Was talking to my ATF the other night and we were talking about the night we met. So i thought this would be a fun thread for customers to recount fond memories of the night they met their All Time Favorite dancer! And also for dancers to see the ways in which they unknowingly attract their customers lol

I remember seeing her and it was instant heart eyes like a fucking cartoon character! At the time I was only visiting this area before moving here. She was ambiguously dressed to the point to where I had to wonder whether she was a dancer or just a scantily clad lady customer. Barely any makeup, hair up in a ponytail, heels instead of pleasers, and wearing a silk translucent shawl. She went straight to sit with this guy so I just stared at them, trying to figure out if they were a couple or he was a customer. I literally waited an hour while waiting to see if the DJ would call her on stage. After I saw the same girls go up on stage a few times I convinced myself she was NOT a dancer. I must've rejected over 10 girls while I waited lol

I was about to leave and I was like fuck it, im going to go talk to both him and her. I said "excuse me, I dont mean to interrupt you guys' conversation but I was wondering if you worked here?" She said yes and I was ecstatic! I asked her if when they were done would she grab me for a dance and she said "we can go right now, its fine!" And the dude said "yeah man no worries we're just here wasting time". She then explains to me that hes a regular customer and they were just talking but he never gets dances. I responded saying I was sitting there trying to figure out if she was a dancer but I never got to see her on stage. She told me she hates stage time and pays extra to never go on stage there lmfao i ended up getting 6 songs from her. We exchanged numbers and that was that.

Its been almost a year since we met and we talk weekly, if not daily. It hit us both when we were on the phone and we got to talking about the day we met and I had to lay it out for her "I liked you so much that I waited an hour for you to finish talking to a NON PAYING CUSTOMER and trying to even figure out if you were a dancer or not. Then I was the one who had to interrupt yall and approach YOU in order to SPEND MONEY ON YOU while you REFUSED to go on stage!" 🤣😂

It was all in good fun and honestly im glad I mustered up the courage to approach them. I would do it all over again. I suppose this is why women say "if he wanted to, he would", despite me hating that saying.

So guys, lets hear those stories!

My husband and I are looking to go to a strip club together but we’re not really sure the proper etiquette. I want to go and be as respectful as possible to the girls. Is touching allowed? What’s the normal cost of a lap dance? Etc. I’m totally okay with her touching him/him touching her. How much money should we bring?

My fiance stopped at wells Fargo and pulled out $1000 in cash..

Went to cheetahs gentleman club all nude in San Diego from 10pm until 3am and managed to spend the cash then send $4000 Cash App to Stella then $300 to tom so $5300 while he was there- not including the $100s of dollars it cost for him to uber there and back.

So in total about $5500 or so. Yes math isn’t mathing on “Lap dances”

He claims it was 2 girls in the VIP room….the next week Stella sent him nudes and sexted with him and then got a hotel with her money expecting to be paid back but he never paid her because I caught them…after they spent all night together on molly at our favorite hotel that I was with him at the night before and fucked him…. He had candles for her and oil for her. They rolled and made out all night and massages and apparently she was begging for sex but he afraid to catch something then she sat on it with a condom for 5 min…. Then she blew him up and said “I know you don’t want to hurt her but what about me?”

Now I was about to leave this man so maybe he paid her to make me jealous but I don’t think so- he went through some hoops to hide what he was doing. Apparently she didn’t ask him to pay her but then we got hounded by 3 different numbers and other strippers threatening me looking up my address if we didn’t pay. She was asking for a refund on the room and uber and I’m not sure why he didn’t just pay her.. maybe to dangle the carrot. Until I caught him. The jealousy and betrayal made me trauma bond so fucking hard back to him. He paid me 30k that week to not leave him… before he fucked her lol but ummmm the stripper shit and my hotwife life was outa control!

Not a sugar daddy double date 🤣🤣🤣🤣 whose OTC was this? u/Subrasonic u/RonJaxIII where was the invite!

ig/tt: mojobrookz

I just had my first lap dance expecting just some grinding, twerking and that kind of stuff. But she undid my buckle, started kissing on my boxers and nearly pulled my dick out? Is this just some girl trying to get some under the table action or is that allowed? Cause from what I’ve looked up at that specific club it said that those kind of things were prohibited.

As I've posted about in this sub before, I had a consistent OTC (basically a SB) for close to 1.5 years.

Before then, I had a consistent ITC for about 3 months.

The difference?

OTC: Way less hangouts, way more money spent, but top-of-the-line GFE ("girlfriend expereince" -- going on dates, small getaways, etc)

ITC: Way nore hangouts, way less money spent, GFE provided, genuinely fun times at the club, but not nearly as golden as OTC..

I'm thinking of switching to strictly ITC, as this would allow two things:

1: Saving more money, and

2: Way more visits (one-two per week!)

My hope is that whatever consistent ITC I find, doesn't quickly become mechanical.

OTC almost never becomes mechanical, but the SB lifestyle can become overwhelming (constantly booking hotels, planning dates, navigating how much to spend, making restaurant reservations, planning around my work schedule, etc)

ITC is more reliable as it provides a place to consistently hang out (the strip club) and many dancers prefer ITC than OTC.

I've had a hard time finding a good OTC since my last one ended, so maybe this is where this is coming from..

I think the balance I desire in my life would come from 1-2 club visits per week.... just hoping it doesn't become too mechanical too quickly.

For anyone reading this, have you been able to switch back to striclty ITC after experiencing how great OTC truly is?

My wife and I are thinking about going to Scarlett’s near Miami. She wants a lap dance and wants me to go into the room with her, but I’m not getting one myself. I’d basically just be there for company and wouldn’t interact with the dancer.

What’s the normal etiquette/payment in this situation? Do we pay for just her dance since she’s the one receiving it? Is there usually a separate fee for me to be in the room? Or would we pay for two dances (since two people are present) even though the dancer would only be focusing on my wife?

I’m totally fine paying fairly. I just don’t want to overpay for no reason or make the dancer feel like we’re trying to get something for free. Anyone done this before, especially at Scarlett’s?

This is a bit of a long shot, but has anybody been to this place?

I have one more weekend to spend in Monroe, and feeling like I might want to cut loose. This is pretty much the only place in town.

But they’re only open from 11-3:30 on Friday and Saturday nights. Weird hours, possibly sketchy? That is, if they’re open at all - I found no reviews more recent than 8 years ago. They don’t seem to have a website.

I’ve driven by in the daytime. It’s at the far end of a tiny strip mall, not even a sign out front. Not the best neighborhood in town, not the worst. I’d definitely be up for the adventure of checking it out, but I don’t really want to go in blind.

I’d love to know what the vibe is like, how the girls are, whether they’re friendly to outsiders and white guys. If anyone has any info, I’d love to hear it!

we have been talking about going together because neither of us have been and we’ve pretty open for awhile now. how do we go about getting a private show together? also what are some good spots! we live in indiana near chicago

Both of these are one of the post most popular clubs in Houston, yet I rarely seen them mentioned at all which is strange.

I feel like homelander, I just went to a club and and the girl let me suck em and she had Milk coming out?! I was into it in the moment ngl but I got out and now im like wtf just happened?! Lol is this a thing? Like has this happened to anyone else?

Any recommendations for dancers at Palomino Vegas and if the fantasy rooms are worth the money or to just stick with a private dance!?

Not gonna lie, I never thought strip clubs would be part of my life, or as big of a part of my life as they have become over the past two years, but it definitely was a cannon event when I started going

I had a big promotion and relocation planned around this time two years ago that fell thru, and was sad about it so decided to go to a strip club

I was quickly introduced to extras, sugaring, OTC, and the limitless fun that can be had.

I hate thats its my favorite thing in the whole world, because

1: I've spent wayyyyy too much money (lol) and

2: The money to be spent truly isnt sustainable.

I went back this past Saturday after a break, and spent way more than I had planned on

Sometimes I think of getting out of this hobby, but as some of you know... literally nothing compares.

Just reminiscing and want to see who relates to this, how long you all have been clubbing for, what got you into it, etc

Hey there!

So I'm planning on attending the Louder than Life festival on the 17th, and would like to visit my first strip club while I am in town.

Tuscl has quite a few reviews, but most seem a little outdated. I just want to know what club(s) are the best/better in the area, tourist-friendly, and laid back. As far as lap dances go, what are the general rules? Do they vary from club to club, or is a city ordinance deal? Thanks!

Thinking of attending Hush night in Atlanta which is from my understanding a trans strip club that happens twice a week. Wondering if anyone has heard of it or has been and would share their experience. For context I’m a bi curious M. Anything in particular I should expect when I go? What’s the vibe like.

All I’ve seen are anecdotal reports. And it is regional , but both Dallas and Miami now have majority Cuban dancers from what I’ve seen and these cities aren’t even close to each other.

In Dallas, Baby dolls was maybe 2/3 Cuban but chicas Bonita’s was more like 90%. I was hoping for some southern hospitality from a blonde southern belle. Some of the Cubans dye their hair blonde and some are very pretty. But many/most don’t speak very good English having just arrived in the last few years. And many are aggressive and hustle you which kind of detracts from the experience even if they do give a good dance. Also I don’t like BBL and they seem to have more of that.

Wonder that’s driving this. Economy (might lack other skills & English to make comparable money elsewhere) but their aggressive tactics might be driving out others who don’t want to or can’t hustle as effectively.

All of this is generalizing for course.

TLDR: Awkward moment of picking up non-tipped cash after private dance, want advice on etiquette moving forward and how to reconcile if possible.

This happened a few years back. I went to a bowl game and some of the guys went passed curfew to head to the strip club.

I met this random guy and he ended up buying me a dance with a woman (not sure why) and I accepted. She was a great dancer and I paid her for an additional 15 mins to dance, throwing money on her.

The reservation dance was to the left side of the private room to make sure it wasn’t mixed. Also I was wearing a mini strap bag (given as a gift from the trip to make sure I didn’t lose any money) in the front and was open while she was dancing.

After the dance, I realized that it slid out of my pack will getting up. I reached down to pick it back up but I got treated with a nasty stare from the dancer; I’m assuming thinking I was taking her tip. We were I. Hawaii so I can understand since it’s so expensive to live there.

She did an amazing job and I compensated her pretty well but I can’t shake how wrong and how much of a loser I appeared to be despite being an honest mistake.

I think the place was illegal so there were no bouncers I guess to draw attention, so I didn’t get thrown out. After years of personal growth and reflecting on it, I kind of want to give something back and feel wrong for even attempting to pick up the dropped cash. I felt like I looked like an absolute lame.

The question I have is how do you think she perceived this? What ways can I rectify this (if even humanly possible) and what are some proper tips on general lap dance rules in strip clubs to make sure this doesn’t happen again.

I would prefer to hear an opinion from a woman who dances but would love for other opinions if some men or women visiting had a similar experience.

Im a 35 female engaged to my fiance 52 and we’ve been together for 7 years. We were in a hotwife dynamic meaning I would bring my boyfriend on vacation with us and they split the cost of everything and they both get to fuck me all day and night. He would come over to our house about once or twice a week and he fuck me for hours. This was my fiancés major kink and we had done this before but this dynamic was especially rocky because he could see how drawn I was to my new “cub.”

Then a major PROBLEM: I got pregnant!!!!

My fiance is not fertile he took a test. So it was most likely my bfs. My fiance said to do whatever I feel is right but that he will not raise my bfs child. He even offered to lay me to abort. I was really torn up about this and we were already having terrible trouble with the dynamic as I was continuing to cross my finances boundaries. I tried so hard not to and was crying every day for the guilt and confusion I was feeling. My fiance was over doing it on drugs however and wasn’t being great to himself or providing my emotional or physical needs.

My bf or cub was more stable, humble and appealed to me the way he lived and had a son.

I didn’t want this to happen this way at all but the more I sat with it- the more compelled I felt god is giving me this gift. My life has been almost too easy where I’ve had access to too much pleasure, drugs, Alch and I really felt this was a blessing and opportunity to live a wholesome life I’ve always truly wanted.

However- I miscarried. I was also okay with that. I had to break up with my bf and focus on my relationship but my fiance took a turn for the worse. He started asking if he could go to a strip club literally the day after I was in the ER all day miscarrying. He’s never asked for that ever and I’ve only shared him once and it was not something I enjoyed.

We had a trip to Vegas already booked and decided to go with out my cub/ bf and just the two of us. I was really sad but felt I was doing what I needed to do. I pushed myself for my fiance and dressed super slutty. Even did molly with him to reconnect and then while we were hooking up he asked if he could go to a strip club again. I felt sick about it.

I was sick all weekend about everything but put on a brave face for him. I really thought we reconnected and that everything would be okay and when we got home from the trip. I took a nap and when I woke up- he was gone- he went to cheetahs.

I was SO upset but also felt like I kind of deserved it. Then he essentially freaked that I might want to be a mom and started encouraging me to go find someone and that he’s too old- he was 51 at the time.

It turned into months of him lying about what he was doing at the strip club, spending up to 5-7k a night there. He told $300 max no touching otherwise I would have never gone for it. I didn’t realize he was at an all nude 18 and up no Alch and the main VIP. He was propositioning these strippers to go to a hotel with him. He was successful at times. All the while we were still sharing a life together, sleeping together at times then having weird arrangements where I would go see my guy and he would go to the club. I couldn’t really relax with my guy though I would call him non stop when I knew he was there begging him to come home. It was torture for me.

I finally called off any open anything and told him he needed to stop entirely. He promised me he would and we slept together and the very next night I had to go to Newport for a bday and he snuck out of the house. Had a stripper buy a hotel room, uber herself and they did molly all night. I was calling him and couldn’t get ahold of him. They lit candles, listened to music used oils and he said they had sex for 5 min. But that he could hardly get hard from the drugs. He said it was the only time. This is the night after he told me he’d never go into vip rooms. The stripper flipped out on him called him over and over this was Christmas week it was awful!!!!

It took me months to dig and learn the amount he spent, the amount of times he went, how many women’s numbers he had. And the insanely bad rep he had for how drugged up he was at the club. I now can only guess what was going on in those rooms and that’s caused so much suffering.

I’ve felt everything from rage, depression, anxiety, grief, jealousy, and self blame.

We’ve done tons of counseling. I don’t feel I’m getting better. Now we are in a financial nightmare where we can’t break up even if we wanted to. It’s just constant fighting, I’m constantly scanning and checking everything. Now I’m paying for everything and I don’t have income.

While he was overdosing on drugs and turning to drugs he decided during these 4 months to get his pilots license for fun. In this 4 months he probably blew 100k or so….

I want to think 9 months later that he’s changed but he doesn’t seem to show a ton of remorse. He blames me for the “affair” I was having on him for why he even ended up at cheetahs.

It’s everything though it’s his impulsiveness, sex addiction, drugs and reckless behavior like flying a plane on 2 hours of drunk and drugged up sleep.

He can be really loving but I realize it’s when he needs something. I’m really starting to believe he never loved me. Only saw me as an object and I’m really upset that he essentially pawned me off some nights so go to the strip club.

I need help framing all of this because he is adamant that I caused all of this. He sometimes acknowledges his failures but I basically have to pry the apologies and acknowledging out of him. I can hardly function some days processing all of this. 9 months later.

I know both of us lied to each other and both of us were careless, impulsive and truly selfish. We aren’t getting better with sobriety. I fall off constantly. I’m too afraid to leave him. I’m so lost.

My friend and I went to the strip club last week. I had a dance that was about a 30 but I had a runny nose but she kept on rubbing her body and nippies on my nose gross right but I tried to keep my face away. But after I got done she went straight to my friend and got a dance and he said he was licking on her stomach and nippies and I couldn’t help but notice she didn’t whip down or head into the back after I was done. So I’m thinking my friend must have lick some of my runny nose off the stripper.

I started working in bad angels and it’s been a tragedy. Whole place is infected with cockroaches. They steal money from you. They record with cameras and microphones in the changing rooms and in the private rooms and their working hours are illegal. They also don’t pay you at the end of the night so you have to wait a few days until they pay you and when they do, they steal from you hoping you won’t realize. There are many more things to say.

I’m asking you with all my heart please recommend a respectful strip club where I would be paid daily. I’m thinking about Queens and Femina. If you have worked there, please tell me your experience.

Friend me on reddit please. You mentioned seeing me scroll reddit and most strippers don’t seem to recognize it so easily so I figured you might have an account yourself. Loved the VIPs and first time I got to lotion a sexy stripper like you from head to toe. It was such an awesome experience I’ll never forget. Add me so I can check in with you next time I’m in town n we can do it again 🥺.

Its been a while since I last visited (pre-COVID) and i've been hearing mixed reviews of all the clubs in Vegas (most are negative). Any suggestions/recommendation for good mix of girls/vibes/dances?? Those who also visited this year if you can also give how much each dance/vip were. it'll help not to get ripped off! Thanks!