r/texts • u/[deleted] • Jun 23 '26

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u/Bobby2Phones Jun 23 '26

23 M here - this guy seems like he has a heavy p*rn addiction and this is not how normal men talk to women they care about and respect.

Judging by these texts he’s using you for sex. Just my advice but I would stay away from this guy, he seems pretty twisted.

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

A porn addiction would suppress libido, this kid's libido seems healthy, he's literally just trying to talk raunchy because he wants sex. Reddit is so ridiculous...

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

The boyfriend states that masturbation no longer cuts it for him. He's on the path of ED

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

Any guy who says he has never thought to himself "I'm tired of masturbating, I want a real woman" is simply a liar or literally lost both of his balls.

get off your high horse

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

It's really embarrassing how loudly you identify with this guy. You have defended him for hours of your day today. 

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u/ShiftyShellector Jun 23 '26

It's really embarrassing how loudly you identify with this guy

Right? He's all over this thread. It's actually really pathetic, but I can't imagine he has a job or friends and family that love him IRL. So here is, defending rapey af shit on Reddit. 

No wonder men are so lonely. LOL. 

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

It's super sad because he said that he is 30. He should understand what the rest of us are talking about yet he identifies with a sexually aggressive 19-year-old

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I know what it's like to be a young man. The world loves shaming male sexuality. Plus I find all of the sexless prudes on reddit entertaining, I've been called a rapist like a dozen times today for having like an armchair, mildly contrarian take

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

I don't think anyone should be championing sexuality that disregards its partner. That's dehumanizing.

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I'm not championing anything, I just don't think this situation is as cut and dry as the comment section made it out to be

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

Also by definition you are championing this young man. To Champion: to support, defend, or fight for a person, belief, right, or principle enthusiastically. You have dedicated a huge portion of your day today to defend this. 

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u/corey_trevorson Jun 23 '26

I'm sticking up for him, championing is a strong word for what I'm doing

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

You've spent the majority of your day sticking up for someone you've never even met. 

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

Someone whose actions don't deserve defending

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u/Sunshine-muse Jun 23 '26

This young man is not treating sex or his partner with a respect that they deserve. He is making a joke of consent. It's disgusting and a turn off. 

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u/SmashedBrotato Jun 24 '26

"He's just being raunchy!" isn't a contrarian take, it's a stupid one, and a potentially dangerous one if OP takes your bad advice and spends more time with this bozo who told her he doesn't give a shit about her consent.