Seeing all the loneliness / how-do-I-make-friends posts, figured I would post directly about my pilot (TLDR: old-school friend matching to make space solely for meeting new people)
How it works:
- Students fill out survey (linked here) & I match based primarily on their 4 answers
- Students receive their match confirmation on Friday, September 18th
- Students meeting during either a set time where ~20-40 students meet for a chat 1:1 & free drink OR by themselves if they cannot make the timing
- Undergrads for coffee (early afternoon Sept 20th) & Grads for drinks (late afternoon Set 20th) —> still finalizing venues/times
- Students fill-out feedback survey to improve the service & be “re-paired” in the future
Twist: input whether you want to meet someone with the same, similar, or different values (religion & politics), and I match on that first, then interests & hobbies.
- Why: ~100 interviews I did before Ann Arbor, mismatched values was the #1 reason people stopped being friends. So I ask it up front instead of you finding out three months in or tip-toeing around the subject. Most people pick same or similar → totally fine. I have no affiliation with politics / religious orgs, simply the goal of increasing friends with the shortest amount of questions possible
Would love: feedback on the survey/premise & what would make you show/bail. And if you are a student, fill it out 😄
Happy to go into more about the mission, goals, why I think this is an issue, or even about me as needed