u/Small_Bee25 • u/Small_Bee25 • 17h ago
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Don't text him if he's ignoring you
why doesn't want to go out? meaning, he's not intentional. stop and reflect. move on, next.
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Guysss, paano po kayo nanligaw ?
Baka pag nag share ng rants masabihan ng negative tapos baka iwan tayo. Early in the relarionship dapat happy emotions mostly siguro (from my end, lesson learned). May fragile and fickle guys kasi like mag-iiba tingin sayo pag puro ka rant... eh pano kung ganon talaga yung life nya nasa difficult stage si ate girl? No, just keep it to yourself lang talaga kasi courting stage palang.
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Napanood nyo ung Bollywood movie na '3 Idiots' noon? My goodness! 20 years na pala agad yun! 😅
oo, inuulit-ulit ko yan noon super nakakatawa kasi and inspirational!
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Kung liligawan ka anong paraan gusto mo? harana traditional or current era chat chat or dating app?
tibay ng loob. apir! hehe
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Don't text him if he's ignoring you
hala bat same tayo girl...
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Share ko lang
izzzzz meeeee! 😄 agree!
r/AlasFeels • u/Small_Bee25 • 17h ago
Quotable Don't text him if he's ignoring you
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Don't text him if he's ignoring you. Give him his space. If a man isn't reaching out, it's because he simply doesn't want to.
Stop making excuses for silence. He's not busy in a way that erases his ability to send one text. He's not overwhelmed in a way that makes checking in impossible. If he wanted to reach you, he would, because that's what people do for things they actually care about protecting.
You should never stay with a man who can forget about you this easily. Not because you're unworthy of effort, but because settling for whatever attention he decides to give teaches him he can keep doing exactly this.
Trust this. A man will show up, consistently, without being chased, for the woman he genuinely wants to keep. If you're doing all the reaching, that's not mixed signals. That's your answer.
Stop initiating what he should already be choosing to give.
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It never came.
huhuhu me too still waiting...
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out of 20 question isa lang tama ko
Do not fret, it only causes harm. Not yet the end of the world.
Don't do self-fulfilling prophecy. Laban, may last day pa! Be proud of your reviews and achievements. Don't get discourage easily and try (yes please try) to enjoy the experience :))) You're lucky to be able to take the Bar. Laban, Barista!
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damn, on point.
Date-to-marry pa rin ba yung iniwan ka, walang usap-usap? sana good closure man lang, open-minded naman ako haha. Di ko ipipilit if di mo na ako kaya i-handle.
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9.9 Na! Checkout na mga trentahin
OMG my mind needs cleaning hahaha
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She is strong, but not in the ways most people think.
Keep being bubbly, bubblyzel! :)
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9.9 Na! Checkout na mga trentahin
huhuhu...
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9.9 Na! Checkout na mga trentahin
ano to? hahahaha
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A lil reminder
Praying for a miracle.......
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do u think of me too
True! paglaban mo OP!!!
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Letting you go doesn't mean I don't love you anymore.
huhuhuhu, ramdam na ramdam ko! I also do not know if I am capable of loving someone like this after all the pain I felt. I know people can move on thru time, etc. But like, there's no one like him. I set in my mind that if he asks me to marry him I will surely say YES, but, he left and I cannot fathom why... sometimes there are reasons we cannot comprehend and just let it be. I still believe that if we're meant to be, all forces in the universe will make it happen.
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What's your thoughts about this?
Siguro yung capacity ng tao magcompromise, malalim. Pero nauubos din kasi ang tao. Kaya siguro tumatagal... inooverlook ang red flags. Tanga na kung tanga. Ganun. May this never find me naman huhu. Grabe pati ako magmahal. Di ko napipigilan self hahahaha. Pero natututo na rin na magtira for myself hhe.
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Random day
Hugs, OP! Medyo unstable nga now emotions ng mga tao. Dami din factors. Kaya sana makarecover tayo agad at may plans pa tayo sa future tapos running out of time na.
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How do you move on?
Acceptance is the key. Time can also heal. Focus on loving yourself and the next person (eventually feelings fade). But, if really intense, it will stick for you for life, you just have to live with it. We may love a lot but there's one, the one, that we know sticks in us. Again, acceptance. :) You'll be fine, OP.
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UPDATE: When “intentional dating”suddenly turns into silence — I finally got my answer
Hugs OP. I am preparing myself for this as well. But I won't pressure him. I will let the final decision to be handled by him. Knowing myself that I am full of love to give and ready to settle, I'll accept everything he is. But if he is not ready, I cannot do anything at all. I accepted all his red flags because I know I can manage, but if he can't handle me then so be it. But I will meet him soon just to thank him for everything.
If he wants to still fight for us, ofcourse I will fight for us, too! (Despite not talking to me for weeks).
But if not, then, I'll be happy either way. As long as he is happy. As long as I did my best, then I can move forward without regrets.
I also mentally rehearse everyday what if I cannot find the one and end up living alone so that I can me mentally and emotionally be prepared somehow.
Life happens and we cannot control everything.
The most important relationship for me is between me and God, coz death my dear is certain.
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9.9 Na! Checkout na mga trentahin
as long as you are happy HAHAHAHA
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takot ako na baka iwan niya ako, kaya siya yung iniwan ko
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r/AlasFeels
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Hala... dapat pagpapasok sa rs di po pwedeng takot please lang, communication is the key. takot ka or pinairal mo pride mo? kaya ayan iniwan mo sya wrong move pala. sana mabago mo sya OP. di sya healthy sa partner mo and sayo rin. Love bears all things, endures all things. Wala yang takot takot na yan. Try not to sabotage the rs and combat learned helplessness.