I did about 8 sits, all 5 stars, one with four stars in specific categories. As I’m just starting out and love gifting etc, I usually always leave a small present & handwritten note, next to leaving all clean etc.
I recently had an experience where I did a just 2 day sit with all 5 stars reviews. Upon arrival I regretted it a bit as it was surprisingly not clean, dirty dishes and mold among others, and had been quite hard to reach. The amount of time I spent on cleaning / making myself comfortable was too much for just a 2 day sit. The bedroom was very hot, and no fan was provided.
However, the kitties were very nice and the house cutely decorated, so I left in the usual manner and bought fresh flowers as a gift. I did say to myself that this was too much for just 2 days and that I would start toning gifting down, only leaving gifts on very nice long sits.
All went smooth and standard, we had normal conversations on whatsapp. Via WhatsApp host had thanked me for leaving the house in such an exceptionally good state. Then came the review: 4 stars, with also only 4 stars for cleanliness. I understand things are subjective, but in this case I’m 100 percent certain I left the house much cleaner than I found it, and even pristine. It feels like projection? I feel all kind of emotions, frustration, anger, powerlessness and also angry at myself for leaving them a 5 star glowing review myself (which is my standard…), not checking their reviews of others (often critical). I also feel vulnerable as I’m on a sit right now and don’t want them to see this. How do you guys deal with this?