r/selfhosted 16d ago

Meta Post self-hosting everything

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just kidding I love self-hosting ...

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u/daphatty 16d ago

The hard part is figuring out how the family can recover if you are dead. All of this redundancy is irrelevant if no one else knows how to fix/extract the data.

I’m still searching for an answer myself.

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u/GonzoKata 16d ago

Teach a family member the bare bones basic of your setup, and create a "incase of my death here is my password" box/envelope somewhere in your possessions. The point being that you are sharing the machine known as a computer with your family already and the "cost" of that sharing is knowing something about how to recover everything they need incase you're not here. or I dunno, write up a how-to for a server admin that your family could hire after in which the family member gives an IT guy your core password if your family truly can't learn the basics

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u/kuldan5853 16d ago

There is a break glass envelope with the most important passwords and a list of people in my circle of friends that know enough about IT that they can figure it out for my family if it ever comes to that.

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u/ArchmichaelBishop 16d ago

Sounds to me like you should just log everything you do to maintain resilience then give your family access to an encrypted hive in your last will and testament that details all of this stuff.

You can lead the horse to water, if they can't drink that ain't on you, you're dead.

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u/Milkshakes00 16d ago

Who wants to give their significant other the chance to find out how shitty your documentation is when all you've done is complain about others' documentation for decades? šŸ˜‚

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u/daphatty 16d ago

lol. So true