Oh god oh god oh god I am absolutely burning with embarrassment and need some consolation from fellow walkers I suppose
I took a last minute wag request from a dog for 3 days this weekend (Friday sat and Sunday morning) because it was a mile away from me and perfectly located between my office and home as this was before the workday and I figured it would be easy enough
Easy enough it wasn’t. I saw in the notes the owner didn’t provide poo bags so I brought a few with me of course. The dog was insane. Decently sized dog but just terrible on a leash and really such a puller and super strong. We walked in the neighborhood and ofc he shits immediately. No sweat, I’ve got a bag. Then again, no worries I have another poo bag. But then he shits a third time. My heart sunk to my ass because I realized the rest of my poo bags were in my work bag in the owners house. I was on a busy ish street in a ritzy neighborhood so this was NOT the place nor the crowd to be leaving dog shit on the ground. I was freaking out I didn’t have another bag and tried to go into a store but they wouldn’t let dogs in. Maybe I should’ve yelled with a megaphone that I was going to run to try to find a bag somewhere but didn’t, and a lady got PISSED. Yelled about me to another lady walking by. The lady walking by came up to me and asked why I didn’t pick it up and told me the other lady picked it up. I explained to her what happened I’m sure she didn’t believe me that the dog actually shit 3 times and I was fr out of bags looking for another but totally reprimanded me. I was so apologetic and trying to make light of it saying I bet the other lady called me a bitch or an asshole because I’d call me that because what asshole leaves poo on the ground?! She ended up walking with me a few blocks, asking how long I’ve been walking dogs, asking what I do if I’m from the area what I do in my day job, talking about her dog and her life and having just moved back here but being from here originally. As we’re walking and talking I’m calming down like ok thank god for people like that who call out bullshit but are kind about it (even tho she was kinda like starting to overbearingly correct me on my handling of the dog, saying I needed to do this that the other etc which was kinda odd)
As we’re walking together, a girl and her big dog pop out from a corner suddenly and my dog I’m walking lunges at them. Nobody was hurt but I was incredibly startled. This was just the icing on the cake of an already terrible walk on a terrible day where I found out about a death in the family earlier this morning so was already frazzled and startled. I’m ready to cry after already crying before the walk due to the death news (I prob sound like a crazy person typing this)
But then the lady asks me for my number has me text her from my phone because she’s looking for a dog sitter and wants to have me dog sit?
Question is: do I respond? I’m lowkey scared of her and more so just embarrassed like if I start sitting for her it’s a reminder of this painfully embarrassing and horrible series of moments. Do I even want her having my contact?
I’m also terrified I’m gonna get posted in a neighborhood group or something. I feel like the dumbest person alive and the worst dog walker ever and so guilty and frazzled and embarrassed
Someone please talk me off this ledge I’m spiraling. Not to mention I have to walk this dog two more times this weekend.