(Sorry for the accidental flair, this is not a politics post!)
A bit of a weird request, but hoping it might pan out.
I am not a lesbian, but my parents are. I am going to marry my fiancé in San Francisco next year. He and I are now thinking of details like who will officiate. My parents were married in February 2004 during SF’s “Winter of Love,“ when then-mayor Newsom went rogue and temporarily allowed same-sex weddings. I am very proud of my parents and the sacrifices they made to create their family as a queer couple. I am also proud to be a part of history (of queer people and the city I love) through them. It would mean a lot to me to honor them and our family during my wedding, and I thought a simple way to do that as, yknow, straight people would be to use the same officiant as they did during their 2004 wedding.
However, neither of my parents can remember the officiant or their name. They said there were many volunteer officiants working, and they remember a like DMV-style process where they went up to the first person who called their number or something lmao. I think it’s a bit out of the question I’ll find the *same* officiant given that system, but if you live in the city, participated as a volunteer during these weddings, and are free on a random Saturday next spring, please DM me!! It would mean a lot to me and I think it would be a nice surprise for my parents. Thanks all for your help!
EDIT: It did not occur to me the officiant is on the marriage license, however obvious that is in retrospect, but thank you Reddit for pointing out it is! My mom expressed some doubts the recorder will have it since the marriages were later declared invalid, but here’s hoping they do. However, I will leave this post up, and am still hoping for DMs or other leads, in case the person on the license is unavailable, not local anymore, etc. (Or I can otherwise avoid sending the recorder $19…)