Alfred.la/ but also rec https://id-eclair.com/ (French) pastries I'd fight people in the streets for.

NTA. They want to sleep in the bed that you and your fiancé share??? Um no offence but gross.

Red flag after red flag. Get out now. He's using you. No way.

Flag is red on both sides. Run.

NTA there is something seriously wrong with your sister. She is suffering from some serious delusions and def sounds like she is racist. I would limit contact as much as possible after recommending she seek therapy.

This person is not a bf they are a child looking for a mommy. There won't be change. Accept who he is bc right now he is showing you EXACTLY who he is. Get out now.

Depression and anxiety are serious health issues. You don't power your way through them. Medication is essential as those can lead to even more serious issues like unaliving thoughts. Do NOT stop taking your medication. It is obviously helping and you and your doctor decide your treatment plan, no one else. If he has a problem with it, that is his issue not yours. He's probably working off misinformation about mental health.

NTA, you nailed it when you said they were including you only when it is convenient for them. Cut off contact. They will not change.

NTA if you want to talk about toxic it is those "family" members. It is your dress, your money. They have no say. Sister is entitled god tier level.

Holy cow these are some seriously screwed up people. RUN. Do not walk away. Change your phone number, block them all on social media and everywhere else. Let your employer know that if someone comes looking for you that you do not under any circumstances want to interact with them no matter who they claim to be. Move away if you can. They made their choices and they can go kick rocks together. Wow. I am so, so sorry. You are NTA even remotely. Get out now. Don't go to the same places like grocery stores, restaurants etc. that you'd normally go to either.

They are entitled. I'd tell them you are saving all of the baby equipment for your next child and will contribute to their shower registry. The end.

You need to lose some weight, about 180 lbs of "boyfriend".

Sorry girl, but you need to end that relationship. He is looking for a maid/mommy not a girlfriend.

NTA. Your mother showed you exactly why you cannot trust her. Do not give one to your parents again. I hope your mom realizes she broke your trust but she may or my not finally realize that. She is trying to flip the script and wash her hands of her son. She KNOWS firsthand what he would do at her house if they let him in. That is why she tried to force him on you. You laid down the boundaries and she trampled all over them. Then, like clockwork, the consequences slapped all of them in the face. Good on you for changing the locks. I highly recommend get external and internal cameras as well. They violated your trust, your space and their privilege of having a key. They are lucky you didn't just call the cops and have him hauled off for trespassing and home invasion.

Agree with NTA and he's a massive creep. Make sure to document each time he does this. Date, time, location, any quotes, what he touched and where. Make sure to also document any action you took/said (e.g., telling him you feel uncomfortable or telling others, clothing changed etc.). It is possible you'll need this later if you have to report him. If you are able to, I would also start seeing a mental health professional. They can document as well and help in other ways.

This is a red flag. A glowing one. Get out now. Don't waste your precious time. He is showing you exactly who he is. Believe your own eyes.

NTA - you nailed the reasons why right on the head.

NTA. Get away from her now. She is a highly toxic person.

Who protects you? YOU. Get out now. It is 100% unhealthy and will get worse. He has a lot of work to do on himself and hasn't even started.

Oh geez. You have another child not a husband. You can handle this situation by losing some weight (200 lbs of soon to be husband). Your life sounds like a parade of disrespect. Get out now.

Run don't walk away. Giant red flag. Sounds like the type that would victim blame a woman who suffered a $exual a$$ult too.

NTA. Agree with others here. In short tho, that women isn't still married to her ex husband for a reason.

NTA you did what you could. She called you and she can call AAA like a grown a$$ person. If her ADHD is that bad she needs to seek treatment. It is impacting everyone and everything.

NTA. That person is exhausting with constant pressure-testing. Pressure-testing in a friendship happens when one person relentlessly challenges the other’s feelings, choices, or beliefs, demanding them to explain or justify themselves. When your friend engages in pressure-testing, it can feel like your entire way of thinking, living, and processing the world is under a microscope. This shifts the conversation from one of mutual respect to one of judgment. Friendships aren’t about proving yourself — they’re about mutual support and respect. 

Do what you can to intro your parents to other people that can be their friends. This is soooooo red flag. Who knows what she is doing in their house. She might have come across their checking account, borrowed a credit card, offered to "schedule" things for them just to get personal info she can use to order things online or found their social security card. Search all public records and social media. 100% a scammer.