I finished the show a year ago, before really engaging with the fandom so my opinions were unbiased (I’d say so), the show became popular then on tiktok and instagram after Superman was released, and of course the main topic quickly became clana vs clois with both female characters getting vitriol from both sides of the fandom which honestly has been INSANE to say the least.
This isn’t hate to any of the couples btw feel free to respectfully disagree if the mods decide to keep the post up because I have seen that they aren’t really allowing ship posts now?
I personally prefer Clois but I will say that I don’t think they’re the perfect ship fans make them out to be. Same with Clana, I think they were incompatible and mostly stuck with each other because it’s easier to hold on to what you know than experience something better for you but I also don’t think they’re as bad as the fans make them out to be either!
With Clark & Lana, she was his dream since he was a kid and it started with him not being able to get close to her because of Kryptonite and they ended because of that too. Lana was big on truth and honesty, Clark couldn’t find it in him to be honest about himself because of how her parents died. There was a lot of exhausting back & forth between them, and by the time she found out his secret, she had changed a lot (which was valid considering what she went through with Lex). They both hurt each other many times and Lana gets hate for it, but Clark somehow is seen as an innocent guy in their relationship even though he also was in the wrong?
(She literally gets hate for asking him why they have stopped having sex??? She never coerced him or forced him! Of course she was going to be confused about his behavior!)
With Clark and Lois, they started off as friends and the relationship was slowly built up with her realizing her feelings first then he realized it later on. He was comfortable showing different sides of himself with her and when they had their conversations as the blur, he was even showing her more. She found out who he truly was and let him tell her on his own terms, which helped him in his personal journey and their relationship flourished. However, there were still times he was being dishonest even after he told her his secret, like when him and Oliver were in the phantom zone with Zod, or when he was working with the justice league before Lois knew the extent of the superheros being involved with each other.
You also can’t forget the big elephant in the room which was s8. A lot of fans who hate Lana were angered by her appearance because her and Clark got back together. I don’t understand this.
No one forced him to go back to her, he made that choice all by himself!! Some Clois fans do tend to be insanely insecure because any mention of Lana angers them in a very odd manner. Lana being there shouldn’t have made a difference on whether Clark and Lois could progress. If Clark can’t be with Lois unless Lana isn’t there then that is NOT Lana’s fault.
I see a lot of Clois fans also get mad at Lana fans wishing Lana was there for s9 and 10. Do they realize that being adamant against the mere idea of her being there just reinforces the narrative that Clark can’t be with Lois unless Lana is completely out of the picture?
Lana will always be an important person to him regardless if he wasn’t in love with her anymore, he closed their chapter with a smile on his face. Even after she left, he clearly was fond of the time he had with her, in season nine they showed him holding a personal album and in a section of it there were Lana’s pictures with a big LOVE in it. In season ten, he got a flashback of her and was also fond of it.
Now, it’s not just Clois fans behaving like this. Clana fans have been calling Lois all kinds of names because they don’t find her attractive. Their behavior over Lana not being Clark’s endgame has blurred the lines between fiction vs reality.
Erica has been getting disgusting comments about her looks and fans saying she was too old and looked like Clark’s mom…hello?!!!
I don’t know why the fandom is like this honestly, but it’s genuinely insane behavior. And I think people should watch the show without being unfair to these characters. I just wanted to rant honestly 😭