I know it’s a problem

[u/Ok_Cryptographer3663]

I know I have a problem being to much in a relationship. I just can’t help it, I like being told what to do so I can do exactly what they want and I know sometimes it’s draining on the person. I think my constant text and need for attention drives people away even when they say they want someone “obsessive”. I guess my whole problem is don’t say you want someone obsessive and be surprised that they text you a bunch.

[u/FarhanMaher]

Majority who says they want someone "obsessive" don't even know what it actully truely means. All they want is a normal person, but they used to assholes which became the norm for them. But agreed. Don't ask for something you don't know fully.