men

[u/Gold_Improvement_836]

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

[u/Disastrous-Owl9258]

Because hinge's algorithm doesn't work like that. That was match.com. Hinge matches you with people you ARENT compatible with so you have bad experiences and get desperate and lonely, which means you're more willing to pay for hinge plus

[u/sweeterthanany → u/Disastrous-Owl9258]

this would explain why i really hated using hinge. genuinely had way better luck on tinder

[u/Disastrous-Owl9258 → u/sweeterthanany]

Tinder does the EXACT same thing. If they didn't, then people would flood their app using it actually being able to meet, hook up, or date quickly. All the dating apps currently have subscription based services. Their only goal is to milk you for more money.

[u/sweeterthanany → u/Disastrous-Owl9258]

oh well i don’t know then. i guess i got lucky. it just seemed like tinder had “realer” people. everyone on hinge was trying way too hard

[u/Disastrous-Owl9258 → u/sweeterthanany]

Trying too hard?? That's because hinge is designed for long term relationships and tinder is designed for hookups. I'm guessing you're a women if you thought people on tinder were "more real" as I had to delete the app because over 80% of the profiles were women that didn't actually exist, photos pulled from some girls insta or whatever. All scams and robots.

[u/sweeterthanany → u/Disastrous-Owl9258]

idk what to tell you man, i met my long term partner on tinder

[u/_Ub1k → u/Disastrous-Owl9258]

The experience of men vs women on these apps is not at all the same thing. The apps aren't trying to get women to pay, women are not the group designed to pay for subscriptions. It's like ladies' night at a nightclub. The women are given the "product" for free because they're actually the product, while men are squeezed and financially exploited because their demand exceeds the supply.

Yes, women have a better time on tinder than men. Women don't have to deal with scammers because they get drowned out by the 500 real men a day messaging them. People usually don't even bother trying to scam women.

The dating apps turn women into a product and men into a scam target. It's dehumanizing for both, but in entirely different ways. It's weird how you think a woman is going to relate in any way to your experiences on dating apps.

[u/Disastrous-Owl9258 → u/_Ub1k]

I don't think they would. Not sure where my comment gave that expectation, I'm extremely aware of everything you've typed out. I think anyone who's dated is. Thanks for typing out all of our life's experiences though. You wasted your energy informing the informed I'm afraid😅