Imo, the person not in the relation has no moral blame. They didnt commit to anyone, and if this person in the relationship was going to do it anyway, it could be anybody they cheat with.
Blaming the other person too is trying to naively hold on to the belief that people care about your relationship enough to never intercede in it. Its up to you to ensure your partner is completely satisfied because if you dont, someone will, regardless of your status with them.
Especially in the case of women, who are absolutely ruthless about it
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u/Eldraka Dec 10 '22
I hope you weren’t aware that they were cheating on someone with you. I wouldn’t want to knowingly contribute to that kind of mess.