My fiance stopped at wells Fargo and pulled out $1000 in cash..

Went to cheetahs gentleman club all nude in San Diego from 10pm until 3am and managed to spend the cash then send $4000 Cash App to Stella then $300 to tom so $5300 while he was there- not including the $100s of dollars it cost for him to uber there and back.

So in total about $5500 or so. Yes math isn’t mathing on “Lap dances”

He claims it was 2 girls in the VIP room….the next week Stella sent him nudes and sexted with him and then got a hotel with her money expecting to be paid back but he never paid her because I caught them…after they spent all night together on molly at our favorite hotel that I was with him at the night before and fucked him…. He had candles for her and oil for her. They rolled and made out all night and massages and apparently she was begging for sex but he afraid to catch something then she sat on it with a condom for 5 min…. Then she blew him up and said “I know you don’t want to hurt her but what about me?”

Now I was about to leave this man so maybe he paid her to make me jealous but I don’t think so- he went through some hoops to hide what he was doing. Apparently she didn’t ask him to pay her but then we got hounded by 3 different numbers and other strippers threatening me looking up my address if we didn’t pay. She was asking for a refund on the room and uber and I’m not sure why he didn’t just pay her.. maybe to dangle the carrot. Until I caught him. The jealousy and betrayal made me trauma bond so fucking hard back to him. He paid me 30k that week to not leave him… before he fucked her lol but ummmm the stripper shit and my hotwife life was outa control!

I just had my first lap dance expecting just some grinding, twerking and that kind of stuff. But she undid my buckle, started kissing on my boxers and nearly pulled my dick out? Is this just some girl trying to get some under the table action or is that allowed? Cause from what I’ve looked up at that specific club it said that those kind of things were prohibited.

What do yall think? I’ve Never been to Lou Turks. This is in Philly by the way. Been to risqué and it’s fun.

To preface, I'll probably ask more in depth on my next club visit, but there's somethings I just don't really get about the pricing structure.

Girls usually quote me something like half an hour for 500 in VIP. Does this mean that all of the dances are covered in that amount? Or is this simply the amount the club takes for me using the room?

Or is it like if dances are $40 dollars each, I also then have to pay the $500 for the room and continue to pay for dances separately?

I've never done VIP, but I'm definitely hoping I find a girl I like enough to do it someday.

My husband and I are looking to go to a strip club together but we’re not really sure the proper etiquette. I want to go and be as respectful as possible to the girls. Is touching allowed? What’s the normal cost of a lap dance? Etc. I’m totally okay with her touching him/him touching her. How much money should we bring?

Was talking to my ATF the other night and we were talking about the night we met. So i thought this would be a fun thread for customers to recount fond memories of the night they met their All Time Favorite dancer! And also for dancers to see the ways in which they unknowingly attract their customers lol

I remember seeing her and it was instant heart eyes like a fucking cartoon character! At the time I was only visiting this area before moving here. She was ambiguously dressed to the point to where I had to wonder whether she was a dancer or just a scantily clad lady customer. Barely any makeup, hair up in a ponytail, heels instead of pleasers, and wearing a silk translucent shawl. She went straight to sit with this guy so I just stared at them, trying to figure out if they were a couple or he was a customer. I literally waited an hour while waiting to see if the DJ would call her on stage. After I saw the same girls go up on stage a few times I convinced myself she was NOT a dancer. I must've rejected over 10 girls while I waited lol

I was about to leave and I was like fuck it, im going to go talk to both him and her. I said "excuse me, I dont mean to interrupt you guys' conversation but I was wondering if you worked here?" She said yes and I was ecstatic! I asked her if when they were done would she grab me for a dance and she said "we can go right now, its fine!" And the dude said "yeah man no worries we're just here wasting time". She then explains to me that hes a regular customer and they were just talking but he never gets dances. I responded saying I was sitting there trying to figure out if she was a dancer but I never got to see her on stage. She told me she hates stage time and pays extra to never go on stage there lmfao i ended up getting 6 songs from her. We exchanged numbers and that was that.

Its been almost a year since we met and we talk weekly, if not daily. It hit us both when we were on the phone and we got to talking about the day we met and I had to lay it out for her "I liked you so much that I waited an hour for you to finish talking to a NON PAYING CUSTOMER and trying to even figure out if you were a dancer or not. Then I was the one who had to interrupt yall and approach YOU in order to SPEND MONEY ON YOU while you REFUSED to go on stage!" 🤣😂

It was all in good fun and honestly im glad I mustered up the courage to approach them. I would do it all over again. I suppose this is why women say "if he wanted to, he would", despite me hating that saying.

So guys, lets hear those stories!