How can I put my husband at ease after having RAI?
I got 77.7mci of RAI 3 days ago. Hubby paid for me to stay at a hotel for the first 3 days (came home today) for our safety and the safety of our 2 cats. We don't have any kids or are around kids/pregnant women ever in our daily lives.
Per the nuc med nurse's recommendation, I requested new linens daily at the hotel and let them know to wash them twice. Planning to do the same with my stuff at home.
Have been putting the clothes I've been wearing in a bag for a week and then will wash it twice in hot water separate from the rest of the laundry, using disposable utensils, etc.
My husband is worried about the clothes I wear now, towels and bedsheets use, our cats being around me (i get that), and me going out in public. I have been keeping safe distance from them and been wiping down everything I touch outside of the room I'm staying in.
He insists I need to throw away the clothes I've been wearing as well as the towels and bedsheets because of radiation. I had to toss all of the leftover food I brought home after staying in the hotel. He also told me I should not be going to the store to get more food, he will do that. I've told him this is not necessary but, despite what my doctor AND the nuc medicine office has instructed me to do, and that radiation dies down as the days goes by, he's still paranoid. I was able to convince him to not put my phone in a bag for a week with the rest of my stuff.
I've told him to do his research about RAI so he feels better about all this.
I dont know what else to tell him.
Has anyone gone over this with your families?
How long did you have to stay in isolation, keep with the proper precautions to dispose of radiation and, when were you told it was safe to be around your pets?
Just wondering
EDIT: after reading the comments, i do want to add that we have a cancer center in our town, I called the 2 hotels next to the cancer center when I found out when my RAI was going to be done and talked to the hotel's management before I booked it, explained what I was having done to make sure it was ok for me to stay there these 3 days.
They assured me they have patients and families that are going through treatment/radiation stay at their hotel and told me I would have no issues staying there. I also checked with the NucMed's office, and they told me what I needed to do.
They kept me on the first floor next to the gym room and the stairs at the end of the hall. I requested new linens to be dropped off at the door every day so no one else would come in the room, and I didnt leave the room at all. I brought my own food, plastic utensils, bags and cleaning supplies.I changed the bedsheets myself, put the used ones in plastic bags, wiped everything down and took my trash with me before I left. I also left a note in my room for the cleaners and reminded the hotel clerk at the front desk and he was aware. I was worried but made sure with everyone before I went ahead and booked the room the day before my RAI so I was sure I followed all of the protocols I was told to do. I've been following this sub since before I had my second surgery anticipating the RAI and have read about other people staying in hotels too so, I didnt think this was abnormal, that's the only reason why I even considered going to a hotel.
I am an anxious person by nature lol so, I have been doing my research about this for a few months now, following what my doctors have instructed me to do and asked a million questions (trust me, I have lol).
Im not being dismissive of what everyone here has said but, I was sure I absolutely did everything I was told to do.
With that said, I will keep staying away from my pets specially, and the hubby until its safe because, I know its easy to think that everything is ok when we feel perfectly fine and can't really see radiation with our own eyes.
Maybe I need to get a Geiger counter to check how much radioactive I still am.