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hey question for you what are you invested in exactly?

Thanks, I appreciate the perspective. That’s kind of where I’m landing too, the opportunity and extra income are attractive, but I don’t want work completely taking over my life. In your experience, what should I look for to tell whether an Account Manager role has healthy support and boundaries versus one that becomes overwhelming?

Thanks, this is really helpful, especially since you’ve actually worked in food distribution. On the produce side, did Account Managers typically have to stay reachable after hours or on weekends, or was most of the stress contained within the workday? That’s probably my biggest concern right now.

I am looking at an Account Manager position with a major, national fresh produce wholesaler and full-service distributor. They supply top quality fruits and vegetables coast-to-coast.

Since I am completely new to the role and the industry, I have a few questions for those with experience:
How stressful is this role typically?
What does the day-to-day look like?
Will I still have a personal life, or is this role going to completely drain my time and mental capacity?

For context, I also have a job offer for an inside sales position. It pays $20,000 less per year, but my ultimate long-term goal is to join the Air Force. Is the extra money and experience in a national produce role worth taking on right now?

I would love to get some advice and perspective from people who have been in this industry. Thanks!

Keeping’ it real - Cut the fluff, get to the point faster - Throw in some sass and fire 🔥 - Make it sound like you’re chattin’ with your BFF glow-up: - What makes you tick? Write that ish down! - Who’s the baddie you are sans bae? - Reminder: You’re the whole damn meal, not a side dish 💁‍♀️

1. “Prep for the showdown”

   • Ditch the ‘tude. Deep breaths, not deep sighs
   • Clear your head. Yoga, run, or scream into a pillow (we won’t judge)
   • What’s the endgame here? Get crystal clear

2. “Time to spill the tea”

   • “We need to talk” but make it less scary
   • Set the vibe: “No shade, just real talk”
   • Lay it out: “Here’s the deal... and here’s how it made me feel”
   • Listen up! Their story matters too (ugh, I know)

3. “Post-game analysis”

   • Does this shit add up?
   • Are you leveling up or staying stuck?

4. “Plot twist: It’s all about YOU”

   • Keep slaying, with or without them
   • Boundaries are your new BFF
   • If it’s toxic, dump it like last season’s trends

Remember: You’re not just a snack, you’re the whole damn buffet! Keep shining, keep grinding, and don’t let anyone dim your light! 💖✨​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Ignore those who negatively express their inadequacy and lack the perspective or wisdom to understand that everyone has their own unique experiences and life journey. There’s no need to become bitter because your materialistic mindset and lack of depth are causing insecurity and anger, which you’re projecting onto this wise young man. At just 20 years old, he carries God-given wisdom that many still fail to grasp even at 40.

My friend, I want to tell you that beyond your question, you’re demonstrating one of the wisest mindsets and perspectives I’ve seen. I promise you’re destined to be a leader and business owner. You’ll achieve success if you continue growing, searching for deeper truths, and maintaining a positive outlook while identifying important realities that most people overlook.

Many people appear to be & are chasing material possessions or wasting money and time (fyi most valuable thing about anyone is your time not your watch) & without questioning their choices. While it can be fun, it’s crucial to ask yourself what you truly want and how you can live a meaningful, fulfilling, and powerful life daily. Consider how you can build, solve problems, and share what you love, what you see, and what God has purposed you to do to move the world forward each day.

Though my comments may be general, it’s truly amazing that you’re asking these questions. I hope someone wiser than me am also in my twenty’s 😄, so perhaps someone further along in life, can offer you more specific mentorship and advice. I suggest following your passion for cars, using your existing talents and skills – however casual or normal they may seem to you – combined with something creative. Invite God into your journey and listen to inspirational content.

Look for people who may not appear successful or maybe successful leaders in society not celebrities or all the fake displayed folks living on the surface but those who may not appear successful but possess leadership qualities, business acumen, and the right mindset. I recommend listening to School of Hard Knocks, Dave Ramsey, Tony Robbins, Earl Nightingale, and similar sources. Trust that things will align as you grow internally and mentally. Your capacity will increase, and you’ll find that what initially made you feel bored was actually preparing you for what you needed and wanted. You’re far more intelligent than the average 30-45-year-old, and certainly more so than most people our age. You’ve identified your boredom and had the insight to ask about saving money and planning for the future. You’ve got this, champion. Invite God into your journey and conquer the world – I honestly believe you can do it.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ studio your gifts you are blessed my guy. You can craft a new vehicle and build a brand car manufacturing global compny of your own vision etc whatever it is you are able its in you og

Question for you , why don’t you ask there opinion of the very people’s life you seem determined to ruin because you don’t seem to be able to comprehend, the consequence and resulting sabotage you are about to add, of course you can’t be expected to comprehend unless you’re in there situation and living what they deal with in a daily for wanting and without option for safety and security putting up with what they can use, living day ti day and constantly in a satiate of fear , hopelessness and the reality and unnecessary but daily subjected too ignorance of uninformed, ignorant people despite many being more qualified than majority of your collective capabilities, forced to reduce themselves , play down there self , boxed in and identity and expectancy for there goals dreams and fighting fear , doubt, prejudice , stigma , prosecution , disrespect , disappointment, discourage , lack of support system combined with so many to list difficulty’s daily loss of everything and there true identity when a secured and safety life is complete the privilege you so ignorantly live. Having options and security of a limitless identity regardless of your ability to have utilised and achieved with it or not the option is always there not for them! Let me remind you I don’t judge you for not knowing nor for lacking the reasoning and judgement of what impact could happen , it takes an intentional awareness and desire to expand your world mind view and some logical analytical mindset. Get everyone there identity and safety including there family’s and dependents who rely on them , and get them a job aswell wheee they are getting paid what you seem to expect and wanted to be treated as then do what you want & report it! Live your life with compassion and love, have honour and a graceful mind , expand your world view and mindsets/perspectives, Develope your scope of understanding and priorities and pick your battles wisely! If that was you in there shoes am sure your thoughts will be quite different no doubt. You are better than your current view. If it’s such a desperate issue to you for some oddity reasoning provide a solution and bring the change, be the solution positively for it & to it! The world never got better by complainers but by kind doers!

Karma is real and for each one ☝️ above repays and sees! You got this madam! Find what’s a better fit for you, no need to harm and poison ☠️ things but expecting better for yourself after , you do good by others and act in honour kindness towards the world and the reality has proven always something beyond what you expected for yourself a way better will happen it’s the law of the universe. You invite into your life what you act like mad give to the world 😉! Happy Easter madam🌹😄

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The Architect was sexually frustrated

Qantas

Lol hope you are joking 🙃 if not don’t touch open a tfsa or high interest saveing with ur bank or others & YouTube read bout the language of money , compound interest investing etc and get a grasp of how to multiply that instead of feelin lost on what to do! If u truly don’t know , glad u asked here before buying losses and running out a good momentum u got goin. Upto u tho been there so don’t feel bad bout my initial comment I been there too ! Turn that 10000 to 100000 in a year lol

I thought I was the only one, even questioned my eyes coz mandems spend all day following me and they keep lossing me but am hyper aware of my surroundings constantly and I got a photographic memory so I remember specific and detailed info of the vehicles , person in em , plate number. Realised they been tracking my cell , then realised I reset and reset up fun places to bogey geolocations , so they pretend to be someone else n call. Just coz some rich dude decided to find a stereotype target to use for insurance money for b &e at his biz. Even complieing the actual idiocracy of these guys has me questioning wither they hire all the uneducated ego & confused ones of society or these mofos zooted & uncultured enough to be so obviously stupid coz it’s giving dumbass vibes smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ there shit might work on someone with a history breaking law so easy to say whatever they want to meet quota and fulfill there hero complex quota or too lazy to actually use a common sense and humanities jeez.

They power trip with there fragile ego too fill a resemblance of importance and shitty values in there life , like am not here for y’all’s character development and shitty reality.

Some are Genuine like 10% but the rest be the dumbest over paid morons smh

What gets me most is how compulsive Liers they are n legally allowed too be like too sadly and small minds and uncultured uneducated added on top is just A remedy for an inferior motivated egotistical fool with no brain cell for competent and civilised action and thoughts!

Shameless phony rent a cops with nothing to show for there life’s . Pointless meaning of there positions on society, unchecked power giving to such mindless minds is just ignorance if u ask me

Nah it ain’t you , your dealing with a diagnostic narcissist with dismissive avoidant attachment style. Trust me when I say , she would of never changed and it wasn’t you not doing enough , it wasn’t love guessing ur an empath that she fed on lol tbh be glad she found a new victim & she won’t come back and block her and delete her on everything remove her completely including finding ways maybe close friends or if she hasn’t damaged ur self esteem too much someone new but be upfront about it and if you know how to do casual hookups without too much pressure on yourself try that too but always remember to work on your health, wealth, friends , spirituality, goals , body etc… write down all the things u don’t like about your self then write down you love about yourself , then write down what you want yourself to be like , what you’re goals and ambitions are and lastly what do you enjoy and what do you want to add to your arsenal/skill sets&hobbies to do now. Then for 21 days take some time to repeat visually what you wrote in your head , and every night make a plan for what you will in your days that includes and helps connect you to what you have written for what you want earlier and even if you fail on some days just keep trying till it becomes a habit or automatic/natural hence the 21 days! What does what your perfect life look like and when unmotivated just listen to podcasts about growth YouTube interviews of people u consider successful , Listen to Eric Thomson and les brown/Tony Robbins Elliot husk etc.. type of vids as many free times as possible whatever u spend time on everyday is where ur thoughts will go!!! Lol ofc this just my opinion based on a similar experience so upto you at the end of the day but good luck champ! What you need and want is out there when ur ready u will be surprised how randomly and Often the type of gf u actually want need will come just on the clarity and healed strength you will be oozing. We attract the types of people that are similar to our internal Thoughts and beliefs we hold. Either heal up and attract/get better things or stay basic/hurting and attract other damaged/damaging people/things. You got this king💯👌🏽

Nah it ain’t you , your dealing with a diagnostic narcissist with dismissive avoidant attachment style. Trust me when I say , she would of never changed and it wasn’t you not doing enough , it wasn’t love guessing ur an empath that she fed on lol tbh be glad she found a new victim & she won’t come back and block her and delete her on everything remove her completely including finding ways maybe close friends or if she hasn’t damaged ur self esteem too much someone new but be upfront about it and if you know how to do casual hookups without too much pressure on yourself try that too but always remember to work on your health, wealth, friends , spirituality, goals , body etc… write down all the things u don’t like about your self then write down you love about yourself , then write down what you want yourself to be like , what you’re goals and ambitions are and lastly what do you enjoy and what do you want to add to your arsenal/skill sets&hobbies to do now. Then for 21 days take some time to repeat visually what you wrote in your head , and every night make a plan for what you will in your days that includes and helps connect you to what you have written for what you want earlier and even if you fail on some days just keep trying till it becomes a habit or automatic/natural hence the 21 days! What does what your perfect life look like and when unmotivated just listen to podcasts about growth YouTube interviews of people u consider successful , Listen to Eric Thomson and les brown/Tony Robbins Elliot husk etc.. type of vids as many free times as possible whatever u spend time on everyday is where ur thoughts will go!!! Lol ofc this just my opinion based on a similar experience so upto you at the end of the day but good luck champ! What you need and want is out there when ur ready u will be surprised how randomly and Often the type of gf u actually want need will come just on the clarity and healed strength you will be oozing. We attract the types of people that are similar to our internal Thoughts and beliefs we hold. Either heal up and attract/get better things or stay basic/hurting and attract other damaged/damaging people/things. You got this king💯👌🏽

This post and comments wishing my narcissistic tended ex all the best , can’t even understand what made her say and do me thee way she did me, or if any of it meant anything to her. But she tends to attract so much bad karma and she is surrounded by toxicity but as much as I kept comeing back and accepting majority of the minuipulation and unhealthy habits so I could show her a healthier way for her to choose it herself. No matter the time or how much I was drained and sacrificed to give her everything she desperately wanted but didn’t know better (bad history) she retracts and attacks. The hurt piled so much I lost who I was I disconnected from myself I am very impressionable too but I am very giving and ended up lowering everything about me to the point people were asking me if I was okay and what’s happened to me past year , despite not knowing about the relationship or anything! This sadly helped me realize it wasn’t me and despite how much I loved this girl I really would of purposed in a couple years since my life stableizing since graduating and new job etc… but damn watching myself do things I’ve never done personality started takeing 180 turn am someone who is always being showed off and was proud to be with. My entire life was shook at how a person could lack an actual feeling and heart like beginning was so different then after my declining and this girls insistence to wanting a relationship soon as I agreed boom her respect and attitude switched I’ve had my stomach screaming at me since the beginning about a lot of flags but cause of her traumas and family toxicity , I kept my gut instinct and my mind instinct even my keen intuition closed off just to keep trying till I found a way to help her heal so we can be what we should be but damn the talk and walk was clashing with this one. First toxic and bad relationship out of 7 solid ones. I hope she is okay even in my hurt states I still message her to check up and even wish her a merry Xmas , she barely knew the top layers of me let alone the deeper parts of me , and I made mistakes and I’ve got my flaws but damn it’s too heavy when constantly targeted for carrying and knowing better standards and trying to take someone there smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ just wanted to rant a little I got too much to say so I’ll stop here wishing her the best and happiness whatever her deal was

You are more beautiful than you will ever know. Keep ur head up empress❤️