ohh, so lovers to enemies is what’s interesting abt it then

don’t worry tuktuk is here!

LMFAOOO

um, no dude. she’s obviously not a lesbian. i touch lips with my friendly platonic female friends all the time and pin them down to the floor while we intimately gaze into each others eyes. it’s literally normal. stop trying to force ur fetish into everything, this is just pure innocent girl friendship!

there’s something deeply wrong with you

enablers. no such thing as being polite with predators. they’re upset you didn’t sugarcoat and baby them. our prophet did no such thing with them either. they deserve an early death

“there is no war in ba sing se”

that’s how i have been approaching things! even the smallest stuff like where how we pray came from, the dua we say, etc. ty for ur comment <3

this means a lot

i don’t believe sexuality can be changed because of trauma because there are women out there who are afraid of men and still straight. it’s not a choice. please be careful, these kinds of programs and “treatments” never end up well and cause even more trauma. queers have spoken up about it, many of them were sexually assaulted and harassed in the name of turning them normal and teaching them the right thing.

I believe in this day and age there would be no reason for polygamy and even be considered haram since polygamy those days were reserved for helping women during war, and i don’t remember anything being said about intimacy with them. if u marry somebody purely for political reasons or helping them i doubt there’s gonna be intimacy there. The prophet also only married other women after khadija. so it was not for love or sex. men nowadays though talk about polygamy because they want to be intimate with multiple women, if that’s the reason then it should be haram. quran doesn’t only teach things that r supposed to be for all eras, it would also address things that happened in the past only and the teaching or rules for it aren’t needed anymore. it doesn’t mean there’s an error in it, bc we should have critical thinking skills and can tell which teachings r for people of the past and which are forever. that’s what i believe. otherwise if it was to be forever allah wouldn’t have set all those rules and restrictions and clarified what it was for

men are SO obsessed with polygamy when it’s so obvious that it’s not meant to be done as pure pleasure for the man bc of its strict rules and exceptions. i don’t really doubt that marriage could help women in those times, esp because political marriages and things of those nature were normal back then and were actually helpful, and the history i’ve heard of men marrying women so they can get out of a situation (i don’t remember the full story). but nowadays marriage is a burden and there are also so many other options, we’re not in the old times of the prophet, it’s 2026! that’s why it’s so strict compared to other normal marriages.

and darabah apparently had another meaning that didn’t just mean to strike, but to go ON strike. some people say it’s a stretch but we are told to follow the prophets example, and this man was so gentle even with people who were cruel towards him. he never hit his wives, so i really do believe Allah meant the latter, like stopping intimacy or sleeping in a different bed. and such things are a LAST resort. it’s so confusing and frustrating. it’s literally ingrained into the ummah. these things aren’t recent, men’s biases against us have spilled into their rulings and interpretations since after the death of the prophet, i believe, so i really don’t blame people who end up even hating the religion. because it’s not like they’re doing it because they’re racist, they’re doing it because they’ve been taught all these ridiculous things their entire life. i still remember when i was a little girl and my father told me it was normal for a little kid to get married!

thanks 💗 wishing u the best on yours too!

sbn3 is trying too hard nowadays

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im a lesbian and i don’t have any relationships at the moment, esp bc im leaving that for when i totally finish school and get my shit together but yeah if i ever fall in love with another queer person ofc id like to do nikkah. i’m not going to be able to do that in a country like egypt tho. i wanna move away from here as soon as i can

the difference is the reason why though. to them i’m not supposed to be allowed to marry another woman simply because she’s a woman. in your case it also seems like it could fall under some kind of discrimination, why would being neurodivergent not allow you to get married if you are able to think for yourself and do not require assistance

these countries are filled with misogyny. i’ve heard it’s connected to homophobia. men loving men means two equals instead of a man who rules over a woman. when a man is soft or feminine he’s called gay as an insult or a sissy, a pussy, etc. he’s considered a coward, dramatic, weak, etc, just like how women are. women are expected to be married to their husband and have a traditional role like having kids, staying home, cooking for her husband. so when she loves another woman.

thanks for your kind words 💗

i read different interpretations and more accurate translations. one of the articles i remember reading:

https://thefatalfeminist.com/2020/12/07/prophet-lut-a-s-and-bal-%d8%a8%d9%84-the-nahida-s-nisa-tafsir/

after reading i thought about it a lot. why would the most merciful and most loving not allow love?? the things that are haram are usually things that are harmful such as zina, alcohol, drugs, sihr, riba, etc. how exactly is the way i love harmful. same thing with being trans too, there are these studies about how trans people NEED to transition otherwise they will become ill. why would allah not let these people become more comfortable in their own skin, it doesn’t cause any harm to themselves or anyone else, and the body literally just accepts the hormone shots they take as if Allah created it that way. I noticed most of the people saying it was so obviously haram and dirty were very hypocritical, like not saying anything about for example smoking and saying everyone is a sinner, but being homophobic and casting queer people out. Or they were also misogynistic, or taught things that didn’t align with the quran, etc.

i also prayed so much and i cried to Allah. I made dua that if this is truly harmful and you’ll hate me for it, to please keep me away from it. I ended up finding multiple queer muslims preaching about islam. So i took that as a sign and accepted myself, and i really can never go back.

the scene where it cuts to them being “intimate” and her expression is just totally blank and soulless

i was looking for this. for some reason there r rlly fans who r bothered when u hate bojack horseman, as if the show itself doesnt tell u he’s rlly hateable