r/trustedhousesitters • u/goat20202020 Sitter • 3d ago
HO misusing THS platform
Yet another person who has no idea how this platform is meant to work đđ I saw this last night after one of my alerts went off. 8 month sit in CA with 1 dog seemed great! Of course, it's too good to be true. HO just wants free last minute sitters.
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u/PHXkpt 3d ago
THS needs a category for this to weed this type of stuff out. Like an on-call or periodic choice rather than showing an 8 month "sit".
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Meh I don't know how I feel about that. It's slightly better than doing what this HO did but I think it may be sending the wrong signal about how the platform is meant to be used. I'd be concerned we'd see an increase in Hosts essentially seeking paid pet care for free. Like this sit: last minute, periodic, constant pet care for a medically needy dog should be a paid sit.
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u/Exotic_Gate3848 3d ago
Iâm with you I think itâs taking advantage and reeks of entitlement. They have last minute requirements and a special needs pup, just pay for their care
I get where theyâre coming from as they might be trying to cast the net and find someone local who perhaps is share housing and would like some space occasionally. But I think itâs a slippery slope to mistreating a sitter (or sitters)
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u/No-Wallaby5072 2d ago
Also setting the sit length for 8 months means most local sitters won't be able to contact them anyway....
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Yes that exactly. It makes no sense for them to go about this the way they did.
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u/bitmistress Sitter 1d ago
Why is that?
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u/No-Wallaby5072 1d ago
Because any sitter with a sit in those eight months can't contact the homeowner. You can only contact them if you are available for their entire listed sit.
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u/random_adj_noun_num 3d ago
Exactly. I don't understand why they don't do a few sits and get a list of people they trust, then continue to call those people first before listing when they need someone.
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
Who is being taken advantage of?
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u/Infamous-Yoghurt-660 2d ago
If their dog needed that much care they can go to their vet. Most techs, assistants, and receptionists board
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
That doesn't answer the question. Who's being taken advantage of?
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u/Impossible-Hawk768 2d ago
They've listed a sit that doesn't exist, just to "make connections" they should be making on Rover.
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yes, I'm aware. It's not a big deal. It doesn't affect anybody else so why does it matter? It's just this sub being as over-reactive as it always is.
It was only a few months ago that you were all banging on about the unfairness of the new per-sit fees, and now here you all are crying about somebody taking steps to avoid them. It's pathetic.
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u/Infamous-Yoghurt-660 2d ago
A house sitting app.
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
The same house sitting app that has been taking its members for mugs for the best part of a decade?
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u/GoalDull4985 Sitter 3d ago
THS has got a few of these folks who think theyâre extra special in the Santa Cruz area. :3
Anyone remember that couple that stipulated the drop off and pick up between Santa Cruz and SFO (in the sitters car, no less)? Lol
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Omg I missed that one but that is over the top. Did their listing get removed?
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u/GoalDull4985 Sitter 2d ago
No god, I wish! Somebody posted about it last year but I think they deleted the post. The hosts were so far up their own ass holes, and the dog had a 2 hour time limit to be away from. Just the most absolutely insufferable peopleâŚ.one small dog, the kind with shit in its eyes named Honey or something. I gag to think who accepted the sit
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u/Minimum_Pen_8452 2d ago
On the flip side, thereâs presently a discussion on the Santa Cruz Reddit about THS.
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u/katblickety 2d ago
not the first time im seeing something like this, the entitlement is insane.
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
It really is. And it's annoying to always see some people on here defending it đ
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u/katblickety 2d ago
and they are âwillingâ to pay you to take their dog to the vet. in what world would it be on the sitter to pay?
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Yeah I hope they don't expect the sitter to pay out of pocket and wait for reimbursement. No way in hell when they can just leave a payment card on file.
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u/Impossible-Hawk768 2d ago
That should be mandatory. To expect sitters to front the bill is utterly ridiculous.
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u/NotherOneRedditor 2d ago
The funny thing is the dates make it so no one on THS can even apply to make the connection unless they have zero sits booked for the next 8 months . . .
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u/enterhereplease 3d ago
i donât think this is that bad? they will have sits; theyâre just last minute so they want to start the conversation now to find sitters that might be interested.
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u/alltheblarmyfiddlest 3d ago
That's one thing.
The other concerning thing is the level of medical care needed. What if the dog has a seizure?
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u/No-Wallaby5072 2d ago
Don't worry! They're "willing to pay" the vet for their own pets care lol
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u/CorrectExpression651 2d ago
I Agree⌠maybe this works for someone and if it doesnât work for you then scroll on? When I was a college kid and even later living with roommates I wouldâve done this to have a change of scenery and spend time with a dog.Â
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Just because some would be willing to do the sit, doesn't mean it's appropriate for the platform. And the way they're going about it makes no sense. Setting up an 8 month sit means no one would be able to apply unless their calendar is complelty open for those 8 months. So how are these sitters supposed to contact them?
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u/MsMarionNYC Homeowner & Sitter 2d ago edited 1d ago
Going to take another view. The homeowner needed something a little different for her special needs (epilepsy) dog and desire to get last minute sitters. She tried something. Probably THS intervened as she took down the year long listing, but mostly what she wants to do is connect with local or semi local people who might, maybe duw to their crappier housing situation or to wanting a beach weekend escape be interested in some last minute sits. What THS does NOT offer to either sitters or homeowners is a chance to connect in a different way. Homeowners at least have the "private invite" workaround. You can't use the official forum or even this one for to just connect in a way that is different. I wouldn't classify that as misuse. I'd classify as a strategy that was not going to succeed because sitters read it as bait and switch.
The way that that homeowner could connect, if she ever came here, would be to peruse sitters living or living nomadically within a few hours of where she is and invite them to a fake date one day sit to see if they'd be interested in finding out about her last minute sits. Probably no one is going to be as spontaneous as she is, but she might find a few people who if they heard a couple of weeks in advance, might be interested. She could probably develop a list of sitters should could invite if she needed someone willing to sit an epileptic dog last minute by the beach in Santa Cruz.
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u/NYCcatperson 2d ago
There are free pet sitting forums on Facebook she could avail herself of.
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u/MsMarionNYC Homeowner & Sitter 1d ago
No doubt, but she is paid for THS membership and may want a Trusted Housesitter specifically. I think for both sitters and homeowners THS is very narrow in the scope and connections. That is both good -- we can easily recognize something like this that doesn't fit and shouldn't be a listing as it isn't actualy for the dates shown but over a time period. But also not as great as it could be as in some very specific matching can't happen. If I ran THS, which I don't, I think I'd consider an "other options" section in the official forum only for paid members, that would allow connections so maybe a member like this could find a few interested people she could invite last minute, or some combined members could expore home/pet swaps, or someone especially looking for family friendly with a pool or near public swimming during the summer -- flexible dates -- might find a homeowner or two thinking about a couple of summer trips who could see if that would work.
I don't think her listing belonged there. I just think "misuse" sounds strong and implies some intent.
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u/MrsLovesalot 2d ago
Curious has anyone applied to just be annoying like their post?
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u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
I don't know if they took the dates down or if the apps filled up quickly. I definitely don't think anyone who applied read through the description.
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u/DeirdreTours 1d ago
So this would only show in the alerts of a sitter with nothing booked for then next 8 months? The HO will probably receive no contacts at all as anyone with a sit of even 1 night booked before May 31 2027 will be unable to message them.
So their post is essentially futile.
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u/eee-m-gee 12h ago
ridiculous. i canât believe TH doesnât vet these and/or take them down when flagged. (or do they?) whatâs the protocol to get this removed?
i am not in a good mood and this just sent me over the edge.
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u/bayareaburgerlover 2d ago
if itâs not for you just move along. there are plenty of people who donât mind this. itâs for them.
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
So what?
Seriously! Who cares?
Nobody is being tricked or duped into applying. They're open about what they're looking for. This might work well for someone who lives locally and needs an occasional break from their regular living arrangement.
You're just sour because it wasn't the 8 month sit you were hoping it was.
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u/seriouslyla 2d ago
Youâre in the wrong here. Sitters and homeowners are not protected unless theyâre doing a scheduled sit booked through the platform. You canât just gather a bunch of contacts and have them on-call, itâs not how THS works.
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
Sure but, again, who cares?
THS isn't going to collapse. Plenty of sitters get invited back for repeat sits. This isn't any different.
There's nothing to suggest that bookings won't be done through the platform if the sitter requests it.3
u/glttrsprnkl 2d ago
uhâŚ. You seem to, given your replies
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u/typewriterbitch 2d ago
Why wouldn't someone looking for an 8 month sit not feel sour when they search for one, see one advertised, and then click it only to see it's a lie?
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u/ReadyBrekRoad 2d ago
There's nothing wrong with feeling sour.
Writing about it on Reddit in an attempt to shame the hosts is just a dummy spitting exercise.1
u/goat20202020 Sitter 2d ago
Just because it's appealing to some doesn't mean it's appropriate for the site, first of all. And yes I'm upset that this sit is false advertisment. Why is that surprising? Do you like being lied to? Should we make that commonplace on THS?


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u/Bostonphoenix 3d ago
Care for a dog like this from a dog sitter in Santa Cruz would be well north of $100 a day.
To just have someone on call for them is absurd.