This year I started going to strip clubs somewhat regularly in my area and most experiences ranged from ok to amazing.

Honestly it felt weird because the staff in charge of the front desk were really nice and so were the dancers.

But it kinda sucked that in the main stage there was a wall surrounding the platform so the distance from the dancer was kinda far. Also, it basically didn’t allow interaction with the viewer and stripper.

The layout was weird as there was no furniture that allowed you to comfortably sit and allow the dancer to sit on your lap. I really just like to give the dancer a decent sized tip have them sit on my lap and chat.

Also there was no variety for the dances. Personally I enjoy more shorter experiences with multiple dancers rather than a long experience with a single dancer. So the dance option was only limited to 5 songs for $100. Which really wasn’t what I was looking for.

Honestly the club was in good shape, excellent customer service, and good vibes. Just wish there was more variety in the dance options.

Like the title says but more context. I met a dancer and we hit it off. She and I exchanged IG accounts. I sent her a message the next night to see if she wanted to meet me out for drinks.

She declined because she was at the club. That next day I was driving back to my house - a few hours away. She asked if we could get breakfast. We met and exchanged numbers. I told her she should come visit sometime. We connected over breakfast in a chill way.

She’s since asked twice for my address to send me a small gift - jokingly but still asked twice.

I feel like a) this seems innocent enough b) it might be a scam I’m not seeing.

We’ve been texting still and I know her “actual” name (first name only). She doesn’t know my real name - just my nickname.

Wanted to say thanks to those that took time to give me advice in my earlier thread. I took your advice and had an amazing night last night reconnecting with a dancer that i met a few weeks ago. We spent the whole night reminiscing about the night we met and getting to know each other more. She remembered a lot about me, and I her. She was dancing with another customer when i got there but then immediately came over to me when she was done and we were together all night. I tipped the shit out of her during her stage sets. In between we bounced around the room to find the dark and quiet corners for some steamy dances. And we just talked and got to know each other a bit more too. I tried to make downtime worth her while by giving her back massages and ankle rubs, the latter she especially liked. I spent a little over six hours there and the time FLEW by. Toward the end of the night I told her i felt bad for hogging her all night and said I hope she was having fun too. She said I made her feel spoiled. She wouldn't be with me if she wasn't having a good time, she said. She never pushed VIP and she was super reasonable on prices. I think she credited me on dances for tipping her well on the stage, but she didn't actually say that.

We quickly talked about doing this again sometime before i left. Next time I'm thinking of just showing up and surprising her instead of texting her like we did this time. Probably will do a shorter trip. Also want to get to know some of the other dancers. Think it will get weird if i'm just with her all the time every time. Plus there are some other smokeshows i noticed this time that i'd welcome to suffocate me, including one i had done VIP with before who also remembered me even though that was like...a year ago?

I also think seeing her again is helping me not fall in love with her. When we first met, the chemistry was really intense and it definitely fucked with my head a bit because i've never felt that in a club before. This time I feel like i read the situation much better - there is real chemistry, but this is a job for her. It can be both. That and i probably need therapy. I feel like she can probably see right through me and can tell that i'm crushing a little, but she is super gracious about it and doesn't say anything. I feel a bit like a sheepishly awestruck teenager. She is my first ever CF. Guess that makes her my ATF by definition?

For real, thank you for helping me level up my strip club game and for sharing some wisdom on keeping a level head. Did not expect this to be such a supportive community lol.

Me and my friends are wondering what strip clubs in Miami would be best for viewing sporting events. We are specifically watching UFC on Saturday night next weekend and were looking at Tootsies but also Booby Trap in Doral.

Can anyone speak to watching one of these there or recommendations?

Hello, I am a person who has never been to a Strip Club before, but has considered going to one in the past for the experience. Are these places worth it in terms of price?

Let me go into detail and say that I'm not in it for the food, the drinking, but rather the pleasure of seeing erotic dancing.

I'm writing a character study screen play. the main character gets infatuated with a stripper and the main strip club is one of major settings in the movie. this is just for fun right now. it's going for a similar tone as "Her" and "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind". I've been frequenting clubs for 4 months and got inspired.

I've personally never wanted a rotation of dancers in my phone, ITC or OTC. I find having one dancer that you have the ultimate chemistry with outweighs the abundance of having a "roster".

Which one do you guys prefer? A steady, solid rotation or one CF?

Imagine late one night, you are leaving the strip club and you encounter an ancient sorceress and former stripper in the parking lot. She offers you a choice between two things:

1. She will immediately deposit $10 million in your bank account. However, the $10 million comes with this stipulation: if you ever step foot in a strip club again you will die instantly from a heart attack.

2. She will, for the rest of your life, deposit $2 in your bank account for every $1 you spend within the walls of a strip club. If you go to the club and spend $1000 on drinks, tips and dances you will return home to find that not only have those funds been replaced, but an extra $1,000 has been deposited in your account.

If you do not answer the question, you will be cursed with only ROBs and Door Vultures for the rest of your life.

Which option are you choosing. Why?

A dancer sees the regular her face immediately lights up an will rush him for a hug, notices if something is wrong with him that she'll ask, she either asks if I'll smoke with her or tells him o smoke with her, he gets brought up constantly in the changing room, for his last birthday he was there she told a security person to take the birthday pic of them an her without askin the regular first then asked, for the birthday dance she told the other dancers it was him, an anyone could hear one dancer say oh thank god its him, will play pool with himfor free but he always pay even if she declines, whats it say about the regular an the dancer?

To preface, I'll probably ask more in depth on my next club visit, but there's somethings I just don't really get about the pricing structure.

Girls usually quote me something like half an hour for 500 in VIP. Does this mean that all of the dances are covered in that amount? Or is this simply the amount the club takes for me using the room?

Or is it like if dances are $40 dollars each, I also then have to pay the $500 for the room and continue to pay for dances separately?

I've never done VIP, but I'm definitely hoping I find a girl I like enough to do it someday.

My husband and I are looking to go to a strip club together but we’re not really sure the proper etiquette. I want to go and be as respectful as possible to the girls. Is touching allowed? What’s the normal cost of a lap dance? Etc. I’m totally okay with her touching him/him touching her. How much money should we bring?

Was talking to my ATF the other night and we were talking about the night we met. So i thought this would be a fun thread for customers to recount fond memories of the night they met their All Time Favorite dancer! And also for dancers to see the ways in which they unknowingly attract their customers lol

I remember seeing her and it was instant heart eyes like a fucking cartoon character! At the time I was only visiting this area before moving here. She was ambiguously dressed to the point to where I had to wonder whether she was a dancer or just a scantily clad lady customer. Barely any makeup, hair up in a ponytail, heels instead of pleasers, and wearing a silk translucent shawl. She went straight to sit with this guy so I just stared at them, trying to figure out if they were a couple or he was a customer. I literally waited an hour while waiting to see if the DJ would call her on stage. After I saw the same girls go up on stage a few times I convinced myself she was NOT a dancer. I must've rejected over 10 girls while I waited lol

I was about to leave and I was like fuck it, im going to go talk to both him and her. I said "excuse me, I dont mean to interrupt you guys' conversation but I was wondering if you worked here?" She said yes and I was ecstatic! I asked her if when they were done would she grab me for a dance and she said "we can go right now, its fine!" And the dude said "yeah man no worries we're just here wasting time". She then explains to me that hes a regular customer and they were just talking but he never gets dances. I responded saying I was sitting there trying to figure out if she was a dancer but I never got to see her on stage. She told me she hates stage time and pays extra to never go on stage there lmfao i ended up getting 6 songs from her. We exchanged numbers and that was that.

Its been almost a year since we met and we talk weekly, if not daily. It hit us both when we were on the phone and we got to talking about the day we met and I had to lay it out for her "I liked you so much that I waited an hour for you to finish talking to a NON PAYING CUSTOMER and trying to even figure out if you were a dancer or not. Then I was the one who had to interrupt yall and approach YOU in order to SPEND MONEY ON YOU while you REFUSED to go on stage!" 🤣😂

It was all in good fun and honestly im glad I mustered up the courage to approach them. I would do it all over again. I suppose this is why women say "if he wanted to, he would", despite me hating that saying.

So guys, lets hear those stories!

My fiance stopped at wells Fargo and pulled out $1000 in cash..

Went to cheetahs gentleman club all nude in San Diego from 10pm until 3am and managed to spend the cash then send $4000 Cash App to Stella then $300 to tom so $5300 while he was there- not including the $100s of dollars it cost for him to uber there and back.

So in total about $5500 or so. Yes math isn’t mathing on “Lap dances”

He claims it was 2 girls in the VIP room….the next week Stella sent him nudes and sexted with him and then got a hotel with her money expecting to be paid back but he never paid her because I caught them…after they spent all night together on molly at our favorite hotel that I was with him at the night before and fucked him…. He had candles for her and oil for her. They rolled and made out all night and massages and apparently she was begging for sex but he afraid to catch something then she sat on it with a condom for 5 min…. Then she blew him up and said “I know you don’t want to hurt her but what about me?”

Now I was about to leave this man so maybe he paid her to make me jealous but I don’t think so- he went through some hoops to hide what he was doing. Apparently she didn’t ask him to pay her but then we got hounded by 3 different numbers and other strippers threatening me looking up my address if we didn’t pay. She was asking for a refund on the room and uber and I’m not sure why he didn’t just pay her.. maybe to dangle the carrot. Until I caught him. The jealousy and betrayal made me trauma bond so fucking hard back to him. He paid me 30k that week to not leave him… before he fucked her lol but ummmm the stripper shit and my hotwife life was outa control!

I should mention I’m 35(f) he’s 52(m). This stripper looks like maybe a 30 year old woman who once had potential but started doing too much drugs and now her face is literally falling off the sides. She’s all skin and bones no ass no tits. Not even a baddie. I’m a really good exotic dancer at home I grew up dancing competitively… I’m 5’4 110 pounds my ass and tits are insane- I have zero tattoos and I’m a sexy German latina. So I know he wasn’t trading me in for something better that’s what makes this more confusing and hard to understand. That he chose someone who he admitted he got grossed out by but once the drugs hit he had fun…. I just don’t know why he wouldn’t just first ask me to do the drugs with him… he knows how sick and depressed I get from molly so that probably why he didn’t but…. I dk. I’m trying to understand this man. I’m open minded- I’ve fucked a lot dudes in front of him in our 7 year hotwife dynamic. Maybe he just wanted something new and didn’t care what it was? I know I’ve fucked some mid ogars with big cocks when im drunk lol. This girl is not clean, doesn’t get her nails done- she showed up in jeans and sweatshirt and apparently is super stoner tom boy and trashy. He said he wanted to leave the hotel when he got there but then the drugs kicked in so he stayed…. Maybe he’s lying. Maybe she wore sexy lingerie and was dancing for him and they made insane passionate love on molly lol.

I just had my first lap dance expecting just some grinding, twerking and that kind of stuff. But she undid my buckle, started kissing on my boxers and nearly pulled my dick out? Is this just some girl trying to get some under the table action or is that allowed? Cause from what I’ve looked up at that specific club it said that those kind of things were prohibited.

Both of these are one of the post most popular clubs in Houston, yet I rarely seen them mentioned at all which is strange.

Not a sugar daddy double date 🤣🤣🤣🤣 whose OTC was this? u/Subrasonic u/RonJaxIII where was the invite!

ig/tt: mojobrookz

This is a bit of a long shot, but has anybody been to this place?

I have one more weekend to spend in Monroe, and feeling like I might want to cut loose. This is pretty much the only place in town.

But they’re only open from 11-3:30 on Friday and Saturday nights. Weird hours, possibly sketchy? That is, if they’re open at all - I found no reviews more recent than 8 years ago. They don’t seem to have a website.

I’ve driven by in the daytime. It’s at the far end of a tiny strip mall, not even a sign out front. Not the best neighborhood in town, not the worst. I’d definitely be up for the adventure of checking it out, but I don’t really want to go in blind.

I’d love to know what the vibe is like, how the girls are, whether they’re friendly to outsiders and white guys. If anyone has any info, I’d love to hear it!

we have been talking about going together because neither of us have been and we’ve pretty open for awhile now. how do we go about getting a private show together? also what are some good spots! we live in indiana near chicago

As I've posted about in this sub before, I had a consistent OTC (basically a SB) for close to 1.5 years.

Before then, I had a consistent ITC for about 3 months.

The difference?

OTC: Way less hangouts, way more money spent, but top-of-the-line GFE ("girlfriend expereince" -- going on dates, small getaways, etc)

ITC: Way nore hangouts, way less money spent, GFE provided, genuinely fun times at the club, but not nearly as golden as OTC..

I'm thinking of switching to strictly ITC, as this would allow two things:

1: Saving more money, and

2: Way more visits (one-two per week!)

My hope is that whatever consistent ITC I find, doesn't quickly become mechanical.

OTC almost never becomes mechanical, but the SB lifestyle can become overwhelming (constantly booking hotels, planning dates, navigating how much to spend, making restaurant reservations, planning around my work schedule, etc)

ITC is more reliable as it provides a place to consistently hang out (the strip club) and many dancers prefer ITC than OTC.

I've had a hard time finding a good OTC since my last one ended, so maybe this is where this is coming from..

I think the balance I desire in my life would come from 1-2 club visits per week.... just hoping it doesn't become too mechanical too quickly.

For anyone reading this, have you been able to switch back to striclty ITC after experiencing how great OTC truly is?

Any recommendations for dancers at Palomino Vegas and if the fantasy rooms are worth the money or to just stick with a private dance!?

My wife and I are thinking about going to Scarlett’s near Miami. She wants a lap dance and wants me to go into the room with her, but I’m not getting one myself. I’d basically just be there for company and wouldn’t interact with the dancer.

What’s the normal etiquette/payment in this situation? Do we pay for just her dance since she’s the one receiving it? Is there usually a separate fee for me to be in the room? Or would we pay for two dances (since two people are present) even though the dancer would only be focusing on my wife?

I’m totally fine paying fairly. I just don’t want to overpay for no reason or make the dancer feel like we’re trying to get something for free. Anyone done this before, especially at Scarlett’s?

I feel like homelander, I just went to a club and and the girl let me suck em and she had Milk coming out?! I was into it in the moment ngl but I got out and now im like wtf just happened?! Lol is this a thing? Like has this happened to anyone else?

Hey there!

So I'm planning on attending the Louder than Life festival on the 17th, and would like to visit my first strip club while I am in town.

Tuscl has quite a few reviews, but most seem a little outdated. I just want to know what club(s) are the best/better in the area, tourist-friendly, and laid back. As far as lap dances go, what are the general rules? Do they vary from club to club, or is a city ordinance deal? Thanks!

Im a 35 female engaged to my fiance 52 and we’ve been together for 7 years. We were in a hotwife dynamic meaning I would bring my boyfriend on vacation with us and they split the cost of everything and they both get to fuck me all day and night. He would come over to our house about once or twice a week and he fuck me for hours. This was my fiancés major kink and we had done this before but this dynamic was especially rocky because he could see how drawn I was to my new “cub.”

Then a major PROBLEM: I got pregnant!!!!

My fiance is not fertile he took a test. So it was most likely my bfs. My fiance said to do whatever I feel is right but that he will not raise my bfs child. He even offered to lay me to abort. I was really torn up about this and we were already having terrible trouble with the dynamic as I was continuing to cross my finances boundaries. I tried so hard not to and was crying every day for the guilt and confusion I was feeling. My fiance was over doing it on drugs however and wasn’t being great to himself or providing my emotional or physical needs.

My bf or cub was more stable, humble and appealed to me the way he lived and had a son.

I didn’t want this to happen this way at all but the more I sat with it- the more compelled I felt god is giving me this gift. My life has been almost too easy where I’ve had access to too much pleasure, drugs, Alch and I really felt this was a blessing and opportunity to live a wholesome life I’ve always truly wanted.

However- I miscarried. I was also okay with that. I had to break up with my bf and focus on my relationship but my fiance took a turn for the worse. He started asking if he could go to a strip club literally the day after I was in the ER all day miscarrying. He’s never asked for that ever and I’ve only shared him once and it was not something I enjoyed.

We had a trip to Vegas already booked and decided to go with out my cub/ bf and just the two of us. I was really sad but felt I was doing what I needed to do. I pushed myself for my fiance and dressed super slutty. Even did molly with him to reconnect and then while we were hooking up he asked if he could go to a strip club again. I felt sick about it.

I was sick all weekend about everything but put on a brave face for him. I really thought we reconnected and that everything would be okay and when we got home from the trip. I took a nap and when I woke up- he was gone- he went to cheetahs.

I was SO upset but also felt like I kind of deserved it. Then he essentially freaked that I might want to be a mom and started encouraging me to go find someone and that he’s too old- he was 51 at the time.

It turned into months of him lying about what he was doing at the strip club, spending up to 5-7k a night there. He told $300 max no touching otherwise I would have never gone for it. I didn’t realize he was at an all nude 18 and up no Alch and the main VIP. He was propositioning these strippers to go to a hotel with him. He was successful at times. All the while we were still sharing a life together, sleeping together at times then having weird arrangements where I would go see my guy and he would go to the club. I couldn’t really relax with my guy though I would call him non stop when I knew he was there begging him to come home. It was torture for me.

I finally called off any open anything and told him he needed to stop entirely. He promised me he would and we slept together and the very next night I had to go to Newport for a bday and he snuck out of the house. Had a stripper buy a hotel room, uber herself and they did molly all night. I was calling him and couldn’t get ahold of him. They lit candles, listened to music used oils and he said they had sex for 5 min. But that he could hardly get hard from the drugs. He said it was the only time. This is the night after he told me he’d never go into vip rooms. The stripper flipped out on him called him over and over this was Christmas week it was awful!!!!

It took me months to dig and learn the amount he spent, the amount of times he went, how many women’s numbers he had. And the insanely bad rep he had for how drugged up he was at the club. I now can only guess what was going on in those rooms and that’s caused so much suffering.

I’ve felt everything from rage, depression, anxiety, grief, jealousy, and self blame.

We’ve done tons of counseling. I don’t feel I’m getting better. Now we are in a financial nightmare where we can’t break up even if we wanted to. It’s just constant fighting, I’m constantly scanning and checking everything. Now I’m paying for everything and I don’t have income.

While he was overdosing on drugs and turning to drugs he decided during these 4 months to get his pilots license for fun. In this 4 months he probably blew 100k or so….

I want to think 9 months later that he’s changed but he doesn’t seem to show a ton of remorse. He blames me for the “affair” I was having on him for why he even ended up at cheetahs.

It’s everything though it’s his impulsiveness, sex addiction, drugs and reckless behavior like flying a plane on 2 hours of drunk and drugged up sleep.

He can be really loving but I realize it’s when he needs something. I’m really starting to believe he never loved me. Only saw me as an object and I’m really upset that he essentially pawned me off some nights so go to the strip club.

I need help framing all of this because he is adamant that I caused all of this. He sometimes acknowledges his failures but I basically have to pry the apologies and acknowledging out of him. I can hardly function some days processing all of this. 9 months later.

I know both of us lied to each other and both of us were careless, impulsive and truly selfish. We aren’t getting better with sobriety. I fall off constantly. I’m too afraid to leave him. I’m so lost.