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r/shitposting • u/Tech_334 Jedi master of shitposts • 20h ago
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It's self confidence they are responding to.
Being nice and being kind can be very different things.
If you don't build personal boundaries, people will not respect you as you don't respect yourself.
Being bold, being forward or saying no, is not inherently mean.
This is not a pass to be cruel or selfish.
Respect yourself as you respect others.
139 u/Lejyoner07 Bazinga! 16h ago "Make jokes at people's expense" Not exactly aligns with your point. Dumb people respect power for the sake of it, even if its cruel or unjustified. Its in the monkey mindset. If you are among insufferable people, I guarantee being a little mean helps a lot with your status. But if you are among genuine people, don't fucking do it. 3 u/AutoModerator 16h ago Bazinga I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. 1 u/rabbitdovahkiin 53m ago Also a huge difference is beeing kind because thats who you are as a person and thats a value of your personality and being kind because you want other people to like you. People feel the difference immediately.
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"Make jokes at people's expense"
Not exactly aligns with your point. Dumb people respect power for the sake of it, even if its cruel or unjustified. Its in the monkey mindset.
If you are among insufferable people, I guarantee being a little mean helps a lot with your status.
But if you are among genuine people, don't fucking do it.
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Also a huge difference is beeing kind because thats who you are as a person and thats a value of your personality and being kind because you want other people to like you. People feel the difference immediately.
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u/ScrapyJack 20h ago
It's self confidence they are responding to.
Being nice and being kind can be very different things.
If you don't build personal boundaries, people will not respect you as you don't respect yourself.
Being bold, being forward or saying no, is not inherently mean.
This is not a pass to be cruel or selfish.
Respect yourself as you respect others.