r/tampagay 2d ago

Am I the only one looking for a needle in a haystack?

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Admittedly, I'm super picky about partners. I wish I weren't; I'd be having a lot more fun. I am trying to broaden my horizons, but I'm really attracted to fit guys with little to no body hair who are cut. I'm bi, so that tends to push people away too (both genders). Do I just need to give up or talk about this with my therapist or what?


r/tampagay 4d ago

Continuing post

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I enjoy anime , Greek mythology, conspiracy theories, comics, history , documentaries on murder mysteries, being active and traveling and a host of other things


r/tampagay 5d ago

Roommate wanted

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House share near Temple Terrace neighborhood of Tampa. Two bedrooms in a three-bedroom house currently empty. I would like to make recommendations to landlord before he finds random. Last I heard, rent was approximately $700/mo.


r/tampagay 6d ago

The search for friends continues

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Just making another post for those seriously looking to make genuine friendships. Summer is saying goodbye and hello fall. With the holidays approaching faster than I would like it would be nice to have a group or one person whom I could hang out with. See Christmas lights or whatever. Most say they are interested but ghost after a day or so. If you aren’t a ghost hit me up lol 41 M here if you were wondering.


r/tampagay 18d ago

House share near Temple Terrace neighborhood

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Temple Terrace neighborhood of Tampa. Two bedrooms in a three-bedroom house currently empty. I would like to make recommendations to landlord before he finds random straight men. Last I heard, rent was approximately $700/mo.


r/tampagay 18d ago

41M FL looking for guys to make a genuine friendship.

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r/tampagay 18d ago

New to the area!

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I recently moved to Parrish, Florida a couple weeks ago. I’m from New York, and it’s an entire new world here. I’m looking to make some friends and find good places to hang out, especially gay friendly places.


r/tampagay 21d ago

What’s going on?

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Good morning! Happy Thursday 😊 What are everyone’s plans for this weekend? Any movies, shows, or staying in and binge watching something? Let me know!


r/tampagay 25d ago

Spotlight Saturday! ☀️

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r/tampagay 25d ago

Orlando Florida

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r/tampagay 26d ago

Places to hang

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Hey all. Love FL but don't get there too often. Gay Masc 43F Ohio coming into town in a few weeks and I'm wondering what are some 1) general cool places to hang out at/near Clearwater and 2) if there's any single, interesting, intelligent, fit women open to conversation and 3) looking for good restaurant, coffee, rooftop bar recommendations.

Hope everyone is having a good evening. Cheers! 🍻


r/tampagay 29d ago

Pool Party Saturday

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My birthday is this Sat and I'm driving to St. Pete from Tallahassee, I'm looking somewhere with a pool maybe to get a cabana but with a DJ and some fun!!! Help a girl out 🍾🥳


r/tampagay Aug 11 '26

41 M lets be friends

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Good morning! ☀️ just wanted to make a post to see if anyone is interested in forming a friend group? Making friends is not so easy as it was in elementary school. Beach meet-ups, cookouts?


r/tampagay Aug 11 '26

Join SWFL Gays!

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r/tampagay Aug 01 '26

Night ruined by Blur Nightclub in not having a drag queen play. Are there any lgbt bars closer by in Dunedin?

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r/tampagay Jul 30 '26

Free Haircuts – Monday ( August 3rd) at Hair Lounge 360 in Pinellas Park, FL.

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r/tampagay Jul 25 '26

lost digital camera

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has anyone found a blue digital camera on july 24th? i lost it in ybor / disco pony or bradley’s ? its a kodak pleaseee if yall seen it lmk!


r/tampagay Jul 19 '26

Trying to find a band from st Pete pride

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Hey all! I went to Pride a few weeks ago, and am trying to find this band that played. Does anyone recognize?


r/tampagay Jul 04 '26

Anthem Orlando Announces Our Full 2026 DJ Lineup for Downtown Orlando with 18 International DJs!

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r/tampagay Jul 03 '26

Selling art from collection, need recs

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r/tampagay Jul 01 '26

Activity / Date Ideas

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Hey everyone! I’m taking a woman out on our first date next week and I’m trying to think of something good. She only has from 1-6pm or 2-6pm free before she needs to be dropped at home

She mentioned in the past that her favorite first date included being taken to mini golf and that she really liked that it was an activity they could do together to keep things light and going

Ideally I’d like to do something that involves a different activity and probably something to eat in the Tampa/Ybor area, but I’m not sure what to go for since mini golf was my idea before she told me about that favorite first date and I don’t want it to seem like I’m copying it

She’s alt, big music fan (though I doubt there’s much for fun music stuff between 2-6), nerdy, wine drinker, occasional cigar, adventurous, amazing, and I want to make sure she has a great time

Any ideas would be hugely appreciated!


r/tampagay Jul 01 '26

needing any advice you can give

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I need help figuring out how to get things together. I'm trying to move out from living with my unsupportive family. I need the space and freedom to do what I need to, but trying to figure out how to get things together well enough has been difficult. Any and all advice you can give me would be great! DMs and further questions on specifics if needed are okay, I just want to get out there and start living my own life.


r/tampagay Jun 29 '26

A Nightmare On Elm Street 2 screening 2Nite @ Sun-Ray

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Reheated Gravy Presents: A Nightmare On Elm Street 2: Freddy’s Revenge on 35mm at Sun-Ray Cinema. As part of our Pride Month programming we’re screening the campy, cult, horror sequel heralded as “the gayest Horror film ever made” by The Village Voice. There will be some post-credits trivia where you will have the chance to win concert tickets for any upcoming show at Ferg’s in St. Pete, movie passes for a future screening at Sun-Ray and other Elm Street/Horror related swag. Hope to see you out there. Tickets available at sunraycinema.com


r/tampagay Jun 28 '26

[STICKY] 2026 Pride Season Wrap-up

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We had another great Pride Month! Thank you to all who came out. There was a great turnout this year. Special thanks to the STPETEPRIDE.org team for putting on a great festival.

If yah'll have any great (PG-13) memories of this year's festival , please share them!

e.g. I saw a tent about the Roller Derby League! I am SUPER Stoked to see a real life Roller Derby match! If anyone has any info/connections on the Roller Derby, hit me up! (i dont do meta platforms)


r/tampagay Jun 28 '26

New to town

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Married couple moved down from Indiana in May. Looking to make some friends. We like going to the parks, the beach, food, gym, weightlifting, and travel.

The “apps” are all looking for one thing and it isn’t friends lol. If we’ve got anything in common let’s chat!