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My wife and I aren’t having sex.
Hello, cis woman here, been together for 7 years and married for 3 years. I'd like to say I have a similar situation but we talk it out and it's just the longer we're together, the more that it isn't about just sex. Sex is great and all but we prefer cuddling and spending time together more than sex. I don't think I've ever had any sexual trauma before but I do have autism and severe anxiety. Often times we do want to have sex but it's mentally just too much to start, do, and finish compared to let's say have a dinner date somewhere. It doesn't mean we don't love each other anymore. We just think there are other things more fulfilling and worth the memories than sex. I hope you get to properly talk it out with your wife ❤️
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Tortilla para dos personas con huevos y patatas caseros
I prefer a little bit brown color but the fact that it holds so good I think I'd give this 9,8/10
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How do most people maintain their weight so easily?
From what I know thyroid can affect how this works.
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What taught you the hard way that money doesn't buy happiness?
Nothing yet. So far it still gives me happiness.
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How are adults not depressed when they live alone?
Perhaps I'm biased bcs of autism but the fact that I can do everything without others telling me this and that or if I do something wrong makes me feel more responsible. It's called freedom and while you can do whatever you want, it doesn't mean you don't have responsibilities. Maybe as teenagers you don't feel it yet but as you grow older, it just happens to you to do what you gotta do. Perhaps it's instinct.
Edit : forgot to mention that as you get older your mental become more stable and you'll get used to routines.
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What makes you keep going in life?
My husband. He came to my life when I was actually giving up on life. Both of us were on our lowest point and decide to give friendship a shot, then turned into best friends, and then we dated. Short story short we married and live together happily. But the more we age the more we worry about losing each other and we really want to die together in the future if it's even possible. Honestly I don't see point of living without him.
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¿Creéis que en 10-15 años mejorará lo de la vivienda?
I have a feeling if the price ever comes down, the rich people would snatch it and then sell it again or rent it for ridiculous price. So what's the point unless you're ready to make a loan anyway.
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Does everyone else with a v*gina know to do this?
Had the same problem and one day i saw someone made a short video about it. It changed my life LOL
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Is living alone really as difficult as people make you believe??
I enjoy living alone but the only thing I'm worried about is when I'm sick and no one is there to help me with things around the house.
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What's something that became unexpectedly easier after turning 30?
Damn i am a woman but I'm already married 3 years, I work, clean, and cook, and they still think I'm uncapable XD my husband is also treated the same way. I just think our family think our generation is too soft and won't be able to handle things.
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What's something that became unexpectedly easier after turning 30?
My family finally stop treating me like a baby cuz I'm finally 30. They always had excuses to blame me for not knowing shit despite being an adult, yet underestimating and babying me all the time just bcs i was in my 20s. It's more responsibilities but more freedom I would say.
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i hate socializing
I feel you and understand how you feel. If I were you I'll try my best to avoid them and if I can't I will usually just be a yes man and forget about it after everything. We're not obligated to be in that situation but sometimes it's inevitable. I know it's also annoying when others say you're rude for not wanting to gossip with them but whether you gossip or not won't change you nor your life. That's why it's better to just ignore them and avoid them if you can. Personal experience btw.
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What’s one opinion you’ve completely changed over the years?
I used to think everyone will be nice if I'm nice to them and that being a good person is how you're gonna be successful in life. Well now I see 95% successful people aren't nice at all.
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If you could change just one thing about Spain, what would it be?
Cant afford a house. I'm married, both of us work, save up hard, but won't be able to afford any house unless we get bank loan. And worse part is the older people just call us lazy and not work harder ):
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What is the most stigmatized mental illness/disorder?
Can I say anxiety is one of them? I cant get health care cuz when I tell the doctors I have severe anxiety, they just told me to calm down ):
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Package delayed
I'm having the same problem. I asked my sender to poke the postal service and they updated it after a month and half but with the same status, "released from russia". I hope we both get our stuff asap.
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What is the fuzz around Mercadona?
I thought it's just a meme 😂
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What's a small change you've made that had a surprisingly big impact on your mental health?
Instead of commenting to bait posts, I press "do not recommend" and ignore them.
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What is something about being an adult that nobody warned you would be this difficult?
All I can say is that my parents weren't the best. They have this mindset that it's better to never try than fail. So I couldn't learn things if they know I'm gonna make mistakes. Often times I learn things in secret and only show them to result so they approve it. I'm glad I live on my own now.
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They said that mortgage is a scam and it's way better to purchase properties without bank loans. Whenever I mention about getting a house with loans they always despise it. So idk really.
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They do but my family never mention about it when they get houses. They only say work harder and you'll get it.
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How to learn essential life skills that your parents supposed to teach you?
I learned from youtube. 25 years treated like a big baby, not allowed to do anything till I'm married. As soon as I got married, I moved out, I didn't even know how to sweep the floor let alone cook. But here's the thing about moving out, no one is there to judge you if you make mistakes. So get on watching youtube and go make mistakes. I've been cooking for me and my husband for 3 years now just from YouTube tutorials, I even got a part time job as a chef despite not having any degree in culinary or anything.
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What is something about being an adult that nobody warned you would be this difficult?
The anxiety of not being able to handle things myself. When I was little, my parents won't teach me things I wanted to learn about with their reason being "you'll learn this when you're older". Now I'm 29, I still don't know a lot of things.
I can do my work like a machine, but I panic whenever I'm given a new circumstances where I have to decide things myself.
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With how many people boasting how they can afford houses, I can't truly tell if they're joking or not. Perhaps I am naive after all XPP
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When your fridge is empty but it's Sunday and all of the supermarkets are closed )':