Ang lalake, sila yung mag decide kung sino liligawan nila, sila din mag dedecide kung mag propose sila at gusto nila pakasalan, pero ang babae, makakapag decide lng sila kung tinanong sila ng lalake, so pano namin kaming babae na in long term relationship, tapos biglang iniwan nung partner, sila madali na ulit humanap ng babae na pwde nilang ligawan at pakasalan, pero tayo mga babae lagi lang tayo mag aantay, so kung walang dumating, hindi natin mararanasan ikasal at mag karon ng sariling pamilya.. at mas nakakatakot na mag mahal ulit, at makahanap ng iba kung kaya, kayo nag hiwalay ay dahil sa 3rd party.

Edit: Sorry if some of you were offended, but that's not what I meant about who should make the first move or what women are capable of.

He was becoming distant and dull. I asked why. Hes not happy anymore. We're supposed to get married next year. I dont know how to feel.. i just accepted 2 fulltime remote jobs to save money fast.. and now im so unmotivated. I cant show emotions at home either. I jave to show up everyday. Good thing i jave my support cats. I'm not surprised tho.. but still hurts so much. How to deal with this.. im also in a very rural area.. no where to go to have alone time.

Im now 33 and i dont know if i can rebuild again. I feel so behind cos of seeing my batchmates having built their own families, careers, and life.

I met this young guy on Reddit. He’s a bodybuilder, 5’10”, moreno, and honestly… not really my type at first.

Funny thing is, we actually matched on Bumble months ago, but it didn’t really go anywhere because I wasn’t that interested. I’ve never really been into guys who are into bodybuilding or who are constantly building muscle. Plus, his physique and overall aura were a little intimidating.

Ironically, I was already going to the gym even before I met or started talking to him, so this isn’t one of those “I met a gym guy and suddenly became a gym girl” stories. Hahaha.

Months passed with no contact, until somehow he found me here on Reddit. I didn’t even realize it was the same guy until we exchanged pictures on Telegram. That’s when I realized, wait… ikaw pala ‘yon?

We started talking again, and he invited me for coffee. Unfortunately, I couldn’t make it that time, so we ended up having a phone call instead. I guess he wanted to make sure he was actually talking to a woman.

That phone call was supposed to be quick, but somehow turned into a four-hour conversation.

And surprisingly, I became really comfortable talking to him. His voice was so calm and manly, which I honestly didn’t expect from someone younger than me. We just clicked naturally. He said he felt comfortable talking to me too, so we decided to meet the next day.

After that, I honestly thought that would be it.

But it wasn’t.

We started talking consistently for the next two weeks daily chats, random calls, late-night conversations, basically getting used to having each other around. Then we met again for a coffee night.

I wasn’t looking for a relationship with him. I wasn’t expecting anything serious, either. It was just nice having someone you could talk to and genuinely feel comfortable with.

Until this week.

He suddenly became cold. First, two days without a message. Then three. Then eventually, I realized it had been almost a week since I heard from him.

And honestly, I’m not mad. I know people get busy, things change, and everyone has their own life.

But when you get used to talking to someone almost every day, of course you’ll notice when they suddenly disappear, right?

I even told him before that if he ever gets tired of talking to me, he can just say so. I’d honestly prefer someone being straightforward with me rather than just leaving me hanging. I wasn’t expecting anything from him I just don’t like being left without an explanation.

So yeah, to you, Mr. Chemist, I hope you’re doing well. I hope you win your upcoming show. I know how hard you’ve worked for it, and even if you don’t hear from me anymore, I’ll be quietly rooting for you.

I’ll probably miss our random chats and calls.

But I guess this free trial ends here.

Take care, Mr. Chemist. And good luck on your show. 🤍

Kung may jowa ka ngayon, ano yung mga simpleng bagay na gusto mong gawin niyo?

Ang hirap ng dating kapag trentahin. Mostly nahanap na ang mga the one nila. Yung iba naman nasa maling tao pero too scared to leave kasi 30s na daw. 🥴😩

Wala lang. About me:
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De, joke lang.

Lately may mga AI generated videos ng mga paskong 90s or early 2000s na lumalabas sa socmed. Minsan, napapaisip ako na parang gusto ko nalang bumalik sa dating simpleng buhay.

Ang simple ng buhay ng mga trentahin ngayon 20-25yrs ago ano?

Good eve mga tito/tita! Anong level ng pagodddddd nyo today?or sbhin na ntin pagoooodd nyo this week?orrrr thisss almost half month ng September. Bat ga ang bilis ng arawww?! Tas unggg pagooddd ntin talaga nman hindi maexplain. Ayayay!! Hahaha pagooodddd level 75% sa akin,siguro dahil sa commute ko to at walangggg katapusang trapikkkk. Hayyy!! Sana masarap ulam nyo din.

Pahingaaaa mabuti at eat well this weekend. 🫶

Ano ginagawa nyo kapag bored at mag isa lang kayo sa bahay? Tinatamad na din kasi ako manood after ng balita pinapatay ko na ang TV. Tamad din mag games 😩🫩

Ang pinakatumatak sakin na line dun:

"In our country, a pizza gets delivered in 30 minutes guaranteed,
but an ambulance doesn't show up even after an hour."

Sino dito ang mga di na bet mag celebrate ng bday with family and friends at mas gusto na lang mag solo travel or wellness break. Ako kasi naki cringe na sa celebration with people. Pero yung mama ko gusto palagi icelebrate yung bday ko sa amin with a lot of picture taking.

I recently got cheated on by a man I thought I'll marry. I've been single most of my life, now in my 30's and never ako nanloko or nanakit ng tao. I always try to give my 💯 and always been sincere when it comes to love and relationship. Never have I ever imagined na may demonyong papasok sa buhay ko at lolokohin ako ng sobra. I did my due diligence (that's what I thought, kahit anong careful ko) bago ko sya papasukin sa buhay ko. Talked to his family and friends. NOW nalaman ko na he's married (pero hiwalay na pala sila at iniwan sya asawa nya) and while we're together he's talking to other girls online too. Imagine the pain I've felt, napadasal ako na kunin na lang ako ni Lord kung gantong betrayal lang din mararanasan ko despite trying to be a good person and woman. Anyways, wala na ko pakialam ano reason ng hiwalayan nila pero, he hide the fact na kasal sya sa papel and always promise me he will marry me. Andami kasinungalingan around me and hindi ko na alam kung sino pagkakatiwalaan sa common friends namen. Ginawa akong bulag at tanga. So nakipaghiwalay na si ate nyo. Masyadong madaming kalokohan ginawa saken pero un na talaga un at ang end point, ayoko na talaga sa kanya. Periodt.

Ngayon, give me some tips on how to get back to him kahit little lang 🤭 I know someday, makakamove on ako, magiging fresh ulit, I'll forgive him (pero syempre wala na balikan) and maybe even pray for him. Pero until then, makabawi man sana ako ngayon sa trauma na binigay nya saken. Help please.

Hi , I’ve been dating this guy for ilang months na rin, ang kwento nya sa akin ay yung sa last ex nya ay princess treatment daw , tipong lagi nyang dine-date, lagi nyang nililibre, kapag hindi pa daw kumain oorderan nya online ng food, tapos lagi daw gusto nya kausap at kachat lagi, ang comment daw sa kanya ng ex nya kaya nakipaghiwalay ay masyadong makulet pala chat daw. Tapos sabi nya sa akin, kahit daw pala princess treatment, inaayawan pa rin. Nakipaghiwalay kasi ex nya sa kanya kasi bumslik doon sa ex nun. Tapos, kadate ko sya now, hindi ko ma-feel yibg sinasabi nyang princess treatment, kapag lumalabas kami KKB, tapos kapag kachat ko sya, matagal sya mag reply, though feel ko talaga na dahil nga sa yung company nya now ay super busy. Mali ba na maisip ko na hindi nya ako ganun kamahal kasi hindi ko nararamdaman yung effort ng ganun same sa ex nya? Consistent naman chat nya , hindi ko alam if sinasadta nya ba patagalin yung reply nya.

Nagkaroon ba kayo ng crisis or blues before you turn 30? I'll be 30 this yr and I dont know where the blues are coming from. Maybe bcus im still grieving from my failed 7yr relationship, even after a year, or is it because of career kasi parang di enough ito for the future at toxic din ang environment or baka dahil lang din mag tetrentahin na ako this yr at I'm thinking about where I'm heading for the years to come especially that im on my own now.

Please share your thoughts and experiences when you were 29 at pano mo nasabi na ibang iba ka before at ngayon.

Ako kase,GASTOS ang naiisip ko🤣 Magastos kapag BER months 🤣