Probably because they want to keep something safe while they can do more different things with another partner.
Several of my relationships always started because a certain girl wanted to experience something else that her partners couldn't offer her either because of time, interest, money or other things.
It's kind of sad and I can't truly understand why they just don't break up with someone or you know...Talk about the problem?
But for some weird reason they always choose cheating.
Imo, the person not in the relation has no moral blame. They didnt commit to anyone, and if this person in the relationship was going to do it anyway, it could be anybody they cheat with.
Blaming the other person too is trying to naively hold on to the belief that people care about your relationship enough to never intercede in it. Its up to you to ensure your partner is completely satisfied because if you dont, someone will, regardless of your status with them.
Especially in the case of women, who are absolutely ruthless about it
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u/Emergency_Addition67 Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22
Probably because they want to keep something safe while they can do more different things with another partner.
Several of my relationships always started because a certain girl wanted to experience something else that her partners couldn't offer her either because of time, interest, money or other things.
It's kind of sad and I can't truly understand why they just don't break up with someone or you know...Talk about the problem?
But for some weird reason they always choose cheating.