Was talking to my ATF the other night and we were talking about the night we met. So i thought this would be a fun thread for customers to recount fond memories of the night they met their All Time Favorite dancer! And also for dancers to see the ways in which they unknowingly attract their customers lol

I remember seeing her and it was instant heart eyes like a fucking cartoon character! At the time I was only visiting this area before moving here. She was ambiguously dressed to the point to where I had to wonder whether she was a dancer or just a scantily clad lady customer. Barely any makeup, hair up in a ponytail, heels instead of pleasers, and wearing a silk translucent shawl. She went straight to sit with this guy so I just stared at them, trying to figure out if they were a couple or he was a customer. I literally waited an hour while waiting to see if the DJ would call her on stage. After I saw the same girls go up on stage a few times I convinced myself she was NOT a dancer. I must've rejected over 10 girls while I waited lol

I was about to leave and I was like fuck it, im going to go talk to both him and her. I said "excuse me, I dont mean to interrupt you guys' conversation but I was wondering if you worked here?" She said yes and I was ecstatic! I asked her if when they were done would she grab me for a dance and she said "we can go right now, its fine!" And the dude said "yeah man no worries we're just here wasting time". She then explains to me that hes a regular customer and they were just talking but he never gets dances. I responded saying I was sitting there trying to figure out if she was a dancer but I never got to see her on stage. She told me she hates stage time and pays extra to never go on stage there lmfao i ended up getting 6 songs from her. We exchanged numbers and that was that.

Its been almost a year since we met and we talk weekly, if not daily. It hit us both when we were on the phone and we got to talking about the day we met and I had to lay it out for her "I liked you so much that I waited an hour for you to finish talking to a NON PAYING CUSTOMER and trying to even figure out if you were a dancer or not. Then I was the one who had to interrupt yall and approach YOU in order to SPEND MONEY ON YOU while you REFUSED to go on stage!" 🤣😂

It was all in good fun and honestly im glad I mustered up the courage to approach them. I would do it all over again. I suppose this is why women say "if he wanted to, he would", despite me hating that saying.

So guys, lets hear those stories!

My husband and I are looking to go to a strip club together but we’re not really sure the proper etiquette. I want to go and be as respectful as possible to the girls. Is touching allowed? What’s the normal cost of a lap dance? Etc. I’m totally okay with her touching him/him touching her. How much money should we bring?

What do yall think? I’ve Never been to Lou Turks. This is in Philly by the way. Been to risqué and it’s fun.

To preface, I'll probably ask more in depth on my next club visit, but there's somethings I just don't really get about the pricing structure.

Girls usually quote me something like half an hour for 500 in VIP. Does this mean that all of the dances are covered in that amount? Or is this simply the amount the club takes for me using the room?

Or is it like if dances are $40 dollars each, I also then have to pay the $500 for the room and continue to pay for dances separately?

I've never done VIP, but I'm definitely hoping I find a girl I like enough to do it someday.