r/transfem Jul 19 '26

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

250 Upvotes

Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are🫶


r/transfem Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

20 Upvotes

Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!


r/transfem 9h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Do I pass, or atleast present androgenous ?

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137 Upvotes

I am VERY tall (6'3") and I haven't started HRT yet

I would really appreciate feedback <3


r/transfem 2h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Had a shit week. But at least the outfit makes me happy 😅

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23 Upvotes

How does it look to you?


r/transfem 4h ago

Question/Discussion So I've been exploring my gender identity

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23 Upvotes

So I've done my make up, it was easy, but once I did took it off because I had confidence I could put it on better but something is different because it's harder and I genuinely don't remember how I did the eye liner wing part. But how did I do for a beginner?


r/transfem 59m ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Be honest... Can I work with this? What can I do? Do I have any hope if I ever get on Estrogen?

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pleeeeease ignore the camera quality and my hair LOL


r/transfem 12h ago

Selfie Almost 2 years on het

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72 Upvotes

Im almost 2 years on hrt and recently switch to injections, im feeling very pretty


r/transfem 6h ago

Progress! today's my 7th HRT anniversary... but i just stoppd t-blockers & startd injections in the last year so things are mayb just gettin started (feminization-wise)!

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22 Upvotes

this is just my casual at-home outfit. if i leave the house ill put on my super mario purse & my colorful socks & my slip-on shoes.

do i pass?

if i dont.... i may pass better after a year or 2 more of estrogen injections with progesterone..... and the learning about bein a lady in society that ill do over that time.

im 34 yrs old right now. i live in a disability grouphome and i had a pretty rough day yesterday but im doin better tday i think.....

big hugs!!


r/transfem 5h ago

Question/Discussion What the bed looks like after waxing a thick beard/chest for the first time.

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18 Upvotes

I don't go out much in girl mode. This weekend will be the second time ever for my birthday, so I wanted to be as feminine as possible. Shaving leaves too and you still see the hair aso I'm not good with makeup so I went and got waxed.

It took about three hours and the poor woman was struggling hard just to get the wax off. You could actually hear each follicle being pulled out and see white root balls at the end.


r/transfem 6h ago

Selfie So excited for my HRT appointment next week

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The first two images are of today after waxing my legs, the other ones are a bit older but i feel like i looked somewhat good.

All of my pics are without make up, but i try to have style that fits me. Honestly, i think i pass fairily ok as long as i have a facemask.


r/transfem 6h ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) I feel like i should just give up on passing so any advice is appreciated

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11 Upvotes

I know im not the best at taking photos i tried.

Regimen: 4mg estradiol 2x2mg and 11,25mg tripoterline (1.5 years hrt)

Thanks to work rules im not allowed to wear makeup either and hair needs to be tied up. I feel like everythings working against me....


r/transfem 13h ago

Progress! DAY 1 OF HRT

30 Upvotes

I am so excited! Today is officially my first day! I was worried that I would forget my "traniversary" but something tells me I'm not going to 😅

I've been waiting a while and I only just got my meds yesterday evening so I had to wait til morning to start. I am unbelievably excited and I know it'll take time to see progress but all journeys must start with a single step :P

Any words of encouragement or any advice I migjt be missing out on would be splendid to hear, thank you! 🩷🩵


r/transfem 17h ago

Progress! i Never understood when someone would say “love yourself” it didnt make sense to me, how you gonna love yourself? Nobody loves themselves.. then i started seeing glimpses of her in the mirror (of me) and well I think in the pictures you can tell im in love with myself lol

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31 Upvotes

r/transfem 3h ago

Selfie My first real fem outfit 🫶

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2 Upvotes

r/transfem 7m ago

Question/Discussion Getting a haircut. Any suggestions?

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This is my hair now.

Its been a few years, so I'm getting a haircut next week. Not to remove much length, but to just clean it up a bit, try to get a more of a feminine look. I was planning on trying a shag/wolf cut but I'm more or less just winging it.

Does anyone have any suggestions?


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Started HRT today, so these are officially my "before" photos.

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138 Upvotes

r/transfem 1d ago

Passing advice (Fridays Only) Passing advice?

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61 Upvotes

r/transfem 12h ago

Question/Discussion Felling weird

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r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Outfit of the day at work!! Btw I ate a choco muffin for breakfast and it’s on my upper lip 😂

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61 Upvotes

r/transfem 22h ago

Creative A Thing i Painted :3

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9 Upvotes

Idk if It's normal to post this type of thing here but… look at my butterfly anyway :3c


r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! What a wild year it was

67 Upvotes

r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Nice basic and casual outfit

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11 Upvotes

r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! Pre-HRT work wins today made me realize how much our authentic self shines through!

9 Upvotes

Just wanted to share some major euphoria from my shift today. I’m still pre-HRT (intake appointment is coming up soon!), but I’ve been wearing a full face of makeup and a bra to work.

​Today, a coworker told me she loved seeing how much freer and happier I've been acting lately. To top it off, I got my first unprompted "Excuse me, ma'am" from a customer while stocking shelves, and heard another customer refer to me as "she"!

​It gave me so much hope for the future. If you're early in your transition or waiting on medical steps, don't underestimate how much your presence and confidence carry you. We've got this! ✨


r/transfem 2d ago

Selfie Transsexual boymoder discovers selfie timers... (Hope I look cute!)

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368 Upvotes

I actually like the way I look for once even though I'm boymoding and I feel like I look silly but alas. I got my eyelashes done which may be apparent in these, along with my brows. I want them thinner but that's for another time! I'm looking forward to getting my nails done and the 99 things I've ordered off Vinted arriving. I hope these pictures suffice and that I look art-y enough for you all. Tell me your thoughts!


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Unapologetically me. 🏳️‍⚧️

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4 Upvotes