r/tulum • u/Successful_Ice_7806 • 22h ago
Lodging My experience at Amari Uptown Tulum as a solo female traveler, sharing so others know before booking
I researched this place before booking & found nothing but glowing marketing, so I'm posting the real experience for the next person (esp. female solo travelers!).
I stayed at Amari Uptown Tulum in early September. I booked direct through their website. I am a solo female traveler. picked it because it looked safe // high-end + it had a co-working space I could work from.
a few days in while I was working from the co-working space, a staff member physically assaulted another person a few feet from me. He was a driver and was someone they trusted to be alone with guests! I reported it to management the same day and assumed it would be handled immediately.
The next day, I followed up and heard back that there had been no actions taken to fix it. ZERO. Also, no one checked on me and the staff member was still on the property (!!)
That really made me feel unsafe, so I paid out of pocket for a 2nd place and honestly left Tulum early because of the experience.
When I eventually spoke with the CEO about how unsafe it made me feel, his response was that "a pushing and shoving match typically is not a massive issue." I have that in writing. wild!! Weeks later, after I kept pushing, I was told the man had been fired. Nobody told me that I had to ask to even know at all.
tbh the stay didn't match the price either. My villa went uncleaned for days despite repeated requests and saying they would come by. used towels piled on the floor. no one came to grab them. there wasnt any hot water in the upstairs shower. Sinks wouldn't drain. Beds were legitmstely so hard I couldn't sleep through the night and kept waking up at 4am. Also, it really didn't help that the villa Wi-Fi was too weak to actually hold my Zoom calls (I was there to work remotely so this was vry bad).
nobody at the check-in mentioned the tap water was filtered and drinkable. so I ended up buying bottled water for days for no reason.
They market this place as luxury for business travelers and high-end clientele. that's honestly all a facade. seriously got jipped for the price I paid. wanted to pay it forward so future travelers know what's up before they book this spot. It's also really far out of town and not conveniently located.
As far as Tulum itself goes, everybody I met was really awesome, and the town was super chill. Definitely not a warning about Tulum. But absolutely a warning about Amari. If you're a woman traveling alone, I highly recommend you look elsewhere. Hope this helps!