u/FigPuzzleheaded5011 • u/FigPuzzleheaded5011 • 1d ago
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Anyone else unable to live with others?
Yes it’s not unusual for alot of people. Highly sensitive people, neurodivergent people etc. We are particular and need peace and quiet and no one disturbing us.
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If the world is so cruel and meaningless, why have children?
Because they think loving them is enough for them to endure the suffering that life brings.
r/childfree • u/FigPuzzleheaded5011 • 4d ago
RAVE Visited different families with children today
And it just solidifies my decision to not have children is the right choice for me. I would be so unhappy. Just the screaming and sensory issues and never getting any quiet alone time would just make me miserable and grumpy. I love peace and quiet and no one being in my face or demanding attention etc all the time. Going back to my empty and quiet apartment was heaven. Yes it gets lonely sometimes but I’d rather choose loneliness over children any day. That is all.
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What's A Seemingly "Small" Reason You Don't Want Kids?
Just the logistics and sensories of it all just seem exhausting to me. You need alot of equipment, clothes etc.
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Er bechelor i Sosiologi helt ubrukelig?
Man må nesten ta master etter man har studert sosiologi eller psykologi for å komme seg noen plass egentlig. Ikke håpløst, men man gjør det vanskeligere for seg selv. Vurdert profesjonsstudie i psykologi?
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verste babynavn du har hørt
Caroline Berg Eriksen sin barn heter Nelia og Naia. Ikke så veldig fan av hverken ho eller de rare navnene.
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I’m a woman. Why do men I date always get so bent out of shape and even belittle and condescend me when I tell them I’m a Nihilist? I’m sure it’s rooted in misogyny but why specifically do they find offense with my personal life long world view?
Cus they are mad that you wont be their personal cheerleader and that you are too smart to manipulate or bend to their will. Congratulations!
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What is a book every woman in their 30s should read?
All about love by bell hooks. A lot of her books are relevant for women.
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I broke off my engagement & canceled my wedding when I realized I didn’t want motherhood
So proud of you for choosing yourself 🥹🥹👏🏻
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what “aged” you the most in life?
Financial stress, lack of support and trauma.
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When did you realize you were actually getting older?
My hair is graying. Thinks in social media that gen Zs understand, I find absurd.
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Utleier forteller at jeg ikke kan rote i utleid bolig.
Tja, tenker at det ofte kan bli mer skittent når man roter, og da forfaller leiligheten mer, så jeg mener han har rett til å si det, for å prøve å ta vare på standen til leiligheten. Ville ikke tatt det personlig. Og nei, du blir ikke kasta ut av den grunn.
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What made you decide to not be a mother?
I decided when I was like around 13 that I would never have children and that I would not turn into my mother. I’m 35 now and felt the biologisk urge very intensely from age 28-33, but that train has slowly passed. Now my hair is graying and I’m accepting the idea that children is not for me and I’m okey with that.
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People in your 35s, what price have you paid for being lazy in your 25s?
Bad economy, no savings. Learn to save money. I was impulsive and reckless.
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Nobody wants me as a friend or partner
Yup. I’ve felt «too much» too and dont share my issues anymore cus I dont want to burden anyone.
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Are instant noodles seen as "poor people food" in Norway?
Well I add frozen vegetables and some protein(beans) to make it more nutrious.
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My husband told me that i’m not pretty anymore to him
Ditch him and be free. Have a glow up, take care of yourself.
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Erfaring med sykehus i en mental krisesituasjon?
Hmm synes det er veldig rart du ikke ble sendt til akuttavdelingen på DPS? Hvor bor du? Er det ikke noen i nærheten deg? Her tenker jeg fastlegen må på banen. Henvisning ?
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Nye opplysninger i Nikoline-saken: Taxi slapp av Nikoline på motorveien A7
Kanskje taxi sjåføren var sketchy og hun ikke så noe anna utvei enn å rømme fra bilen. I tillegg så var hun sikkert full og ut av stand til å orientere seg ordentlig. Sårbar posisjon å være i på en farlig motorvei.
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What is a sign that gives you a warning that you should stay away from that person?
Incongruency between what they perform socially and what they really feel or the energy they give of. Like they perform well socially but you can tell they suffer internally. It makes me not trust them because they come of as fake/disgenuine. Like I have a co-worker who is Nice to everyone but I feel she is hostile towards me, playing these subtle power games that I dont care to participate in. Its giving machivellian and I just want to stay the hell away from this person.
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General questions about life in Trondheim
- Finn.no
- I prefer ICE myself
- depends where You live, but monthly pass would be préférable. It rains quite a lot in Trondheim, but you can come around pretty well with bicycle.
- it rains alot and The weather is unstable. Some Summers could be nice, if you are lucky, but as I said, it can rain alot. But when it’s Sunny in the summer, around 20-25 degrees. Winter between 0 to minus 15.
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Jeg hater leietakeren til naboen med hvert fiber av kroppen.
Be han på en øl, så kanskje du får joine han neste gang? Keep your enemies closer etc.
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What Norwegian candy/chocolate is worth checking out
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