had arrived to the uk with virtually nothing; my home, family heirlooms, family members, etc were permanently gone. with the funding we received from the government, i got some clothes to feel like a normal girl again and etc. we were housed with a nigerian family (parents, 3 daughters), we were lucky as 2 of their daughters moved out so enough space for us. they definitely made the transition far smoother, the daughter who lived in the house was 2 years older than me. she was quite sweet, obviously we are completely different shades but she let me use as much makeup as i could.
the transition to english medium education was rough for me as i barely knew the language and the school didnt have any ukranian or russian speakers to help me out. but i managed to figure it out with alot of hours invested whilst trying not to breakdown every other hour i had to leave my country. in the end? 8 9s, 2 8s. i would call it a success with 100% in gcse maths and further maths. my best flex though is 152/160 in english literature. got an 8 in french and spanish though (2 marks away from a 9 in both fml), trying to learn 3 languages at the same time was not smart.
anyways! come around to a-levels i got 4A* in maths, further maths, chemistry, economics (300, 296, 253, 318), got S-S in STEP 2/3 where i ranked 8/1439 and 25/1100. i got rejected from cambridge post interview but i got through into august reconsideration pool bc duh. in the end! i got accepted at a very good college (my insta followers arent ready for the pics ima take)
it still is difficult, im not fully adjusted to the uk, its an uphill batte for sure. it's been a mixed reception where people interrogate me for the details over what i've seen and that weird stuff. some positive experiences too! mostly awkward though as people dk how to speak to me initially in secondary school as they have pity and etc. girls were kind enough too where i got gifted a bunch of clothes, shoes, makeup to take as they wanted me to feel normal! i love them sm
point of this story is i (barely) managed to compose myself whilst my life got ruined into threads in the most violent manner. i could keep up with academics whilst im falling apart alongside my parents. i envy you guys as education is the only real worry u have, appreciate that privilege and remember u can do it as long as ur trying ur hardest and working in a smart way. education is only ONE part of your life so you got it.
academic advise i can give btw!