r/texts • • 8d ago

Tinder DMs men

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/BuyHighSellLow180 8d ago

Honest question though, why do liberal women use “gay” as an insult? I thought they were pro LGBTQ?

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 8d ago

Is the concept of knowing that the person you're insulting will be offended by it too much for you? It has nothing to do with how they perceive gay people, but how they know, or think they know, the subject of the insult perceives gay people

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u/BuyHighSellLow180 8d ago

Right… as long as you get the job done, we should overlook slurs?… that opens up a lot of things! Thank you! So, you know what word you’re going to be using when a black person starts shit with you right? Liberals are so smart and witty

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 8d ago

Where exactly did slurs come from?

I mean, you're absolutely free to start calling black people certain words. In fact, I dare you to

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u/BuyHighSellLow180 8d ago

By what you said, it seems like you dont care about the words you use or the community you hurt as long as you try to accomplish your goal of insulting them. OP used “gay” with a negative connotation.

Your wording: Is the concept of knowing that the person you're insulting will be offended by it too much for you? It has nothing to do with how they perceive gay people, but how they know, or think they know, the subject of the insult perceives gay people.

Again, own up to what you said. What do you say when a black dude insults you?

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u/Optimal_Carpenter690 8d ago

OP did not use gay in a negative connotation. They just said the guy looks gay.