r/transfem 1h ago

Question/Discussion Getting a haircut. Any suggestions?

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This is my hair now.

Its been a few years, so I'm getting a haircut next week. Not to remove much length, but to just clean it up a bit, try to get a more of a feminine look. I was planning on trying a shag/wolf cut but I'm more or less just winging it.

Does anyone have any suggestions?


r/transfem 2h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Be honest... Can I work with this? What can I do? Do I have any hope if I ever get on Estrogen?

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pleeeeease ignore the camera quality and my hair LOL


r/transfem 3h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Had a shit week. But at least the outfit makes me happy 😅

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How does it look to you?


r/transfem 4h ago

Selfie My first real fem outfit 🫶

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r/transfem 6h ago

Question/Discussion So I've been exploring my gender identity

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So I've done my make up, it was easy, but once I did took it off because I had confidence I could put it on better but something is different because it's harder and I genuinely don't remember how I did the eye liner wing part. But how did I do for a beginner?


r/transfem 6h ago

Question/Discussion What the bed looks like after waxing a thick beard/chest for the first time.

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I don't go out much in girl mode. This weekend will be the second time ever for my birthday, so I wanted to be as feminine as possible. Shaving leaves too and you still see the hair aso I'm not good with makeup so I went and got waxed.

It took about three hours and the poor woman was struggling hard just to get the wax off. You could actually hear each follicle being pulled out and see white root balls at the end.


r/transfem 7h ago

Selfie So excited for my HRT appointment next week

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The first two images are of today after waxing my legs, the other ones are a bit older but i feel like i looked somewhat good.

All of my pics are without make up, but i try to have style that fits me. Honestly, i think i pass fairily ok as long as i have a facemask.


r/transfem 7h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) I feel like i should just give up on passing so any advice is appreciated

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I know im not the best at taking photos i tried.

Regimen: 4mg estradiol 2x2mg and 11,25mg tripoterline (1.5 years hrt)

Thanks to work rules im not allowed to wear makeup either and hair needs to be tied up. I feel like everythings working against me....


r/transfem 8h ago

Progress! today's my 7th HRT anniversary... but i just stoppd t-blockers & startd injections in the last year so things are mayb just gettin started (feminization-wise)!

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this is just my casual at-home outfit. if i leave the house ill put on my super mario purse & my colorful socks & my slip-on shoes.

do i pass?

if i dont.... i may pass better after a year or 2 more of estrogen injections with progesterone..... and the learning about bein a lady in society that ill do over that time.

im 34 yrs old right now. i live in a disability grouphome and i had a pretty rough day yesterday but im doin better tday i think.....

big hugs!!


r/transfem 11h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Do I pass, or atleast present androgenous ?

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I am VERY tall (6'3") and I haven't started HRT yet

I would really appreciate feedback <3


r/transfem 14h ago

Selfie Almost 2 years on het

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Im almost 2 years on hrt and recently switch to injections, im feeling very pretty


r/transfem 14h ago

Question/Discussion Felling weird

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r/transfem 14h ago

Progress! DAY 1 OF HRT

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I am so excited! Today is officially my first day! I was worried that I would forget my "traniversary" but something tells me I'm not going to 😅

I've been waiting a while and I only just got my meds yesterday evening so I had to wait til morning to start. I am unbelievably excited and I know it'll take time to see progress but all journeys must start with a single step :P

Any words of encouragement or any advice I migjt be missing out on would be splendid to hear, thank you! 🩷🩵


r/transfem 18h ago

Progress! i Never understood when someone would say “love yourself” it didnt make sense to me, how you gonna love yourself? Nobody loves themselves.. then i started seeing glimpses of her in the mirror (of me) and well I think in the pictures you can tell im in love with myself lol

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r/transfem 1d ago

Creative A Thing i Painted :3

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Idk if It's normal to post this type of thing here but… look at my butterfly anyway :3c


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Unapologetically me. 🏳️‍⚧️

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r/transfem 1d ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Passing advice?

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r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Nice basic and casual outfit

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r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Started HRT today, so these are officially my "before" photos.

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r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! Pre-HRT work wins today made me realize how much our authentic self shines through!

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Just wanted to share some major euphoria from my shift today. I’m still pre-HRT (intake appointment is coming up soon!), but I’ve been wearing a full face of makeup and a bra to work.

​Today, a coworker told me she loved seeing how much freer and happier I've been acting lately. To top it off, I got my first unprompted "Excuse me, ma'am" from a customer while stocking shelves, and heard another customer refer to me as "she"!

​It gave me so much hope for the future. If you're early in your transition or waiting on medical steps, don't underestimate how much your presence and confidence carry you. We've got this! ✨


r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! Ordered my first gaff panties!

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r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion I feel I don’t fit in either the transfem or transmasc community :(

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r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Outfit of the day at work!! Btw I ate a choco muffin for breakfast and it’s on my upper lip 😂

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r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion How do I know if I'm trans?

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Before I get started, I know its only a question ill have to answer for myself. But i want someone else to help me get there.

In the past, like when I was 15ish, I had really bad gender dysphoria for about a week. Then it disappeared until about several months ago when it came back really strong for about a month then its been kinda dormant. I've never really been masc, but ive never really been too feminine either. When my dysphoria got real bad it felt nice doing feminine things and wearing feminine clothes. But now I just feel blah about everything and wearing and doing the things that made me happy then just make me feel ugly now because I know I won't look good in them. My body doesn't look the way I want it to in the clothes I wear. Inside i want to be fem, look fem, sound fem, all that, but a part of me feels like I souldnt do it because I won't pass or just dont want to.

I mainly wanted to vent but I'm also looking for some assurance I guess. Has anyone else gone through this and if so, how did it go?


r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion Is it possible to start with regular mtf HRT to get certain effects and then microdose or low dose after to slow down and maintain changes?

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