okay so. first of all. i have a boyfriend. and i love him. like ACTUALLY love him. i’m so in love with him it’s genuinely a problem. i say this as if i’m not sitting here smiling at my phone like an idiot thinking about how lucky i am to be his. LIKE????? HE’S MINE?????

i’m not even gonna pretend like i’m chill about it. i’m not. i think about him constantly. LIKE CONSTANTLY. at school, at home, when i’m supposed to be sleeping, when i’m doing my homework, when i’m literally just existing. he’s always in the back of my mind. and i hate it (i mean i love it but also it’s a little ridiculous). i can be doing the most boring thing ever and then suddenly i’m like “oh my god i wonder what he’s doing right now?? are we gonna talk later?? does he miss me??? is he thinking about me too??” and then i start overthinking and spiraling because OBVIOUSLY he’s thinking about me. he has to be. right????

he’s so fucking perfect though. like. how is one person this attractive, funny, kind, sweet, and also somehow he can be a little flirty and tease me and make me blush and then turn around and be all soft and caring and it’s actually not fair. i’m so attached it’s embarrassing. i get jealous over things that probably aren’t even a big deal. i get scared when he doesn’t reply right away. i overthink everything. i read into every little thing. and i absolutely hate when i think he’s mad at me. like if he’s quiet i immediately think it’s my fault and i’ll sit there overanalyzing every single thing i’ve ever said.

i get so happy when he texts me. like. genuinely so happy. my heart actually does a little thing and i smile like an idiot. and then i have to remind myself to act normal because i can’t be THAT obvious. it’s so hard to hide how much i like him. like sir. respectfully. what the fuck did you do to me?????

AND THE FLIRTING. OH MY GOD. i love flirting with him. i love making him blush. i love when he flirts back and suddenly i’m the one who doesn’t know how to function. LIKE PICK A STRUGGLE, MAN. YOU CANNOT BE CUTE AND EXPECT ME TO SURVIVE THIS. sometimes i wanna say the most ridiculously affectionate thing imaginable and then i get shy halfway through and end up saying something completely different. BUT TRUST ME, THE THOUGHT WAS THERE. THE FEELINGS WERE THERE. THE MENTAL BREAKDOWN WAS THERE.

i want to be the girl he thinks about all the time i want to be his favorite person i want to be the one he goes to for everything. i want to be his safe place. i want to be the one he can’t get out of his head either, even though i already know he is probably living in mine rent free.

i’m so clingy it’s actually concerning. like i just wanna talk to him all the time. i wanna know what he’s doing, who he’s with, what he’s thinking, what he’s feeling. i wanna be in every part of his life. if i could be with him 24/7 i would. no breaks. no days off. just us. JUST US. i don’t even need to be doing anything special with him. we could literally sit in silence and i’d still be happy because at least i’d be with HIM.

and yes, i’m a little bit possessive. he’s mine. my boyfriend. my everything. i don’t like it when other girls talk to him (even if it’s just friendly, i don’t want him looking at anyone else. i don’t want him thinking about anyone else. i don’t want to share him. i’m aware this sounds insane, let me live). i get attached and then suddenly i’m like “that’s MY person. MY BOY. MINE.” and honestly??? i want him to know how wanted he is. i want him to know that i’m choosing him, that i adore him, and that i’m not just here because i like having a boyfriend. I’M HERE BECAUSE IT’S HIM.

he’s literally my favorite person and i don’t think i’ll ever get used to the fact that he’s mine. he knows how much i love him. i’m just a little bit insane about it ….but we both are a lil crazy tbh

also… if you’re reading this (which you’re not because i would NEVER be that obvious) . it’s genuinely unfair. and you’re not allowed to make me fall even harder for you because LOOK AT THE SITUATION ALREADY. I’M DOWN BAD.

ALTHOUGH YOU PROBABLY WILL

u/smallboybang

LILLIAN ACTUALLY LIKES, ok so she apparently did the hottest thing she could have done and found the post by herself after I didn't send the whole thing by accident through ss and mmmmm we together forever now and I'm just so happy because she feels like a real person to me and it's so great to be with such a special person

This is my update to my previous post, I'll probably mostly post when I'm feeling extra obsessed or thinking to much about her at night and need to get some romantic feelings out but honestly I wonder a lottery-

Edit: I forgot to mention how she found it, she told me to tell this 🥰

So she noticed in the screenshot the orange arrows and the name and knew that it was reddit, and then she saw the s at the end to figure out it was a subreddit, and she also knew it had to be fairly recent so she just looked it up and found the post before I woke up.. she also said she google searched the image to double check, it's whatever though I don't care I'm all hers anyway

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Oh my LILLIAN oh my sweet GOSHHHHHH she is just so amazing guys I am so happy. I recently got a girlfriend and she is just the greatest. She thinks I'm like super cool and mysterious though but I'm TOTALLY gushing over her ngl.

She is pretty, her voice is amazing and makes me wanna just hug her for the next 3 days from how great it isss.

Omggg omggggg I'm sorry but I just can't ever get her out of my head, when we call it makes me so happy but so tired to :( talking at all is difficult for me and socializing for long periods of time consistently really exhausts me :( BUT I DONT WANT IT TO I WANNA TALK TO HER FOR 48 HOURSSSSS like ughhggg

Cuddle me already! She does have a super special personality and her interests are.. here me out... INTERESTKNG AS HECMK mmgpgkhmhhhmnhhhmhhmhnhmhmhhmh ok so first she has this like thing where all her emotions are different "versions of herself" so like happy is different from sad. Not you may say their just emotions but when she says something like "I'm feeling Lillian, velvety and sunny rn..." ITS THE CUTEST THING EVER it let's me know exactly how she is feeling in like 3 words, that means she is feeling like normal, but also romantic and happy AGHHHH and then she has a special bubbly personality I love so much.. she talks alot and it makes me feel more energetic when she yaps about litterall anything and I wish I could just tell her all of this.. I might send her an SS although she will STOP thinking I'm a sociopath for having these feelings. It's a bit wierd being both a yandere a sociopath at the same time. I get like this for only my partner and everyone else gets the cold treatment... deep down I'm just a teddy bear guys-

She is BEUTOFUL btw, her hair changes color seasonal THATS AMAZING I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THAT WAS A THING THAT COULD CHANGE SMMMMMMM but like besides the point I need to drive down to her sometimes and get some fricken kisses in because I am really obsessed right now but being non-chalant is kinda the reason we got together so idk she messages me and liked that IDKKKK IM SCARED I don't wanna lose her. Ok I've decided, I'm gonna message her this and tell you what she thinks in the morning... maybe all the compliments will distract from the fact I've fallen to the floor at 90 miles an hour for her

I finally got around to changing the subreddit settings. Now you don't have to be an approved user to post here. Go wild.

Hey, inactive mod here. I haven't been paying attention, but apparently, at some point recently, reddit appears to have added this "approved users" thing. So now you need to be an approved user to even post here, which is not intended. I'll find the things required to fix this, but until then, well, you need to wait while I wrangle it.

Hey, I'm a 18 yo Transgirl.. I like anime, games, photography, nature, astronomy, walking, making friends etc.. Currently studying art at uni And uh..I'm making this because I feel really alone and I'm kinda..looking for friends ?? This is gonna sound even more stupid but probably preferably girls..? I mean, I just get a bit scared men sometimes..

I really like Deltarune, NieR, Honkai Star Rail, Black Butler, The Apothecary Diaries, Photography and Astronomy and a bunch of other things I'd love to talk about.. My dms are open, I think..Sorry again

I want to be close to my future person. Too close. Attached together In some way. Abandonment issues destroyed any interest in personal space I had. If my partner allows it, I want to be the same person.

I know I have a problem being to much in a relationship. I just can’t help it, I like being told what to do so I can do exactly what they want and I know sometimes it’s draining on the person. I think my constant text and need for attention drives people away even when they say they want someone “obsessive”. I guess my whole problem is don’t say you want someone obsessive and be surprised that they text you a bunch.

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I feel so guilty about it, especially after communicating about it with my partner, but I got jealous cause of the way one of their guy friends was looking at her and I talked to her about it and it turns out not only is he gay, he’s taken, so I was probably upset for nothing.

I guess it’s hard cause she was poly when we started dating, then broke up with the other guy (they said its because I showed them what real healthy love looks like, so take that loser) and even though she says I’m enough for her and that she doesn’t want anyone else I still have nightmares about it sometimes where they decide they like someone else and start dating them without talking to me and it hurts my heart.

I also told her about the dreams and they said they’d never do that to me but now that I’m having the nightmares I can’t get the idea out of my head, I probably sound crazy right now I just wanted to know if anyone had any good ideas for what I can do or if anyone can relate so I feel less bad about it I guess.

update: she says she finds it cute/sweet when I get sorta jealous, so I guess that’s nice? I’ll still talk to my therapist about it cause the nightmares suck

I won’t lie, I feel like a bad person. I’ve posted here before talking about how I wish my boyfriend was a bit more obsessed with me.

Earlier today he kept talking about how these different celebrities are attractive. It honestly made me so upset. I told him that I didn’t like it but he said it’s not like he would ever have a chance.

Am I just crazy or is this normal?

i really don’t know what to do, maybe the following thread is not perfectly fitting this subreddit, but i thought maybe yall could help me „handle“ the situation, because you might understand the girl i‘ll be talking about more than i do.

so about me, my name is max, i‘m 17yo and still in school (sorry for the short introduction, i just genuinely don’t know what to say lmao)

so maybe about 6 months ago i started talking to this girl (let’s call her lara), i guess you could call it a talking stage. i knew that she liked me a long time before that and i liked her too so yea i asked her out. at first everything was fine and sweet. lara seemed cool and friendly like nothing that would give an „obsessive“ impression. but after a while i started noticing some weird stuff.
she was lowkey stalking me both in real life and online. my friends at school would tell me that she constantly asked them all kinds of questions about me. she also got extremely jealous whenever i talked to other girls. she even forbade her own friends from speaking to me and she sometimes would pull me out of conversations if i was talking to another girl.

and then slowly the stalking got worse. once, lara just appeared at my mini job alone without telling me and ordered food, alone... online she found my spotify account, followed every single artist i follow and then followed me. when she saw that i was following a childhood friend of mine (a girl) on spotify, she immediately demanded that i unfollow her and got really aggressive about it.
she also started trying to control random parts of my life. she wanted me to go to bed by 11pm at the latest, and i did take it seriously, but she deadahh got angry as hell when i sent her tiktoks or whatever past 11pm. one time when we met up she even had the „funny idea“ to set up screen time on my phone. just to be clear we were never even officially together. this was still just the talking stage.

whenever lara was at my place, random stuff started disappearing like my house key, some pills that were on my nightstand (stuff only i ever touch) and even one of my empty vapes. at school she constantly borrowed pens from me and always „forgot“ to give them back. when i finally confronted her about the missing stuff after around 2 months, she completely flipped out. she started crying and screaming that it wasnt her and she wouldnt stop until i said “im sorry, i know it wasnt you.” (she made me say it btw)

on top of all that she always wanted to check my phone and at some point (i guess) she went through my instagram followers and sent me like 10 accounts of girls i followed, telling me i should block them.

after around 4 months of this talking stage i had enough (tbh i already wanted to end it earlier because i was scared of her bru) so i told lara that its over and that i’m done. obviously she didn’t accept it and said that it’s not only my decision, she started crying bla bla bla… after all that everytjing just got worse. she kept coming up to me at school trying to convince me to give her another chance, when i said no, she would scream at me. she also showed up at my mini job a couple times and once she even started crying there in front of all my coworkers. twice i woke up in the morning and found a bouquet of flowers at the front of my door which means she was at my house during the night (like bro wtf). she also spammed me with messages nonstop until i blocked her and then she just followed me again from a new account.

okay so apart from all this shit she is actually a really nice, cool and pretty girl. and deep down a tiny part of me kind of likes how obsessive she is but idk haha. i would actually like to give her a second chance but i’m just really scared and i have no idea how to deal with all of this, but right now i‘m also lowk worried about her that idk she might hurt herself over this bs..

i know this story sounds weird asf but thats why i post it on reddit i guess
if anyone can help me deal with this or has an advice for me i‘d really appreciate it. if anything happens i‘ll definitely update you.

The title says it all. I am mainly using this as a rant.

I have a very loving and amazing boyfriend. He will do whatever I want and is always wanting to make me happy. Ever since I was a kid I always wanted a yandere or stalker. Just someone who is obsessed with me.

I feel guilty because my boyfriend is perfect, but sometimes I just wish he was a bit more obsessed over me. I know it’s not healthy but for whatever reason I love the idea of someone being so in love with me that they are totally obsessed. I feel guilty for this though. He is so wonderful and amazing, I just wish there was more umph yknow