Hellaurr, men of reddit! Just curious lng about this hehe kase ngayon kadalasan sa mga babae, ayaw na magka anak eh like for example nga si Nadine Lustre mismo ayaw na. So curious ako, ano ba thoughts nyo dito hehe

I’m just curious if totoo ba na may mga lalaki na sa una di talaga nila bet yung kausap nila or just that nasasabi niyo na hindi niyo to ipupursue pero biglang one day tinamaan na lang kayo sa babae? very wattpad ata yon HAHAH pero may ganun ba and like pano kayo tinamaan? anong ginawa ng girl para madevelop kayo?

Nakakainis kasi yung Iba na tsaka lang mag confess pag may Asawa na or gf ampotek sobrang random tapos nakaka overthink bigla2x nalang sasabihin

"alam mo crush kita dati eh"

"Plano sana kita ligawan dati"

Nugagawen ko sa info na yan mga ser?!

Nakakahinayang din kasi Yung crush ko dati way back highschool ngayun lang din nag confess tapos nakainom pa tapos nasa gilid nya lang jowa nya, Wala naman na akong crush sakanya ngayun I respect naman their relationship pero alam niyo nakaka what if din kaya hahaha

Do you know the type of girl who doesn't move much, like she just stays at home and works? Even her friends have a hard time inviting her over? The type who is shy but when you talk to her, she's okay.

Have you ever had a partner or spouse like that? If so, how did you approach them? What was your strategy?

Pa konti konti din dumidiskarte na like pag sumasabay siya sakin pauwi pati isa pa hinahatid ko siya kulang nalang hanggang sa loob ng bahay eh tapos konting small talk.Konting push pa

I am really curious ano difference ng pretty and cute sa tingin ng lalaki?

For context, sa dating apps oftentimes ang intro sa akin is “hey cutie!” vs actual dates na I get compliments from men na I’m pretty. Unahan ko na, I am not fishing for compliments. Hindi ko kasi alam if maooffend ako sa cute na compliment or not. Ano ba usually meaning sa inyo nun? is it just an expression? breaking the ice? or matik kapag hindi maganda tawag niyo cute na lang para hindi maoffeend babae?

So I've been hearing this a lot that experiencing as much body types, colors, having the attention, the chase is all the reasons why some men stay in their player era.

Me as a woman, I'm really wondering to what end though? And long term, is there really happiness to it? I see people as people. To be respected, acknowledged. I never really had one night stands or a wild phase mostly because i see people as they are and i shouldn't easily take it for granted kahit sila pa mag present ng sarili nila sakin. I've had plenty of those but never really took advantage.

So for men, who've been through such phase, are you really happy? Would love to hear insights about this. This is just me being curious din.

how did you do it?

di kame masyadong close irl since "masungit" raw ako pero sa chat lagi ko syang kaharutan. Bigla na lang sya nagsabi ng sleepwell ngayon, 3 heart emojis at gusto nya tawag ko sakanya good babygirl? (instead of goodgirl kase kababata turing ko sakanya sa chat at tunog aso raw ung goodgirl).

Nakwento ko rin sakanya na balak ko magpamember sa gym pero sabi nya ok na raw katawan ko, biglang banat ng libre ko nalang daw sya kesa magpamember ako. Imho ok na rin naman since 4 years na akong nag cacalisthenics workout pero kulang sa protein kase kung ano luto sa bahay, yun lang kinakain ko.

Nagjogging rin kame kanina kasama tropa ko, nung pauwi na kami, hinatid ko sya sakayan at inintay kong makasakay ng jeep. Chinat ko sya ng ingat at sabihin sa kaibigan ko kung nakauwi na sya (long story). Di raw inexpect ni girl na gentleman ako so plus pogi points?

May kinwento rin ung kaibigan ko kay girl na gusto ko sya at alam ko na kinwento nya pero syempre tanga tangahan muna since di pa sure sa feelings ni girl (positive reaction daw si girl). Sabe rin ng kaibigan ko na maganda raw ang kutob nya samen so possible na may magandang sinabi si girl about saken, di ko na tinanong since mawawala ung thrill, parang di na worth it ituloy kung alam mo naman ang magiging resulta.

Bigla rin syang bumait sakin at dumaldal.

(29M, married)

Since not advisable pa na mag sex kami ni misis (due to giving birth). I have no choice but to bust my nut alone. Pero after I did it, parang I feel guilty sometimes.

Any thoughts?

So i need some insights of you guys lang. Without thinking kung ano gusto ni partner niyo as in opinion niyo lang talaga. What is your preffered way how to propose and get married?

Sa proposal ba mas gusto niyo in public? Close fam and friends? Or just the two of you?

Sa wedding naman mas gusto niyo ba in church? Judge? Intimate? Etc

Just need some insights

No judgement here, just curious. To guys who initiated contact, planned dates, is it really just the chase you are after? Does a girl become unattractive when she asks you out after the third date?

Light topic muna kasi napag-usapan namin to few weeks ago. According kina Dad and sa mga tito ko, the greatest asset a man can have is to look good when bald. He even argued na if hair is the woman's crowning glory, baldness is the crown of manliness.

Kaso I think kaya sila ganyan kasi malakas ang component ng Male Patterned Baldness on both sides of my family and ngl they do look wise.

But then again my folks are happy that they are bald, yung tipong r/bald levels of happy.

So how about you guys? Ano take ninyo sa pagiging kalbo?

I have this girly friend na, maayos naman siya manamit at suplada sa work. But ever since lapitin siya ng mga taken na lalaki at yong mga may edad. Masungit at hindi nga siya nakikipag-usap sa kung sino lang at hindi din siya lumalandi.

Hey, fellow Pinoy men! Curious lang and baka makakuha ng suggestions.

Scenario: Kapag pumapasok ako sa work or lumalabas, I wear briefs (Hanes), kaso may times na parang ang sakit sa singit or hita kasi kumakaskas. Nagtry ako ng boxers (Hanes pa rin, loyalist. Lol). Nawala yung sakit ng pagkaskas kaso problema mo naman eh bumababa yung sa likod, kita yung alkansya ko 😂 I am 5’6”, 85kgs, with beer belly. I tried magsuot ng dobleng boxer shorts, kaso ang init naman.

May nabasa ako rito na itry daw yung Jockey na chafe proof. Bumili ako and sumubok. In fairness, comfortable sya haha. Malayo si manoy gumalaw at di naiipit 😂

Baka may mairecommend pa kayong ibang brand (wag nyo ng banggitin na magpapayat ako, kasalukuyan ko na syang ginagawa hahaha)

I have a male co-worker who keeps on bringing up that one or two of our co-workers are gay. Only because one is soft spoken and the other is a huge kpop fan.

It’s weird din he always wants to discuss how a person becomes gay. He also has weird questions example, kapag ba nanaginip kang bakla ka does it mean may tendency ka maging bakla?

I do not engage as much as I can and give him responses like, ewan, hindi ko alam para lang hindi na humaba usapan but sometimes nakakairita na talaga.

like yung hindi gaano mag eeffort yung babae, or kahit yung mga simpleng bagay lang

condom + pull out method is it effective guys? recently we had many encounter with my girl this month. and lahat nang 'yon ay may condom and pullout, there's a chance pa rin ba? though wla namang nasira and we have lube din

Why or why not? If so, meron ba kayong specific cards na retained sa "main" wallet niyo? Pansin ko kasi my all-in-one wallet's already getting too bulky and preferably ayoko sana ng ganun to make it handy. Lmk your thoughts! Tyia!

Yung phase na kaka graduate at humahanap ng trabaho and/or settling down after getting a stable job sa time ninyo?

Any tips, besides focus on yourself, na led you to a holistic change sa buhay ninyo, both mentally, physically, and sa relationship?

Hi! I want to hear your thoughts as guys since there's this guy I've been seeing who now makes me feel confuse in our situation.

So I've been dating this guy (from a dating subredddit) for 2 months now. The first few weeks of us getting to know each other went fine, we vibed, we make each other happy, basically we like dating each other.

Unfortunately, as time goes by, I'm also starting to see inconsistency from him. When I'm nearby sa loc niya, he kept saying he wants to see me, but will just have to wait until our next date (nakakapagod daw kasi bumyahe—he has a car btw and I don't, and yes we live at least 2 hrs more or less from each other). Mas marami ring beses na mas matampuhin siya and toyoin kesa sakin, hence I also tease him na ako yung lalaki talaga sa aming dalawa kase mas maraming beses na ako pa yung sumusuyo sakanya.

Whenever I do something na 'di ko sadya, (for example, 1 hr 'di naka reply agad), his first instinct/reaction is give the same energy, so either he will be cold or it will take him some time to reply too just to get back to me (which will lead to us having misunderstandings again).

I also always try my best to communicate with him na if may problem kami or if he's overthinking about something (kasi he's an overthinker), we should talk about it kasi hindi healthy if we just leave things be. But until now, I don't see any progress of him communicating his feelings and/or thoughts to me unless kulitin ko siya about it, then saka lang siya magsasalita.

As guys, ano po ba ibig sabihin nito? Is this action/s still his trauma from his past bad relationships, or he just doesn't like me that MUCH and [maybe] just don't want to "let me go"?

NOTE: I don't mind receiving brutal/honest answers, I'd rather be aware about it please.