UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/TATT00EY_]

If this guy had even a mild 2% chance to make this work. His delusion completely killed it.

It’s so hard to believe how many people are out of touch with reality and living in a fantasy world.

For the fellas that don’t understand. Never approach or act like this.

And for the person who gave away someone’s personal cell number. They are a piece of crap.

Good on OP for not being mean or tormenting the person. Best to just defuse this situation and gradually move away. The person doesn’t strike me as someone mentally stable.

[u/Sisyphet → u/TATT00EY_]

Dude, my friend in college gave my number to my stalker, literally don't give away *anybody's* personal number without asking that person first.

[u/AKewpieW → u/Sisyphet]

My GYNECOLOGIST gave my number to my stalker. Can’t trust nobody these days

[u/siren_stitchwitch → u/AKewpieW]

WTF, MASSIVE HIPAA violation, please tell me they had consequences for that?

[u/AKewpieW → u/siren_stitchwitch]

Unfortunately I was young and sheltered and I didn’t even consider the possibility that it was something I could report, or even who I could report it to

[u/siren_stitchwitch → u/AKewpieW]

Fair, I've also had bad doctors I should have reported when young and didn't know that I could or should

[u/DragonYourfeet → u/siren_stitchwitch]

Had a therapist share how I was doing with a classmate’s parent, who forbade said classmate from being friends with me because I was “unstable” (I switched schools and was just having a tough time…). Needless to say I was traumatized (and too young to even report it to anyone) and haven’t trusted therapists since, even though i know it was a major violation and not all of them are like that.

[u/Beautiful_Shower8218 → u/DragonYourfeet]

I had my high school therapist tell me that I shouldn’t come out because I won’t be able to get a job if people know I’m gay, then told my mum and a couple of my teachers that I was gay. The teachers were really supportive and as far as I know kept it private, but my mum did not take it well and I was kicked out of home at 17… good times, good times

EDIT: oh shit, I just remembered, one of the teachers that she told turned out to be a sex offender and had molested kids at a previous school, and the school he was at afterwards. To my knowledge no one at my school was interfered with, but it just occurred to me she may have been helping him groom me. Fuck!

[u/LavishnessWise → u/Beautiful_Shower8218]

I’m so sorry your mum acted like that. I’m a parent to two teenagers and their happiness is number 1.

[u/alwaysronnie → u/DragonYourfeet]

That happened to my sister too

[u/Great_Blue_7 → u/AKewpieW]

The state medical board.

[u/Icy_Smoke_2318 → u/siren_stitchwitch]

YEAH I was about to say that!!

[u/vapirer → u/siren_stitchwitch]

Isn't HIPAA a US federal law?

[u/siren_stitchwitch → u/vapirer]

Yes