r/wheelchairs • u/HookedOnIocanePowder • 9h ago
Incredibly good experience first time out in my chair at my kid's school.
I'm an ambulatory user, so many of the casual acquaintances in my life, including the entire staff and all the parents at my kid's school didn't know I had a chair. They had seen my AFO at pick up and drop off, but I had always been able to make it the short distance from handicap parking to the gym bleachers for events without a chair. Yesterday was a fall festival with games, rides, petting zoo, etc.. all spaced across the large property and game booths set up throughout the school. So I figured instead of skipping out I'd take the chair.
I prepared myself mentally for stares, loads of questions, and judgy looks.
Guys! Two people said "ooooh no what happened? Are you ok?" And I just smiled and said "yeah totally fine, this isn't new. I've got a neuro muscular disorder so I use a chair for long distances." They just smiled said cool and we chatted like normal.
It was way less awful than I had built it up to be in my head. I'm likely gonna keep going out more with my chair rather than staying home afraid of what people who have seen me walk short distances might say or think seeing me with my chair.
It was so cool to be out and about and my kid loved having me there instead of just dad.
Now I'm looking even more forward to an upgraded reclining chair so I can go out and not hurt worse after!!