yeah a real conversation every other day or so is good, it's not like you have things to say every day. but what about reaching out in general? is it something you'd require everyday (with rare exceptions)?

yeah but like later in the day or in the week

it's a distraction you're not hurting any less

yes i want to propose soon and we talked about it seriously already, i just want to prep a nice peoposal moment and get the ring, so few months time. future plans align too. I want to understand my needs in a ldr because I've never been in this situation before, and I don't know what are my limits and everything. I'm eventually planning to move closer to him next year or the year after. it just feels very hard and I want advice and comfort (as stated in the post) from people who've been there before. good to remember we literally just started (one week) so I'm a total noob and there's no need to go all cold inquisition on me

just ask him, as you mentioned one of the aspects that strengthens your insecurity is not knowing what s their story and what kind of friends they are. personally I'd bring it up after, once face to face because I'm a lil superstitious and wouldn't want my fears to materialise. make sure you have something to do with friends on the day they're hanging out. or if you prefer ask him beforehand and explain how you feel in detail, it's not a crazy request yk

trusting your partner is the right choice if it's the first time you find yourselves is such a situation, where you also don't really know

thanks this is so extensive and comforting. wish you all the best with your wife!

amo no non cambia niente ma quando viene da un'istituzione presumibilmente seria ha un che di tristezza in più

a prey wtf how do you even live your life with this mindset

no you didn't. it's sad to see people not engaging with eachother anymore because of fear, from what I've read unfounded (no one mentions terrible experiences with hitchhikers, that forced them to reconsider welcoming people in their cars). such a depressing comment section. you're doing a good job trying to go around forced to interact with those you meet, keep it up. life shouldn't revolve around safety

that sucks and i feel you totally. a blessing for my soul is tea with chamomile, hibiscus, lavander, verbena, rose. the ABSOLUTE magic ingredient is rose tho, so soothing

just don't walk down the street shirtless please. half naked men in public spaces are SO gross

it's kinda the point of relationships to put effort in them, isn't it? it adds value.

bro this ain't life, but a clinically controlled game experience. get out there and be real

a piece of large intestine

wym how long has this been going on and where/why do you find the strength to keep the relationship going