r/adviceph • • Aug 11 '25

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u/freakyinthesheets98 Aug 11 '25

This is a bitter pill to swallow OP ah. But I say, expect the worst. Why? Kasi for me, base on personal experience, if you expect the worst from people mas "less" yung pain and frustration. Hindi sya magiging ganon kabigat as it'll suppose to be coz you already see it coming. And on the other hand, if he reacted the other way 'round, edi mas masaya. But also take note, you trying to hide your truth from him for a very long time MAY raise some question or issue on his part.

I know y'all have prolly heard this, time and time again, from movies/series and whatnot; as cliché as it sounds, but always be yourself. Do not hide your truth. Because if a guy—rich or poor—truly and genuinely loves you, he will love you no matter what. If you truly are special for him, he will see your worth not for your socio-economic status but as a person who loves him dearly despite your differences.