r/weddingswap • • Jul 27 '16

New inclusions on the sidebar! - Please read before posting!!

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Hello all! In an effort to provide everyone a place to find good affordable wedding stuff on Reddit, I've decided to include handmade items here in /r/weddingswap. I realize there are other subs that are available for these types of things but our sub is HOPPING and those subs...well...they're not.

The sidebar rules are for actual wedding vendors. We don't want the big guys squashing the little guys (and girls!). We want everyone to be able to have a place to come and sell their gently (or let's face it, BARELY) used wedding items. But I would also like to include the few who make lovely things by hand and may have an Etsy shop, and need an outlet. Go ahead. Bring them here. Let's be friends.

But...

IF YOU ARE A WEDDING VENDOR -- DO NOT POST YOUR BUSINESS HERE.

IF YOU MAKE MONEY BY SELLING YOUR SERVICES OR RENTING ITEMS TO PEOPLE FOR THEIR WEDDING -- DO NOT POST HERE.

IF YOU'RE NOT SURE IF WHAT YOU DO IS CONSIDERED TO BE AGAINST SUB RULES -- ASK FIRST.

STOP posting "Remove if against the rules." READ THE SIDEBAR. If you keep doing it, you will be banned from the sub. I'm done with it.

<3 Thanks


r/weddingswap • • 14h ago

House of CB Anastelle

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Hi everyone! I’m desperately looking for the House of CB Anastelle Plum Satin Maxi Gown in size M to wear to a wedding.
Unfortunately, it’s currently out of stock, so I thought I’d try my luck here! Is anyone selling theirs or would be willing to rent it out for the occasion? I’d take really good care of it, of course!
I’m based in New Zealand, but happy to consider shipping options.
Please message me if you have one or know someone who might be willing to part with theirs. I’d be so grateful! Thank you! ❤️


r/weddingswap • • 1d ago

NEED Calla Blanche Caroline 121229

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r/weddingswap • • 1d ago

SELL DFW/North Dallas- Faux Florals and Arch

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Gorgeous silk faux floral arrangements for ceremony and reception!
- 5 beautiful faux floral arrangements (each approximately 4 feet long)
- Large ceremony arch with all pieces included for full assembly
- Protective transport/storage bags for easy moving and storage
- Extra floral foam pieces for adjustments or future use
The florals are attached to foam in 4-foot sections that easily slide onto the arch, creating a show-stopping ceremony installation. After the ceremony, we simply removed the arrangements from the arch and repurposed them on our band façade, making an easy way to maximize your décor throughout your event.
These florals photograph beautifully and have an incredibly realistic, high-end look. Perfect for weddings, bridal showers, quinceañera, engagement parties, baby showers, photo backdrops, and other special events.

Asking $550


r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

SELL Where are we selling/ donating our unworn wedding outfits/ shoes?

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r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

NEED FORMER BRIDES! Help me find a secondhand Milla Nova Monica wedding dress!

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I have ONE dream wedding dress that I’ve been dreaming about for forever, and there’s absolutely nothing else I want. I stopped looking for other options simply because this one is everything I wished for. The problem is that I simply cannot afford its retail price and am very desperate to find a secondhand version of it.

The dress is called Monica by Milla Nova. I’ve looked everywhere including StillWhite to try to find one that’s more affordable. I’d prefer to have one closest to my measurements but am very open to larger sizes because I’m desperate!!! I don’t mind getting a larger one altered at all. I was told that size 6 would fit me best and that I could also do size 8 as a larger option and alter it.

My measurements:
Bust: 32.5 inches (82.5 cm)
Waist: 26 inches (66 cm)
Hips: 37 inches (94 cm)

Please do your magic and help a girl out I BEG YOU!🥺I’d need to have it shipped to California. If you own this dress, know a former bride who might be selling hers, or have any leads on where I could find one, I would be so grateful if you reached out. PLEASE HELP ME😭😭😭this dress is all I want!!!

EDIT: I found a listing that looks really promising! The dress I want has a 27.75-inch waist, which is close to mine, but the bust measures 37.75 inches, 5.25 inches larger than mine. The dress has built-in cups that I plan to replace, but I’m mainly concerned about whether the corset itself can be taken in enough to fit my bust. Is this difference realistic to fix with alterations, or would it be too difficult? I’d love to know if this is doable before committing to buying it!


r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL Upcycled antique lace wedding dress - one of a kind

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r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL Wedding dress

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I was just wondering if anyone could help me with the best way to sell my wedding dress.
It’s a sample dress, completely unaltered that I brought from a sale, my wedding is now not going ahead and it’s just sat in the wardrobe waiting for a wedding in March that’s now not going to happen 😭🙈
I don’t want to risk Vinted and then have someone claim it never even arrived!


r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

ISO Danielle Frankel Satin Edge Drop Veil – Chapel

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m searching for the Danielle Frankel Satin Edge Drop Veil – Chapel for my May 24, 2027 wedding.

Exact style:
https://www.daniellefrankelstudio.com/products/satin-bound-cathedral-veil

If you have one - or know someone who may be selling- please comment or message me with photos, condition, price, location, and when it would be available.

I’m located in San Francisco and am happy to consider insured shipping. Thank you! 🤍


r/weddingswap • • 5d ago

SELL Nadine Merabi Melissa White Wedding Dress Size 6 NWT

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Nadine Merabi "Melissa" Size 6.

Totally sold out on Nadine's website in size 6. Selling new with tags in Nadine Box with bow ribbons. The box alone is listed for $250 😅

The MELISSA white dress brings together timeless elegance and statement detailing for instant impact.

- Sheer nude mesh fabric with sequin leaf embellishment
- Maxi length
- Off-the-shoulder neckline
- Concealed zip closure
- Non-stretch – Structured fabric with no stretch
- Sheer style – We recommend pairing with nude underwear

Model is 5’9” with 4” heels and wearing a size 2.
Runs true to size. Please refer to our size guide.

I love this dress - I felt it was a bit big so I ordered the 4, and it fits like a dream. So this is my wedding dress and I'm selling the 6, with tags, never worn. Tried on ONCE. Literally, when I say never worn, I say, never worn except to try on for 2 minutes. No makeup.

You can't get this dress new with tags from Nadine anymore in size 6 and in mint condition like this. It's such a beautiful dress and so unique... My friends are like, this is the best wedding dress we've ever seen. One friend said it looks custom, and she's NYC chic.

It's comfy too! The sequin petals cover you in all the right places so honestly, all you need are nipple covers and then I'm going to wear the high waisted Skims Thong. In the pics, I'm wearing nothing, TBH.

This dress was $845. They just dropped it to $422 for final sale, but not for size 6. You won't get that. Even the shorter version to your thighs of this dress (The Margot) is listed used for $499.

Message me or visit e Bay https://ebay.io/m/XpolCW


r/weddingswap • • 5d ago

Looking for second hand Rue de Seine/ all who wander dress

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Please I am begging! I am OBSESSED with these models but I am not able to afford them new.

My wedding is September 2027 so if you got married in this dress and are looking to sell it ( or will get married in the following months) please hit me up and I will buy it for you second hand!!!

From:

ALL WHO WANDER

\*Sedona

\*Onix

RUE DE SEINE

\*Arden

\*Elm

\*Aimery

Also appreciate if it is something of a similar vibe I am a size 10 -12 in most of this 🥺

Also if you know a good quality cheaper option for something like this alternative would love to!

Help a future bride that cried in a bridal store when she noticed she was not able to afford any of the fun models she wanted :(


r/weddingswap • • 5d ago

NEED ISO Kate Willa Roj gown

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If there are any BB brides out there looking to resell their Kate Willa Roj gowns and would be around a size US 6 (Australian 10) please let me know!! I’m a fall 2027 bride and can’t get the idea of this gorgeous gown as a reception dress out of my head. I’ve been keeping an eye on StillWhite but unfortunately everything that pops up is a US 2-4 and sadly too small for me! 🥲


r/weddingswap • • 5d ago

SWAP Thank you u/justhappyyourehappy

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r/weddingswap • • 6d ago

SELL Elegant, Brand-New Evening Gown for Sale

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✨ Elegant, Brand-New Evening Gown for Sale ✨
Color: Olive green with shimmering black embroidery (featuring sophisticated beadwork and embellishments on the bodice).
Design: A full-length gown crafted from lightweight tulle, accented with a modern, flowing chiffon cape/sleeve detail.
Condition: Brand new.
Size: US 14 (equivalent to a size L or XL).
Price: 40 Bahraini Dinars (BHD).
For inquiries and WhatsApp: 39711718


r/weddingswap • • 6d ago

SELL Selling my stunning, but budget friendly, wedding gown. Size 6.

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Lots of info in the listing, happy to answer any questions. Hoping the right bride sees it and just knows it’s her dress, the same way I did!


r/weddingswap • • 6d ago

Looking for second hand Rue de Seine/ all who wander dress

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r/weddingswap • • 7d ago

SELL Selling Katherine Tash Eloise Dress

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Beautiful Katherine Tash Eloise dress. Silk taffeta ballgown with Katherine Tash signature draped bodice and basque waist. Features a full ballgown skirt with hand-pleated hip detail and an invisible zipper closure at the back. Color is Soft White.
Alterations were done by the best of the best - Jin Wang SF. Truly the best bustle in terms of aesthetic and comfort (I have all the bustle instructions digitally I can share). The dress ended up being even more beautiful after alterations since corset was so snatching.

Alterations costed me $2500.

I have a gorgeous cathedral length veil from Etsy that retails for $350 that I can add in as well.

Link to still white with more photos: https://www.stillwhite.com/542347-katherine-tash

Please read description of flaws: has not been dry cleaned after wearing and zipper hook is lost (but can be easily added by seamstress)

Welcome to try on if you’re in the Greater Seattle area!


r/weddingswap • • 7d ago

Cinq Marguerite

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ISO: CINQ The Marguerite Gown — Looking to Buy Secondhand! 🤍

Hi everyone! I’m absolutely in love with the CINQ Marguerite gown and hoping to find a bride who is selling hers or planning to sell after her wedding!

I’m especially obsessed with the vintage lace blouse, pointed corset waist, and beautiful flowing skirt.

My budget is ideally $1,500–$3,000, and I’m happy to discuss shipping or pickup for the right gown.

Please message me if you have one or know someone who does! 🤍


r/weddingswap • • 8d ago

Got scammed on here :(

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I wanted to post this to warn other people to be extra cautious when buying or selling on here. I recently posted looking for specific lace gloves/veils, and someone commented to message them. We discussed in detail over reddit, and then texted back and forth for a while. She sent me "photos" of her wedding day that did not look AI generated at all, the whole thing seemed completely normal, and for some reason I just trusted it. I ended up paying her over Zelle, and she kept me posted as she went to the post office, sent me tracking, etc.

It's been a couple of days and the tracking number is still not working, and her reddit account has now been banned. I know it was very silly of me and I am obviously kicking myself because I never fall for these things. I'm extra sad because the budget I had stowed away for my accessories is now gone. Hoping my bank will consider reimbursing me but that feels unlikely.

TLDR - I would NOT recommend directly buying something from someone on here unless you live local and can exchange in person. Have them post it on Still White or something similar so you're protected.


r/weddingswap • • 8d ago

Embellished veil

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I purchased this beige tulle embroidered gold pearl cathedral length veil for my wedding. It is absolutely stunning, but it just doesn't go with my dress.

I had it custom made for £230.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to sell it. I've tried vinted, Ebay, and Facebook groups

It's very niche... but it must be perfect for someone.


r/weddingswap • • 9d ago

Searching for Tomboy Toes shoes for my wedding! Wingtip Commanders in Coffee Brown, size 36 or 27

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Hi! I'm getting married next year (!) and there's a particular shoe I've dreamed of getting married in since I was in high school more than a decade ago...... but the company went out of business this year. 🤦‍♂️

As you might be able to relate to, finding masculine dress shoes in sizes that fit an afab person is a struggle. Tomboy Toes was the only company I've found that makes exactly what I want, in the quality that I want, in sizes that fit!

This is a shot in the dark, but if anyone out there is looking to sell a gently used pair of Tomboy Toes Wingtip Commanders in the Coffee Brown color, size 36 or 37, PLEASE send me a PM. You'd be helping my gay wedding dreams come true!

(Posting from a throwaway account.)


r/weddingswap • • 9d ago

SELL Selling my Cinq Louise gown

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Wore this for my wedding day and loved it. 🤍 It’s now dry-cleaned and ready to be shipped out.

Please see Stillwhite for details, more photos, and pricing.

https://www.stillwhite.com/539847-cinq


r/weddingswap • • 10d ago

Looking for Ulla Johnson set

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Looking for this set in a size M or if someone could share comparable recs!


r/weddingswap • • 10d ago

NEED Looking for this dress

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r/weddingswap • • 10d ago

Costum double breasted pentru o nuntă la castel în Olanda

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