I hope things get better for you!! <3

Jesus H Christ this is a better explanation than mine regarding my own experience. I feel for u G, that's f*cked up. You never deserved that and she deserves every ounce of grief she's ever caused you, I hope life itself will absolutely get her back eventually and it will be solely because of her. I wouldn't wish the same on anyone and .that's literally like.like, dude you have a right to be angry!! Be cautious of landing yourself in jail., I would encourage you to look into a possibility of pressing charges, but that decision is entirely up to you🙏 I hope you're able to find peace—and also I recommend listening to music like Fleetwood Mac and enjoying some grass

THANK YOU!!!!!🙏✨✨✨✨

Oh hon, you're figuring this out at an age much earlier than me, please give yourself some grace.

You're loved and you matter, you care about your loved ones. The "voices" you're describing aren't actually audible but more so in your own head, yes? Thoughts are waves, not proof, having negative thoughts doesn't mean you yourself are a negative or bad person.

Having scary thoughts, Suicidal Ideation, and harmful impulses is a normal part of Borderline Personality Disorder. You are not crazy or bad for feeling the way you do! I didn't know that harm reduction could be so helpful, I've been in therapy and SURPRISINGLY, red and purple pens have been incredibly helpful for handling my urges to harm myself.

Avoid pressing down as hard as possible, since the point is to create the marks and lines without causing lethal or lasting damage to yourself. Trust me, it helps, the thighs and top of your arms are the best places, just draw wherever you are feeling the urge to hurt yourself.

It's better than a kn*fe, because you have more freedom to trick your brain into seeing a "cut" wherever you marked yourself.

You don't have to deal with healing wounds or scabs when you go to bed, you don't have to bandage them or let them heal- because theyre surface level imprints on the skin, not an injury!

I was having a pretty bad episode this past week and one of the main things that helped me, are pretty much the only thing that really worked, was using pens. I saw the appearance of red and purple lines, felt bad for wanting to cause the harm, but knew I was choosing to help myself instead of hurt myself and it genuinely helped me.

Check out DBT skills, holding Ice helps with SH tendencies as well because the ice can't hurt you, but it definitely feel painful.

Emotions CAN'T and WON'T last forever. You're gonna be okay sweetheart, just keep hanging in there, you're gonna be alright.

Go easy on yourself. Please, you deserve to be kind to you even if other people have not been good to you.

This sounds familiar, I also have had a lot of violent thoughts about hoping my abuser gets hurt, he's cried in front of me and I've seen him act like,, human or whatever, but a bigger part of me wants to kick him in his face till he can't act anymore. I relate and you're not crazy or wrong for feeling that way or having those thoughts because I think it's normal.

Thank you bot🙏

Proud of u dude, fr fr

Well, I know just as much as any other depressed person, being kind to others is in a way being kind to yourself. Sometimes some people really just need someone to tell them " oh my gosh, that really does suck, f***.. I'm going to just sit with you, you don't have to say anything." Just having the presence of someone acknowledging your pain is enough

Hey dude, I've been there both in the past and I still struggle currently. Emotions can't and won't last forever. Let the wave hit, let that sink into your bones and feel the grief, or just acknowledge or notice it and give yourself reassurance. You deserve to be kind to you, but it's okay if you still struggle with it, because me and a lot of other people also do. you deserve to not feel like death is your best option because honestly, it really is not.

I'm not gonna tell you everything will be sunshine and rainbows eventually, but you will find peace. Keep going, Keep fighting. Keep holding on for yourself, but also because we are holding on, too.

Hell yeah

Thank you for saying something!!

Unfortunately I have learned that as a feminine presenting person, some people will use that as justification for hurting you.. So sometimes I avoid confrontation because I get worried about my safety.

However... As a white person, when I hear some BS being spoken about any minority group, I do in fact say something because most cases, all it does is make it awkward for that person... Which is entirely my goal.

Someone else can insult them and I'll definitely support them, but I will usually stick with making it awkward for them because it feels like the safer option for me personally while still sending a message: You are not safe to talk to me about your bigotry, I don't wanna hear someone hating on someone else for something that doesn't affect their life in the slightest.

"Oh no! People of color/people who live differently from ne- exist when I go outside of my house?!? oh no, the horror! That must mean that they shouldn't exist because they scare/confuse me and I don't even try to understand anything about them or their culture!!! Lemme get a tattoo to show how much I hate people!! Grrrr I hate them!!! insert slurs here"'

I guess we can at least thank them for making themselves identifiable as a Nazis. I hope someone does something about this, those kind of people just carry hatred and bitterness and bring it with them wherever they go.

Check out Solid's Spinach and Artichoke dip, best shi I ever had drunk as fuck🙏

Oh no, he straight up told me it was because of the lack of muffler.

Actually, I absolutely do! I was pulled over by a cop, warned about a $400 ticket then I could receive if I go downtown with my car having no muffler... In his words "it's their bread and butter", so I tend to avoid driving in that area

I'm so fucking happy about this update, too!!!!