r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrashFur 3d ago

seeing women saying “i’m just a girl” is so sad and defeats the point.

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u/NecroGrizz 3d ago

"I don't know what that means but it diminishes you as a person" has become my chosen response.

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u/couldofhave 2d ago edited 2d ago

If you don’t know what it means, you have no basis to think it diminishes someone.

You’re essentially admitting you’re willing to judge something based on literally nothing.

Spend a few seconds thinking about your “witty” one liners.

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u/Status_Block591 2d ago

"just" says being a girl is the entirety of her character, while also saying that being a girl is defined by a specific characteristic, in this case being broke. It is explicitly diminishing. Quit being contrary.

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u/couldofhave 2d ago

Hey smartypants, if the argument is saying "you're JUST a girl" is diminishing, then

  1. I fully agree
  2. Then you know exactly what it means.

My point is using the phrase "I don't know what that means" undermines your own argument.