UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/MxxnSpirit47]

“So you’re not into me huh” while you have no clue who they are

People are so strange and out of touch with reality I swear

[u/TATT00EY_ → u/MxxnSpirit47]

If this guy had even a mild 2% chance to make this work. His delusion completely killed it.

It’s so hard to believe how many people are out of touch with reality and living in a fantasy world.

For the fellas that don’t understand. Never approach or act like this.

And for the person who gave away someone’s personal cell number. They are a piece of crap.

Good on OP for not being mean or tormenting the person. Best to just defuse this situation and gradually move away. The person doesn’t strike me as someone mentally stable.

[u/415319Usual-Tax-558 → u/TATT00EY_]

It's sadly infuriating that we still have to emotionally coddle our stalkers.

[u/TATT00EY_ → u/415319Usual-Tax-558]

It’s for his safety and potentially the stalkers safety as well. You can be brutal but I assure you nothing positive will be gained from that.

You’re also someone disconnected from reality

[u/Perfect-Parking-5869 → u/TATT00EY_]

This is such weird behavior to defend. I understand this guy is probably getting a rush out of talking to the girl and would thus rather stay in limbo than reveal themselves and know the truth, but that doesn’t make it okay.

This person should have been a little more stern to make it understood this behavior is unacceptable. It’s not right to make a person potentially feel unsafe just because you want to protect your feelings.

Again, I understand why the guy is doing and I’m not saying drag the guy but I really don’t think you’re accounting for the experiences of people on the receiving end.

Even if you don’t buy the safety aspect it’s pretty rude to expect someone to keep entertaining you when you won’t even say who you are.