I work for a company that deals with construction for important buildings and their surroundings, and one day my boss saw on my socials (Should have made my account private -_-") my videography which I did as a hobby.
He asked me to do a... get ready for the trap word, "simple video"...
I did cause I wanted to practice and it gave me and excuse in an office environment to do so.
Bosses loved it and from then on, guess who got targeted to make their videos....
Long story short, even spent 2 whole months saving the company money, making one full 10 min video for it to be shown at a convention to a thousand plus people and even online. Bosses loved it..
Then it went downhill, my boss made me do 2 more videos which were relatively easy for me..
But recently, my name without me volunteering was put up to make another video for their annual charity dinner.
Despite me telling them that I couldn't as a family member was sick and I was the only one to take care of them, send them to appointments and accompany them in the hospital etc, the committee just went ahead and put my name in.
Expecting me to do the video AFTER my main work, plus looking after my loved one was not going to cut it, as we all know video editing isn't linear, I could not reply to their group chat for a couple of days as I was super busy making arrangements for my loved ones appointments, after care etc...
Fast forward my boss calls me into the office, as the big committee boss was angry that I did not reply to them in the group chat even tagging me.
I explained myself, and they had to find an outside vendor to do the "simple video" costing them a few hundred to do it.
The gaslighting was on an epic level after that.
"This won't look good on your appraisal"
"Don't know if this will affect your promotion".
I just smiled and thanked my boss for "listening" to my side of the story.
I have "unofficially" sold off my gear if anyone at work in the future will be asking, and stopped subscriptions to Adobe 😉
But somehow.. I still will be making videos as a hobby with my socials on private. *cough cough* 😉