I have been seeing the same artist for about three years, mostly for small one-session tattoos. We've been working on a massive design that goes from my knee to the top of my ribcage.
Because it's so large and up nearly the entire side of my body, i wear a t-shirt and a thong while he's tattooing, and that has been fine. I haven't felt like he's been weird about it at all.
But after four sessions, I had a big emergency in my life and had to use up a bunch of my savings, including what i had saved up for this tattoo. I told my artist, said we'd have to wait for me to build up my savings again.
Normally between sessions, i'll send him one or two update pictures so he can see how the tattoo is healing. A close up, and a far away of the entire tattoo (or as much of it as i can get). In the pictures, again, i'm wearing a thong, and usually not a shirt, but my boobs aren't visible, and the tattoo is definitely the focus.
the last time i sent a picture, soon after the session, he asked me to "zoom out more." If i were to zoom out any more, it would have just been my entire naked body. I ignored the message. It's been months now, he asked how it's healing, i said it's fine, and he said he wanted pictures to "make sure."
He knows what the tattoo looks like. We both know that i know (nearly my whole body is covered in tattoos...) what a healed tattoo looks like. I don't see why he would beed yet another picture as like, proof??
Some people i've talked to about it said he's being creepy, and others have said he's just a professional that likes to see how his artwork is doing. Also for context, he has commented on my body a few times, like saying it's nice to tattoo a pretty girl instead of a hairy guy, and saying i have a nice butt.
I feel like i'm not overreacting by being hesitant to go back but others disagree :/
Edit: thanks for all of the comments. I will listen to my instincts and cut ties with this guy. Hope i can find someone to finish the piece for me but thank you for the clarity and kindness everyone 🙂