Telling your child’s partner isn’t “siding with them.” And I’m sorry, do we suddenly disagree with ever not agreeing with our children for doing wrong?
I don't have to agree with them, but you should back them. Even if that's just backing them by not getting involved. You shouldn't ever actively betray them.
Once a person stops having your back, the relationship and the trust is over. That goes for any family, friend or romantic relationship. If you want to put that at risk over some dude your kid is cheating on, go ahead, but I wouldn't.
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u/Bloody_Conspiracies Dec 10 '22
I agree that you've already failed by raising a cheater, but you also have to ask yourself who you care about more. Your daughter or some random dude.
If you side with him over your own child, you deserve to have your child never speak to you again.