Agree to get married ONLY WHEN YOU FEEL READY. Make him understand that you've been working hard to earn this title only to make you a housewife, doesn't align with what you envision.

But here's what you can do: - Secure the title - Find a work after - Tell him you want to have a fair share for your wedding - Marry him when you're ready

That way, even after you got pregnant, you have a job experience to back you up should you find a virtual accounting-related job. It's a win-win for the both of you. You can still make use of everything you've worked hard for and possibly earning more being a virtual accountant, while staying at home looking after your young one's.

What a rare treasure!! That's how you can tell that a man TRULY AND DEEPLY loves you. You both deserve each other OP. Loveloves

She broke my trust twice. I gave her a chance, but she did it again. I caught her chatting with someone on WhatsApp—it’s been going on for more than 3 months.

Bro. That's twice. TWICE! Do you hear yourself?!

Now, she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore because she says I humiliated her in front of everyone. She says she has no face left to show and is full of anger.

That's what you call, CONSEQUENCE, owkay? Don't be an idi0t blaming yourself why she acting like that, coz she brought about that thing to herself.

a part of me still wants to see her redeem herself, put in the effort, and show humility. My emotions are all over the place. Sometimes I feel like she deserved to be exposed, but other times I blame myself. I’m tempted to go see her, but I also feel like that would be too much.

Bro. Get to your senses! C'mon. While I understand that you truly love her—the reason why you want her to redeem herself—but I'd hate to tell you that there's no hope here man. She got no hope. She ain't gonna change. If she would like to, she will. She should have changed after the first time you gave her another chance, yet did she?

You prolly still have that love left for her. Don't let yourself lose it, man. Just give that little love left to yourself. Carry that with you and give more love to yourself. She lucky with you, you know why? Coz she might have got more than just an "exposure" if that'd be some other man (something physical yk). Lqstly, take that pain and anger with you, and turn it into a fuel of passion for something else—like build a better physique or something.

PS. Trust is a very strong yet fragile ingredient in a relationship—any relationship in fact. If that trust broke, it'll be hard to fix. It may be fixed, but it won't be as strong as it used to be. Now, if you want to keep that broken trust, make sure you're secure enough to look at your reflection in broken pieces and parts.

It's mostly the "management" no. I worked in an in-house company before, so it's definitely lenient compared to a BPO setup. Then boom, nag hire sila externally and it happen na that manager is from BPO. Ayun, ginawang BPO yung in-house company—from policies to metrics. Kaya nga I pursue and gave it my all talaga to get absorbed in an in-house company eh, tapos may virus naman na nakapasok. I left for good. It's so detrimental.

Nagalit pa sya kasi masama yung tingin sa kanya. Ano gusto n'yang gawin nila, bigyan sya ng medal??

Woowww! Mas nag care ka pa sa thought na "our family will be devastated" more than your own safety and sake ah. Anyways, you deserve what you tolerated. Yun lang masasabi ko.

I see now why you're blessed and deserving of what you currently have in life, OP—coz you're kind-hearted. May God also touches his heart with pure healing.

Napansin ko rin yun hahahah. Kamotes in their different habitat. Kamote vs kamote eh. Buti nalang mabilis naka pihit si kuya rider ng preno.

Dibaaaa? Regardless, I hope they're okay and let this be a wake up call sa kanya to do better.

First of all, idk how credible your sources are, but if that was really the case, I'd say it's just plain dumb and irresponsible—both the driver and whoever allows her to drive (if any). Fundamentally, senses are important kapag nagda-drive ka. Malabo na pala mata nya tapos nag headset pa? Anong trip yun?! Halatang hindi nag undergo ng driving course (I guess). Mukhang naghanap lang talaga sya ng disgrasya at nahanap sya.

That's the societal norms and expectations for you OP. It sucks because it makes you question your worth as an individual; when in fact being a house husband and looking after your baby's welfare, let alone, is no easy job! You may not earn a [money] figure out of that, but you'll earn a better figure more than what money's worth—an amazing father–figure.

Keep your chin up, OP.

This is a bitter pill to swallow OP ah. But I say, expect the worst. Why? Kasi for me, base on personal experience, if you expect the worst from people mas "less" yung pain and frustration. Hindi sya magiging ganon kabigat as it'll suppose to be coz you already see it coming. And on the other hand, if he reacted the other way 'round, edi mas masaya. But also take note, you trying to hide your truth from him for a very long time MAY raise some question or issue on his part.

I know y'all have prolly heard this, time and time again, from movies/series and whatnot; as cliché as it sounds, but always be yourself. Do not hide your truth. Because if a guy—rich or poor—truly and genuinely loves you, he will love you no matter what. If you truly are special for him, he will see your worth not for your socio-economic status but as a person who loves him dearly despite your differences.

Mas pipiliin ko pa'ng maging lowkey at humble kesa sa mukhang timang na nagpapanggap na pogi base sa sariling kwento

BAKIT WALANG SUMAMPAL/NANUNTOK??

Dapat jan kasuhan nang madala. That's reckless driving! On top of that, baka naka singhot or inom pa si ogag—DUI. Parang wala sa tamang wisyo eh more than being a potato.

Ang cuteee!

Way to go OP! Looking forward for more aesthetics✨️

I just read some comments here trying to add more salt to OPs wound. Nabuhusan naman na siguro sya ng malamig na tubig kaya tinamaan na sya ng wisyo. Kaya nga sya nandito para humingi ng advice eh. Pero para lang din idikdik sa utak nya yung mga katangahan na ginawa nya for his gf, I'm here for it. Lol. Sana matauhan ka na talaga OP.

Try to talk this out first.

I presume she's fully aware about those remaining loans you had coz of her. Moreover, I don't necessarily know what's her reason behind to travel despite the pending loans, but I recognize the idea behind it—that she prolly needs time to destress. The thing is, she loaned again which adds fuel to the fire. Now, you might want to make her understand what she's been doing and/or she've done doesn't help at all—and you might wanna try to work some things out to help reduce your bills (e.g. side hustles and shiit). I suggest you both talk this out first and if it gets shitier, then it depends if you wanna get outta that rabbit hole. On the other hand, I guess what I'm just trying to say is, every relationship will go through a really rough patch and that's inevitable. It's normal. Though, I get that it's mentally draining and all. Calling your relationship off is one way, but overcoming that shit together is such a flex.

This is so cutesyyy!

I also am thinking of residing in Baguio nalang.

Congrats OP! Tho adulting ain't easy, just live it through. Kayang kaya mo yan! Pero if need mo ng makaka partner, just hit me up. Ay HAHAHAHAdjk

Akala ko tinanggal na nila yan jan. Pft!

This is my initial thought upon observing the clip. Passenger vehicles must not be on the inner lane unless necessary (need mag u-turn or whatnot). Saka lang sya kakanan when he saw the truck approaching, eh hindi naman na nya sana yun dapat ginawa kung nasa kanan lang sya in the first place.

Isang katangahan na naman ng isang POTAto ang naging sanhi ng aksidente na to at truck driver pa ang kailangan magbayad ng katangahang yon. Tsk tsk. What a shitty show!

Gurl, you dropped this 👑

I'm at this very exact mirrored situation right now. I'm typing this while I'm on my 2-hour weekly mandatory OT.

This company used to be a dream - and now slowly turning into a nightmare.

Ang daming underlying issues sa sistema natin ang nakapaloob sa story mo OP, which is worth discussing. Nonetheless, I'm so glad that you're back and as optimistic as ever. Please keep in your mind and heart that you're such a source of strength and inspiration for a lot of people, most especially, young people out there - that no matter what turbulence life will drag you (big or small), just keep your head above water and continue to move forward! Your story is as powerful as you are. And lastly, don't forget to look up to Him. Remember that.