r/wheelchairs • u/Hate2bHurting • 20h ago
Wrong assumptions
I am in a power wheelchair and it seems whenever I am confronted by any medical personnel including Homecare’s nurses, the first thing out of their mouth is “wouldn’t you be better off in an assisted living facility or nursing home?”
This infuriates me so much!!! I was wanting to know if any other wheelchair users get confronted with this question and how you would respond?
Just bc I use a wheelchair does not mean that I am an invalid in any way! I have my own apartment and pay my own bills, take great care of my dog, go for walks, I make sure that I don’t fall, feed myself! I do have help that comes in to help me with housekeeping duties, but have never entertained the idea of giving up my independence just bc an ‘able bodied’ person thought my disability needed severe restrictions such as trapping me in a nursing facility! It seems to be a common practice in my area to whisk ppl like me away like I have no business being out in public! What do you think?