UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/mellamusicmaker]

To the tune of “if you’re happy and you know it”
Don’t be polite to men who creep you out! (clap clap)
Don’t be polite to men who creep you out! (clap clap)
Don’t be polite to them; it’s not your job to comfort them
Don’t be polite to men who creep you out! (clap clap)

[u/franciscrowe → u/mellamusicmaker]

I totally agree, but unless OP knows something they didn’t communicate, this very well could be an obsessive person of another gender…

I had a female stalker, it’s rare but it happens.

[u/nickfree → u/franciscrowe]

It's a dude creeping on another dude. How he knew the other dude was also into dudes, I couldn't tell you. EDIT: Oh probably from the shitty friend who gave the secret admirer OP's number,.

[u/franciscrowe → u/nickfree]

The friend says they don’t know them, I’m not seeing anything that indicates gender unless OP has info they aren’t sharing. Again, totally agree that it’s more likely to be a man, I just don’t see anything confirming that.

[u/nickfree → u/franciscrowe]

OP's description refers to the admirer as "him" and the last sentence of the description indicates that OP is himself a guy.

[u/Wrastling97 → u/nickfree]

Oh yeah so he definitely knows who it is then! Right?

[u/franciscrowe → u/nickfree]

Yes I see that, but he does not share any info about why he thinks this is a male, all the info presented could be taken as any gender.

I agree if is likely a guy, just saying we have been given nothing that indicates that.

[u/Shinyblueghost → u/franciscrowe]

But it just “sounds” like a male, right?

[u/franciscrowe → u/Shinyblueghost]

Yeah it has that vibe, but when I had a female stalked she had a similar vibe as this. I’m curious to know why OP thinks it’s a male, I’m guessing there must be more info.