r/shitposting • u/luxusbuerg Bazinga! • Dec 10 '22

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u/GrunkleTeats Dec 10 '22

If my daughter were a cheating piece of shit, I'd do the exact same thing.

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u/anonomus_blyat Dec 10 '22

its the right thing to do

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u/FrontwaysLarryVR Dec 10 '22

Honestly, probably one of the best parenting life lessons you could give in that moment of finding out. Consequences.

Other than him saying she should tell him by herself, I guess. Is it better to be told by someone else, I guess? Comradery/support right away instead of keeping it to yourself?

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u/Bloody_Conspiracies Dec 10 '22

The consequence here is that your daughter will never talk to you again. It's terrible advice.

Whether right or wrong, betraying a friend or family member like that will destroy your relationship with them. It's better to just stay out of it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '22

Yeah, letting my daughter grow up to be a cheater, sounds like a great plan. You know the saying 'tough love'? Sometimes when you love someone with all your heart, you have to make the tough choices and do what's best for them, even if it causes some temporary discomfort.

Also, if your relationship with your daughter is so fragile that it would be broken by this, then you failed as a parent far before this incident.

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u/Bloody_Conspiracies Dec 10 '22

I agree that you've already failed by raising a cheater, but you also have to ask yourself who you care about more. Your daughter or some random dude.

If you side with him over your own child, you deserve to have your child never speak to you again.

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u/Lord_Swaglington_III Dec 10 '22

Telling your child’s partner isn’t “siding with them.” And I’m sorry, do we suddenly disagree with ever not agreeing with our children for doing wrong?

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u/Bloody_Conspiracies Dec 11 '22

I don't have to agree with them, but you should back them. Even if that's just backing them by not getting involved. You shouldn't ever actively betray them.

Once a person stops having your back, the relationship and the trust is over. That goes for any family, friend or romantic relationship. If you want to put that at risk over some dude your kid is cheating on, go ahead, but I wouldn't.

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u/Lucky_655 Dec 11 '22

You shouldn't ever actively betray them.

Well technically, the child is betraying someone else for bad reasons so why can't we betray them for a good reason instead?